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What would you do when you are sick?

From: China 广东(guang dong) 广州(guang zhou ) @Marrisa Time : 2013-12-29 02:24:22

No matter how I try, I can't fall in sleep. My cough really kills me. I have spent all my time at home .today -- on CLM to be exactly. :0) I am wondering what would people think and do when they are sick. So I decide to throw my first thread.

Today, I am a bit moody. It seems I haven't been in such a bad situation for a long time. Difficult to utter a voice, cough constantly. Medical treatment didn't work at all. It even makes me think that maybe I am in the last time of my life and I am thinking would I feel regret if I am really in the last time of my life now? Yes, I think I feel regret that I am single and I got through all the things by myself, happy or sad. So I stay on CLM. Haha. I feel like I am really a 女汉子。Searching Mr. Right when I am sick. Hahaha!!!

But it is hard. I really don't know where he will be, From where, I can find him out -- the one who matchs me. The one, who won't tell me that I am so immatured to my age, the one who won't mind I still do many things like a school girl. the one who won't think I am not so realistic. The one who won't think I am crazy. The one who are happy to be with me ......

In fact, I believe in long distance relationship. I believe if both of two are willing to be patient and overcome all the difficulties caused by the distance, their love will be more romantic and stronger.

2014 is approaching. I am getting so sick during the last week in 2013. Does that mean all the bad luck will be gone with 2013. Will 2014 be a totally brand new year? Will I end up with hand in hand with him, my Mr. Right?

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From: China 浙江(zhe jiang) 杭州(hang zhou ) @JohnAbbot Time : 2013-12-30 14:05:10 #1
@Marrisa - nice thread Marrisa. Now that I am married to a great Chinese woman, when I'm sick I spend the day whining constantly to her about how crappy I feel, which doesn't do much for her but somehow makes me feel a little better. Incidentally she does the same thing to me when she feels sick. Which seems like proof we really are a great match, right? I hope 2014 is your year to find your great match here on CLM.
From: China 江苏(jiang su) 苏州(su zhou ) @aussieghump Time : 2013-12-30 18:00:17 #2
Drink more water!!!

Hahaha! Chinese Medicine #1 Cure.
I just felt I had to say it here - I don't know how many times I have been told this answer when I have been feeling sick!

Hope you feel better soon!
From: Canada British Columbia Vancouver @Imi5922 Time : 2013-12-30 20:45:35 #3
@Marrisa- I like your tread Marrisa! I don't get sick easily, actually I haven't seen a doctor for 16 years now, so I don't know what I would do if I got sick.

I know one thing for sure though.The best remedy for you would be if your Mr. Right was at your side right now. : ) I hope you will feel better soon and wish you good luck finding the right "medicine"in 2014. Happy New Year!
From: China 广东(guang dong) 广州(guang zhou ) @Marrisa Time : 2013-12-30 21:07:07 #4
Thanks John. You and your wife are great matches. Your description makes me have an imagination of two naughty children. You two 撒娇 to each other. I really "envy" this kind of feeling between a couple.
And I feel a bit sorry to post this thread, because when I read it again, I feel like that I take CLM forum as my own diary. I should post something more informative and more entertaining.
Finally, thanks for your kind words. No matter I find a match or not, I think 2014 will be good year because I am trying my best. :0)
From: China 湖北(hu bei) 黄冈(huang gang ) @zhshwu Time : 2013-12-30 23:44:33 #5
Happy New Year!

Promise a good wish,
I wish you a Happy New Year again and again.
Send a wonderful feeling,
Wishing you all things round.
Send a nice gift,
I wish you a sweet smile.
Happy New Year!
From: China 山东(shan dong) 济南(ji nan ) @loveF Time : 2013-12-31 07:52:12 #6
Dear sister , i understand you and your emotion . i hope the new year approaching will drive way the bad luck for you and bring you a Mr. Right , once you meet a right person , everything may be right , he would accept you whether you are unrealistic or crazy or not . you don't have to be so strong when you are in a hard time because you have him(h).

yes we are single we must be strong and independent in all the regular days , we are able to take good care of ourselves . due to the increasing life stress and working pressure the " female men" have been created , but in my view none of women wants to be a female man . when we are sick we are just tender and fragile women who need love and protection . well my answer to your question , what do i think and do when i am sick , more than one year ago ,without that guy ,when i was sick , i just lay in bed waiting and suffering(rain) after i took pills , sometimes when i had to try to get up for a cup of water i felt so bad , absolutely an unpleasant experience ! now with him things changed , I will tell him and enjoy his worry and care. last time when i was sick , i told that guy "i am sick , i need your help " he went to a drug store and bought some medicine for me , but when the package he sent reached me after a long run , i had been completely recovered .
From: China 湖北(hu bei) 武汉(wu han ) @panda2009 Time : 2013-12-31 14:24:06 #7
Be happy, be strong! I wish untold happiness around you in 2014!
From: China 浙江(zhe jiang) 杭州(hang zhou ) @JohnAbbot Time : 2013-12-31 15:28:29 #8
@Marrisa - I think that the forum is intended for everyone on CLM to use as their diary. It is expressing personal thoughts and feelings about ourselves that helps those members of other cultures best understand our own cultures and us. I think this was a great thread. It was just so beautifully real and human! (clap)
From: China 广东(guang dong) 广州(guang zhou ) @Marrisa Time : 2013-12-31 18:06:47 #9
You are totally right. "Drink more water!!!" definitely is the Medicine No.1. Everyone give this prescription to me.:DThank you and Happy New Year..
Wow. You are the IRON man. Envying. 羡慕妒忌恨中.... Thanks for your prescription too. I hope Santa Clause didn't forget to send my Mr. right out from his sack this year. (giggle)Thank you and Happy New Year.
Thank you and Happy New Year.:)
Thank you and Happy New Year.:)
From: China 广东(guang dong) 广州(guang zhou ) @Marrisa Time : 2013-12-31 18:41:35 #10
Really appreciate your kind words. Your story warms me up everytime.
Do you know what I did the next day. I got up and cleaned the apartment, washed all the bed sheets and covers, opened all the windows and doors. Cursing the virus. I felt that I better not do the things like lying down there hoping for someone. That's not something for me. Now, reading your words, I am cheered up again. 我忍不住的又开始憧憬着有一天有跟你一样的幸福。(blush) Happy New Year and all the best wishes to you.

Thanks again and Happy New Year. :)
From: China 江苏(jiang su) 苏州(su zhou ) @yeranyi Time : 2013-12-31 21:04:37 #11
haha ,yes ,drink more water !

how are you now Marrisa ?

Do more GYM exercise ,it makes you strong.

I swim from monday to friday , 500 meters * 5 days = 2500 m , 10 KM/ month!

keep swimming ,then less catch a cold. Physical exercise is the best medcine.
From: China 福建(fu jian) 福州(fu zhou ) @destiny1 Time : 2013-12-31 22:24:42 #12
hi Marrisa ,一个人的日子有很多的无奈,爱自己多一点。祝你新年快乐!
From: China @QinQL Time : 2014-01-01 02:27:22 #13
Marrisa- dear sister, let me tell you what would i do if i feel sick. hope it could help you feel better.If i got sick, i would accept the truth. See the doctor, go to sleep and would get up when i want, drink more water as aussieghump's good suggestion, let my families look after me , Incidentally i would do the same when anyone of my families feels sick.....

I think the most important you need now is exactly what Imi5922 advised to you, he seems the best doctor to you this time. try your best to have the "medicine" from doctor Imi5922 told you, i am sure you would feel better soon as well.

Happy New Year to you all , so many kind people on CLM i have found.
From: United States @Anonymouth Time : 2014-01-01 12:29:53 #14
@Marrisa I have a permenant Illness/condition, and so does my fiancee. We still found each other and we are OK with each others health issues. We love each other for all the right reasons and we will care for each other when we need caring and when our conditions cause us trouble.

There is someone out there for everyone. There was a point when I was quite down and questioned whether I will ever find real love in my life again. But my fiancee brought all the love and joy I missed back into my life. I am so happy that she found me.. As thats the way it happened...

You will find yours, just don't give up or let anything viral ...or genetic, etc, be it temporary or permanant get you down. Love finds a way and it makes it all the bad things that seemed so huge at the time become not such a big deal. Those things don't define us unless we allow them to.

Hope you're feelng better..
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