I'd like to use the forum as a platform to say a few last words about the recent heated argument that had happened in my last article "Are You a Player?" during this peaceful and family tradition that we call Christmas.

First of all, HAPPY HOLIDAYS to everyone!

I believe, we members, CLM workers, and owners of this exceptionally well-serving dating site should feel blessed to have and be part of something that is unique in this hard and greedy world. We also should see that our CLM family is vast, stretching from one part of the world to the other. It's a global family. Members of our family fly great distances to see each other just for a few weeks or a month. We are different. We think in different ways. It can be a personal choice, it can be because of our tradition, or it can be because of an unfortunate incident that had happened earlier in our lives. However, as long as we keep that in mind that we are a colorful family with our differences and can respect other family members' views and thoughts, I think we should be just fine.

Barry and Paul. I'm never going to be like you. You two are never going to be like me; we are too old for a change, now, and frankly, I'm very comfortable in my skin. As long as you can accept that I'm different from you, I'll have no problem with you guys in the future. We have only one thing in common; we are bloggers here in this family. We do it for free. We do it just because we love to express our thoughts, feelings, and ideas in our writings. You two spend countless hours in front of your computer just to write something for others. I do the same, but try to triple the amount of hours that you two put in your effort to come up with your articles and then you might be close to the number of hours I spend in front of my computer.

If you attack my article in such way that you did in my last article, I'm sorry, but I can't take it other than as a personal attack. I always put my thoughts and my feelings into my blogs. My blogs represent me; I will stand by them all the way because simply a part of me lives in them.

Yes, Paul, attacking another fellow blogger and make a statement of his looks is not a nice thing to do. Everybody gets old; you're right. I said in my comment to Barry "sagging face." One word that you guys are still chewing on. How many words did you two use to insult the face of my inner feelings and thoughts that was represented in my article?

As a fellow blogger, I respect you guys for what you do here for free. Not that long ago, there was a man, a member of this family who, unfortunately, is not with us anymore. We all should follow his teachings about China, the way he represented himself here on CLM, and the way he criticised fellow bloggers' articles. He had CRITICISED me, too, more than once, but I had never had to deal with him like I had to deal with you guys. You guys spat on my article with your words and with that you spat into my face. I couldn't let you do that.

The bottom line is that we are different; we have different styles of writing. I love what and how I write about things. If you don't like it, please, don't read it. On the other hand, I will still read your articles because I have a long way to go, and I can't afford not to learn from you guys and other bloggers here.

Paul and Barry, thank you for reading my last comment to you!

To the others who read this forum, I would like to tell some more about my upcoming articles. They will be romantic. I will talk in them about feelings, relationships, sex in a way that is acceptable to CLM.

Here are the titles and a short description of the stories if you are interested.

MEI MING - It's based on a true story that I have seen online in a documentary and touched me deeply. It's already been submitted to CLM, and will be my next post.

YAN'S STORY: FIRE IN HER EYES - This is a true story of my ex-girlfriend who when she told me about her unfortunate accident, I knew, one day, I had to turn it into a story.

AUTUMN IN GUILIN - This is a story of my current Chinese girlfriend (hopefully my future wife) and I, spending Mid-Autumn Festival in Guilin, her hometown - Yangchun, and Shenzhen.

UNFINISHED TALE OF THE RING - Fiction. This is the tragic love story of a white man and a Chinese woman. However, I've got something on my mind to end it with a happy ending.

THE BEAUTY AND THE FRAUD - Fiction. In this, I tell the tale of a Chinese woman who worked for ASIANDATE.com and deceived a white man. However, the man falls in love with another real Chinese beauty while he is in China, but she's married.

Thank you all for reading my thoughts, and again, HAPPY HOLIDAYS!