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Why so many Chinese women married to foreign White men?

@Anonymous1615 Time : 2016-08-01 17:38:54

I know Asian women in general love Western men and many are married to them, but Chinese women takes the top spot when in comes to dating white men it seems. In the US 40% of all married Chinese women are married to white caucasion husbands.

Im not saying its a bad thing at all, because i absoluately love the idea of white men and chinese women being together like a dragon and pheonix or yin and yang etc. 

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From: Netherlands @Macchap Time : 2016-08-03 09:11:01 #1

There's only one way to find out and that is by asking the couple the question are they married? When the answer is yes, ask the Chinese woman why she has married him and not a Chinese man. Do this for a week or two, collect their answers and please report your findings, deal?

From: China 江苏(jiang su) 苏州(su zhou ) @JFjane Time : 2016-08-04 14:17:42 #2

@Anonymous1615  BF searched the data on Google  : in 2010 37% of Asian women who got married in the US married a Caucasian men  ,the ABA (ASIANS BORNED IN AMERICA) 51% married with Caucasian men ...I dont know if the data is correct.

@Anonymous25157 Time : 2016-08-14 01:47:27 #3

Interesing post. First off I would check into Chinese culture as to the significance of the colour white, secondly what qualities/traits do white western men have that Chinese men dont have that Chinese women are seeking in a man for marriage.


hope this helps....

From: Canada British Columbia Coquitlam @catincoq Time : 2016-08-20 01:34:35 #4

There are several reasons:  One is that Chinese culture is male centric or revolves around the male. In many families the male children are downright spoiled and fawned apon, while the daughters have the ideal that they are second best ingrained on them. When women get married there, many simply become another mother to the guys....the wives even have to perform maid services to the husbands family. 

Asian women are now becomming enlightened and are fed up with this kind of arrangement. They see it as bullshit, so they will go and be with someone who treats them as an equal and is basically nice to them. Caucasian males fit into that catagory. 

Another reason: Culture: there is a culture of violence towards women by their husbands in china. The authorities do not like to get involved as they see it as a family matter. Huh? F**king nonsense if you ask me this type of "policy". Again, asian ladies are letting the light bulb come on and leaving. 

Yet another: Economics: In China like no other country, there has been an explosion of women who are quickly becomming wealthy and economically independant. They realize they do not need a man to survive, let alone an asshole chinese husband. So they are 88 and out the gate looking for better, which is in the west.  Many asian and chinese ladies flock towards western styles, cars, way of life...etc etc... so why not a nice caucasian man. 

Just my opinion. 

From: United States California Vista @MarcoPolo180 Time : 2016-08-23 10:54:30 #5

Recent Western colonialism / domiance during the 18-20th century in China might play a role in this relationship, we are stil living in the aftermath of what happened in the past--but I will say today lots of Chinese women respect and idoilize Western civliation so it is natural for them to want to marry a white man. 

@JFjane that sounds very accurate, it is extremely common to see an Asian woman with a White man. Many Chinese-American women are married to Caucasion men, 40% is around the ball pack figure. 

In China, is it hard to believe that millions of  women also have Western husbands? not including the Chinese mail-order brides that White men take back to their own country.

Note to White men: enjoy Chinese women all you can now, because in 30-50 years Chinese women might become loyal to their own country and Western men will no longer be as diserable. 

@Anonymous25199 Time : 2016-08-23 14:35:30 #6

all my white western expat friernds as well as a couple of black western friends, including myself (white male) are all married to Chinese women. well we do all do live in the middle kingdom afterall, so thats expected i guess. Chinese women really love us white men lol we should not be asking why and questioning something good like this. the CHinese call us 'white devils' and i dont blame them, we've been stealing their women for centuries...literally hundreds of years from the 17th century until even now. without getting too deep into China's rich history with foreign conquerors, white western men traditionally and historically were in the postion of power over China and Chinese people over the last 3 centuries. 

@Anonymous25205 Time : 2016-08-25 02:33:13 #7

@Anonymous25199 I agree, why question a good thing... I would tend to eamend your statement that "Chinese" call us white devils, it is the Chinese men who call us the white devils. Yes we have been attracting, not stealing their women for centuries. Maybe because we treat them better like a woman not a possession. If the men are too stubborn to realize this it is on them. It is hard for them to change their ways after centuries of training....right?

On one of Barry's blogs he mentined that "Tina suddenly said to him: "western men have bigger penises than Chinese men"

Not saying this is the only reason but I would surmise that it does have something to do with why Chinese women are attracted to white men, not all but alot.

At the end of the day maybe it is all the reasons we have all stated but the only ones who know for sure are the Chinese women....

@Anonymous25228 Time : 2016-09-05 20:07:35 #8

@catincoq couldn't agree with you more. Well put.

However some of the other responses here reek of arrogance and bigotry I hope the said chinese ladies are trying to avoid.

From: China 广东(guang dong) 深圳(shen zhen ) @Juanler Time : 2016-09-07 23:53:40 #9


China has a lot of women like Jane is traditional, simple, dedication to the love, as long as the men give them enough sense of security and love.

@Anonymous25263 Time : 2016-09-19 16:21:27 #10



I totally agree with you sir.. ! For most if not almost every single women in China, a white Caucasian man would make a very compatible and obvious choice for a ideal lover partner.

Chinese women in general are very fond of foreign men, and by foreign I mean White only. 




@Anonymous25264 Time : 2016-09-19 18:40:46 #11


China have a lot of women that lust very strongly for Western men, but still they are also like you say, traditional, simple, dedicated to love but also very sensual and romantice in the bedroom.

@Anonymous25411 Time : 2016-11-18 13:08:28 #12

because chinese women have been attracted to white men for a super long time. ever since the days of marco polo which is way back in the be fair, there was lust and attraction going both ways. 

@Anonymous25413 Time : 2016-11-19 09:15:21 #13

The answer is not what you are asking.  The real question is not asking why there are so many chinese women married to western men, but should really asking: how can we sustain it?

My question will be towards that question.  Continue to produce more media content (movies, shows, dramas, songs) that show Chinese women being with White men, that’s why movies are the most effective.  Keep dating Chinese women, the pool is virtually infinite, remember the one-child policy and gender imbalance doesn't affect you, a foreign white man. White men have full unrestricted access to Chinese women.  Finally, make real history. White men and Chinese women should do great things together and make their name on history. 

@Anonymous25414 Time : 2016-11-19 11:24:39 #14

My wife is Chinese and I asked her this question. She said this: because her mixed children will be absolutely beautiful, only half joking. A lot, a lot of Chinese women believe that mixed Chinese-white children are the most beautiful and many will go to great lengths and try to seek out foreign men for exactly this reason. Chinese women seducing, luring white men into their secret sex dungeons! maybe this can be more than just a fantasy ha ha!

One thing to note is that about 80-90% of mixed Chinese-white children population, the mother is almost always Chinese and the father is White Caucasian. 

It is a very skewed but this has always been the pattern with white men and chinese girls 

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