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To ladies of CLM on 2013

From: China 湖北(hu bei) 武汉(wu han ) @panda2009 Time : 2013-01-14 23:41:46
当多如牛毛的交友网把多如牛毛的单身老外呈现给你,让你在大海里捞针时,这其实是很摧残人的,它让你眼睁睁看着河里有那么多条鱼,可不知道选哪条,选中了也不见得钓得上来,钓上来了也不见得吃的到。 有些妹子眼花了,或者饥不择食,碰上哪条是哪条。我现在饱含着无限的忧国忧民之情,为妹子们提供几点建议,帮你们在钓洋鱼时把把关。
第一, 如果哪个老外让你在视频中脱衣服,裸聊,你千万别脱,顶多对着镜头秀两下简化太极拳或广播体操之类的,然后就别再搭理这洋屌丝了。
第二, 如果哪个老外让你给他汇钱,千万不要再理他了;就是有闲钱也不给他汇,咱国内不骗人的公益事业多着呢。
第三, 如果他提出让你出费用他才来中国看你,我看你也就就此罢手吧,这样的人要是都敢嫁,那不就等于投奔穷人了吗?咱们中国已经是世界第二大GDP了,再和这么穷的人来往等于给国家抹黑。相亲不忘爱国!
第四, 如果你已经嫁给他了,刚到美国他就提出给你买人寿保险,买完后老哄着你跟他到大海中心捕鱼或者看海上日出什么的,千万别去,妹子,我在读法律时学过好几个案例,都是讲谋杀外国新娘骗人寿保险的,每年都涌现出一模一样的案件。嫁老外时最好学会游泳,特别是潜水,说不定用的上。
对于老外来说,上网娶个中国太太是体验新鲜;对于中国女人来说,上网找个老外是没有出路中杀出一条出路,是改变自己以及后人的命运之举,是改变美国人口比例把中国人变成美国主流的重要步骤,事关重大,所以要慎而又慎。
自古道,防人之心必须有,害人之心不可无;关键时刻要先下手为强。宁可我负天下人,不能让天下人负我,这是伟人曹操说的,就这么做没错。
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From: China 北京(bei jing) 北京(bei jing) @jwksdy444 Time : 2013-01-24 16:10:24 #1
感谢你红衣美女的温情提示,这让我又懂得了许多不为人知的事情,由其是网络涉外婚就更是如此,对我们来说仿佛是‘雾里看花’所以在打算迈这一步的时侯,一定要慎之又慎权横利弊,保持头脑清醒,不可被一些表象所迷惑,只有这样,才能使自己不至被伤害。感谢你给我们上了生动的一课很有意义,也希望所以人都能看到你的这篇贴子,受到启发。
Anonymous4586
@Anonymous4586 Time : 2013-01-24 17:54:03 #2
你‘忠告’里讲的例子 很贴切,很及时, 很有说服力,也很给力,意义非同一般,在这 赞一下了!这的确是我们每一个人都应该认真思考的问题,外面的世界很美但也错综复杂,我们要有所防备,不能总是把外面想像的和梦幻中一样美好,其实网上也有不少这种悲催的例子,,
From: China 上海(shang hai) 上海(shang hai) @lhui Time : 2013-01-24 18:09:51 #3
呵呵~~
再多点类似的“忧国忧民之情”的善意建议也无妨啊~~细致、贴心的提醒总是多多益善的~~顶一个
From: China 北京(bei jing) 北京(bei jing) @ripe Time : 2013-01-24 20:39:17 #4
感谢:你写的这个有着非常好的建议,和娱乐性质的贴子,顶 一 个 !!!
Anonymous4589
@Anonymous4589 Time : 2013-01-24 22:14:12 #5
看照片就觉着您有智慧,哈哈,收了。
From: China 福建(fu jian) 福州(fu zhou ) @destiny1 Time : 2013-01-25 14:49:35 #6
wow,说得太棒了!你的提醒很有必要,尤其是第4条,还真想不到。其他3条我肯定自己不至于贱到这程度。
‘对于老外来说,上网娶个中国太太是体验新鲜’原来是这样啊,感觉太悲催了。看来要慎之又慎。
‘宁可我负天下人,不能让天下人负我,这是伟人曹操说的,就这么做没错。 ’这话说得不错,看来以前几十年来我的信条都错了,总是宁愿人家负我我从不负人家,自以为这样人家会受到长期的自我谴责中,我虽然损失了,但没有负人就当交学费买教训,做了一大堆傻事啊。谢谢你的博客提醒了姐妹们。看来你是一位善良直率的好女人。祝福你早日邂逅佳缘!
From: China 北京(bei jing) 北京(bei jing) @lily711 Time : 2013-01-25 20:09:28 #7
这不北美崔哥的博客吗?
From: China 湖北(hu bei) 武汉(wu han ) @panda2009 Time : 2013-01-25 22:21:49 #8
十天以前写的。我还以为JOHN不会帖出来,对老外多有得罪。骗钱骗色的,的确男的多。中国外国都有。这也是我们如此多妹子MATCH不出去的原因。我现在一看见丧偶的男人找就敬而远之。中国人外国人都有,抱着孩子,不论男孩女孩全是小天使,惹人怜爱。我听一个中国光棍说,女人再婚找男人,更喜欢找死了老婆的男人。所以利用女人的善良的大批鳏夫横行于世,利用可爱的孩子博取女人的同情。
From: China 北京(bei jing) 北京(bei jing) @jwksdy444 Time : 2013-01-25 23:46:50 #9
希望多送上一些这类的贴子,这是我看到所有里最好的,最直接关系到我们切身利益和性命悠关的的贴子,再次感谢你了,并给你拜早年!祝你新的一年里鸿运当头,吉祥如意,身体健康!
From: China 浙江(zhe jiang) 杭州(hang zhou ) @JohnAbbot Time : 2013-01-27 02:58:06 #10
@panda2009 - actually I waited for someone to translate it for me so I could understand it because the Google translation sucked. We decided to approve it once it was clear what you were saying. We don't reject everything that is a little negative, we reject things we find to be either insulting or stupidly negative. Some people think they are "talking straight" when what they are really doing is bitching to the point of being insulting. We have no time for that.

Regarding "Widowers", for some reason Scammers love to pretend they are widowers, and we end up rejecting many registrations everyday because we strongly suspect the person is a scammer. If you believed the scammers then you would believe that about 30% of men joining dating sites were 42 to 49 year old widowers. Of course the reality is that maybe 1% are widowers in that age range at most.

However, genuine widowers are especially deserving of our sympathy and our kindness, so we have to be careful not to reject the ones who are real.

You, like everyone else, are putting way too much emphasis on the fact that there are scammers in online dating. There are scammers in life, everywhere. You know as well as I do that there are scammers constantly trying to get everyone in China's money over their mobile phones, pretending to be injured on the street, or emailing you constantly. The list is endless.

Have you stopped using your phone, emailing people or talking to strangers in trouble on the street? No, then why stop online dating.

The simple fact is that when one of them finally asks the big question - "Can you send me some money?" - tell them to GET LOST and move on. It's the same in Online Dating as your mobile phone as your email as the faker on the street. If you don't give them any money you cannot be scammed!

Watch out for scammers yes, but don't stop living because of them.
From: United States Michigan Rockford @Tyler72 Time : 2013-01-27 09:16:11 #11
Panda, I dont even know why you are on here...

Your every post seems negative in some way. This one reminds me off an old Greek widow who works in my office. She always watches those "When Women Snap" TV shows and then has stories for my other single male coworker and I. She says she was watching last night and some lady married her fourth husband then waited untill he was asleep and then dripped poison in his ear so it looked like he had a heart attack.. and she giggles the entire time she tells us these stories!

We are convinced she mush have murdered her late husband as she lughs with such glee at the latest story.

We always say, "we arent ever going to marry, because she's scared us too much, if we do we will have to sleep with one eye open all the time... and maybe a baseball bat under the pillow in case our new wife tries to murder us for the life insurance.

Of course we are just joking, but I don't know about you Panda... Maybe I should give you two each other's contact info. You could be hen hao pengyou!
From: China 湖北(hu bei) 武汉(wu han ) @panda2009 Time : 2013-01-27 09:17:42 #12
@lily711
是的。我觉得放这儿太有必要了。
From: China 云南(yun nan) 昆明(kun ming ) @sara1202 Time : 2013-01-27 10:58:39 #13
panda2009,诚挚感谢如此善意与机警的提醒。是的,我们必须时刻清醒的知道,我们在寻找什么,最终想得到什么,纵然外面的世界眼花缭乱,精彩纷呈,物有财富,此时,定一定神,不要让撒野的欲望主宰了自己。
毕竟,空间的距离本就是个问题,再有一些文化差异,思维与语言差别,想要清晰的了解一个人,谈何容易!现实生活中,真切的知道一个人,也非易事。因此,姐妹们,脚步慢点,欲望少点,机智多点。
祝愿每一位2013好运!再次感谢panda2009的警醒,祝幸福相伴!
From: China 湖北(hu bei) 武汉(wu han ) @panda2009 Time : 2013-01-27 10:59:46 #14
@JohnAbbot
Of cause, I wouldn't give scammer money, but I hate waste my time and emotion. I like to communicate with people, so have to choose the way of push communication--writting blogs here. You give me some advices here, and online dating, letters that are the way of pull communication, really hard. I deeply appreciate your kindness. Now, you reach the purpose of communication. But so many readers of my blogs who don't want to talk about love with me, and so many members on CLM are not at all interested in my blogs, change words, they are not at all to know me through my blogs. Although they all speak English so fluent, but they are just interested in physical words. After I learned so many bad words, shut off my profile aabg.
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