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John, thanks for clearly delineating the CLM/ALM position on Ladyboys.
I fully understand good help is hard to find in any country, as well as the fact advanced English language skills by your staff may be necessary to “Decode” some member profiles to separate the boys from the girls.
However, I recently noticed one of your prominently featured “Newest Asian Girls to Join” geminilover1983, Manila Philippines identified themselves as a “She Male” on their Member Profile page under category “About Me”. No decoding was necessary here, but only simply reading their profile before approval.
However, since my recent Blog posting “Come Fly with Me: The Third Sex” was published, with several subsequent comments by you and others, this “She Male” profile information was deleted. In effect, HE is now “Underground” or incognito posing as a woman.
Because they are now underground, some unsuspecting, normal (whatever that is) heterosexual male could conceivably travel half-way around the world, only to learn his “Girl” is really one of the notorious “Chicks with Dicks”. Surprise, surprise!
Therefore, maybe your heterosexual membership policy should be clearly published, acknowledged, and accepted by the prospective member before allowed to join. I would suggest your terms also include NO refunds if they are a paying member. Of course, people lie, but maybe they don’t know the CLM/ALM policy and, with no other option available, they feel compelled to list themselves as a “Woman” because they believe they are.