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China
新疆(xin jiang)
乌鲁木齐(wu lu mu qi )
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2013-06-07 18:12:39
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@JohnAbbot
Mr.John,Thanks for your commenting.
I have to admit that I couldn't express myself fully when I write in English. So I'm determined to read more books in English to improve my writing skills in this summer Vacation.
First,I must state that I am not a narrow-minded racist.I respect myself and I respect all creatures on the earth, including all members on the CLM, except scammers.
You know in Chinese culture ,when you say somebody is a pig, which is an insult to the person. We say a dirty pig and a lazy pig. I don't think the Chinese men are dirty and lazy ,on the contrary , most of the Chinese men are very hard working. Among these men are my family and friends. I respect them and love them.
You know what terrible ages the Chinese people have ever had. Now we are suffering so many social problems, including the food safety(food safety issues caused by enterprises and restaurants'food production and processing, not cooking ways at home), which is the biggest problem in China for the time being. We have no choice but to endure it. In between being starved to death and was poisoned , we can only choose to be poisoned. As common people, what can we do ?
Characters are formed by the environment. The Chinese 's characters are shaped by China's history and culture, which have two sides. I have read some postings and blogs written by some Chinese women, saying how bad their Chinese husbands treat them, Which I think exists in some families and in some regions, not all over China.This problem doesn't exist only in China. Some Chinese women also wrote their west men treat them badly,very selfish and stingy, maybe this is caused by their own problems.
I only choose to live with a man who respects me and loves me from his bottom of the heart. I won't give any man any chance to treat me badly,because I'm a mature and independent woman, I have an ability to tell good from bad and to protect my dignity and living from being hurt.
Human natures have much in common, but only there are differences in personalities.