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Improving the Forum 怎样让我们的论坛办的更好

From: China 浙江(zhe jiang) 杭州(hang zhou ) @JohnAbbot Time : 2011-11-13 14:37:19
We're about to start promoting the forum more by showing new threads and comments on various pages of the website. We'd really like to see the Forum become a more active way for members to exchange questions, answers, concerns and opinions about topics of interest to members of CLM and ALM.

We are very interested in receiving member suggestions on ways to really bring the Forum to life and get all members involved, so please give us your thoughts and ideas.

我们将在CLM和AML上发表更多的论题，让更多的会员参与我们的论坛，对感兴趣的论题发表自己的观点和感想。怎样让我们的论坛办的更好，请各位会员给我们建议。
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yizuola
From: China 北京(bei jing) 北京(bei jing) @yizuola Time : 2011-11-18 14:24:59 #1
尽快开启中文的，不要让你的诺言成为一张空头支票，因为时间决定胜算，我们期待你的诺言已经长达6个月之久了。在中文论坛里可以让中国的女性彼此分享成功的的经验，更加快捷的找到人生的伴侣，成功的案例多了，就会吸引更多的人，不要忽视了中国女性的口碑宣传，她们会带给你无穷的能量和巨大的财富。
bridget
From: China 江西(jiang xi) 南昌(nan chang ) @bridget Time : 2011-11-22 14:22:31 #2
Hi, John. I guess the best way is to leave some space even just a corner for forum in the home page or every page. I didn't notice forum's existence for a really long time. I remember when the blog and forum were both mixed I did check in often and found it's really fun to listen to different opinions. I later found it is because I really missed reading it. So I found it's behind the Blog category. It's not in the obvious position, so... you know. Give Forum its deserved position. It certainly will draw more and more attention.
Even if I could not find my life partner here, I will always wish CLM the best luck! Just for Auld Lang Syne.
danruble
From: United States California Sacramento @danruble Time : 2011-12-04 15:03:24 #3
John, perhaps as the lovely bridget suggested, a place of prominence on the home page, or blog page, which it seems you seem to have done something about..Now perhaps,.. along with a notation of new additions to a particular post.I believe that there may be many newer members, and I include myself among them, that have not had a chance to go through the various blogs and forums and the relative articles. Some one may post an answer of merit, and we may never see it unless brought to our attention.. maybe something to the effect of " unread posts since your last visit" or??? Oh.. how about a spell checker? Just kidding!
Sophie2011
From: China 广东(guang dong) 广州(guang zhou ) @Sophie2011 Time : 2011-12-13 11:36:55 #4
1) link the forum with home page and blogs.
2) re-arrange subject categories.
need a place for general topics, such as saying hello to everyone from new comers, etc.
prettyna
From: China 天津(tian jin) 天津(tian jin) @prettyna Time : 2011-12-17 13:06:22 #5
I am very gree yizuola idea, her mind , open Chinese language blogs very important.
peoples from China woman look some nice women heart , and China culture, kind , warm , and fun, happy , and smart women,who really wish with this happy. I want tell to some west guys , China woman age 40 year ols up , english no all good , we read school english no important in living , SO no more women learn english . If west guys really fall in loving with with China woman , maybe try learn some China language is ok , Help each other know heart in heart , or used some translate tool , help is ok . sincerely HEART very important !!!!!!!!! Please remember This!
Estherniuchun
From: China 北京(bei jing) 北京(bei jing) @Estherniuchun Time : 2012-01-18 11:18:33 #6
Hi, John,

How are you?

Thank you for your hard working. Sorry, I read your article just now, that means most of us don't know there is a gentleman like you are working hard and there is a Forum out there. So, if I were you, I would put the Forum on the Prominent Location and the First location; I would promise that if someone wrote something, I would give you a gold member for free a month. And then, I would put it into each member's email in their native language, so they could see it as quickly as possible.

Sorry, I should be a gold member but there are so many ugly guys, but my mental illness of fearing of men are cured for three months. So, I hope all men here are as handsome as you. Then I will get the feeling of love.
emma707
From: China 北京(bei jing) 北京(bei jing) @emma707 Time : 2012-05-24 20:21:07 #7
Hi John!

本人中文比英文好，所以为了准确表达我的想法，就使用中文吧。


无论网站还是论坛，最终的目的是为了让不同国籍、地域的男士与女士认识并了解彼此。因此，建议如下：

一、关于网站的建议

1、网站首页，导航条一栏“博客”换成“论坛”，把论坛单独摘出来放到网站首页，这样比较醒目。博客的功能不用去掉，在每位会员的介绍页面里显示，比如，个人资料下面，增设个栏目“XXX的博客”同时显示此会员最精彩的一篇博客标题。

2、网站首页，依然是导航条一栏，一些跟网站使用说明相关的栏目可以合并到一个栏目里，可以命名“网站使用手册”。合并后的栏目功能大概是：新会员对网站使用、隐私政策、注册条款、常见问题、会员升级办法说明等相当于网站导航，以1234序列标注。

3、网站首页，加入成功会员的故事图片展示一栏，精选有代表性的成功会员与依然在寻爱路上艰难跋涉的新老会员共勉。

4、网站首页，“最新打入监狱的骗子“一栏尽管对坏蛋有警示作用，可是对于善良会员的帮助不大，因为大部分会员跟愿意使用搜索功能，而这些入监的骗子不会在那些使用搜索功能的会员中迅速形成印象。换言之，就是把那些入监的骗子直接在会员介绍里显示出来，比如，我搜到会员A，如果A是已入监的骗子，那么他（她）的个人图片就是入监的状况显示，其他所有的资料暂时关闭，不予显示。

5、网站浏览在线功能，修改搜索年龄的条件限制，会员可以直接输入年龄范围。


二、关于论坛的建议

1、论坛版式，不必单独设置英文论坛和中文论坛页面，可以放到一个页面上，这样简单明了，可以增加互动，也可提高语言。尽管两个来自不同语言环境的人相爱并最终走进婚姻，无论哪种语言主导，对另一半的语言有一些了解是可以为其婚姻加分的。
2、论坛框架，可以设以下栏目：
1）文化：中国文化、东南亚文化、欧美文化、跨文化问题Q&A。
2）旅游：中国、东南亚、欧洲等各国旅游攻略，图片分享。
3）约会：欧美男士、中国女士、东南亚女士恋爱观的交流。
4）婚姻：跨国婚姻的经验、疑问等情感交流。
5）防骗：被骗经历分享，共同抵制，彼此保护。
6）签证：结婚移民签证、旅游签证、商务签证等经验交流，Q&A。

贵网站的盈利模式大概是网站广告、会员收费。网站运营是需要成本的，尤其是当大量的图片、会员互动等，可能需要一定的服务器空间。空间允许的话，可以再增设一个栏目“影音欣赏”可以由会员推荐自己喜爱的音乐并上传，或者影评。

论坛的活跃是需要点的触动，让会员能够在这里找到自己需要的，自然愿意驻足。于是解答、分享、互动、活跃……



JohnAbbot
From: China 浙江(zhe jiang) 杭州(hang zhou ) @JohnAbbot Time : 2012-05-25 00:55:08 #8
It has been a while since I posted this thread and I apologize for not responding sooner to the suggestions. It was reading Emma707's lengthy list of suggestions in a google translation that really drove me here to respond, only to then realize I'd failed to respond earlier to other suggestions.

First, emma707, google did not do a good job of translating your message and I became very confused very quickly, so I am going to ask our Chinese manager, Ms Zhang, to review it and then discuss it with myself and our webguy. That may not happen quickly, but it will happen.

To the rest of you who made suggestions I am going to make notes and add those comments to the same discussion and will then get back to you here. The one item that seems to be unanimous is that we add the "Forum" to the top menu as we have the eMagazine and blogs. Believe me we have considered that frequently. The problem is there is no space for another item on that menu. However, I agree that the forum is important so we'll try again to figure out how to do it and hopefully you'll see it up there soon.

Thanks for your efforts and I will follow up again soon.
emma707
From: China 北京(bei jing) 北京(bei jing) @emma707 Time : 2012-05-25 11:59:55 #9
抱歉，"本人"换成“我的”。记得在记事本里改过来了。嘿嘿
shu669
From: China 广西(guang xi) 玉林(yu lin ) @shu669 Time : 2012-06-27 21:46:43 #10
看起来论坛人不多啊，怎么回事呢。
Anonymous3925
@Anonymous3925 Time : 2012-11-18 18:48:58 #11
有没有论坛并不重要，没有也无所谓，我们来这的主要目的不是来讨论问题的。既使在这毫无收获，也没那闲心在这侃山摆龙门阵。那都是闲的没事干的人干的事，哈哈，，，
Anonymous3927
@Anonymous3927 Time : 2012-11-18 19:09:22 #12
有那么一种中国女人就是很贱，看见洋人骨头就酥！真给中国人丢脸！
据报道，北京某医院发现一名艾滋病人，这位美国商人临死前承认，在北京的短短几周里，他已与六位中国女性发生关系，调查发现，她们多为高层知识分子。
在中国，生活着这样一个外国人群体，他们在本国找不到工作，然后凭借外国人的优势在中国轻松挣钱、酗酒、泡妞。就是这样，他们唯一的业余爱好就是批评中国。
更有甚者，一些外交官利用职务之便肆意玩弄中国女性。有人甚至公开说，“我的签字可以得到任何一中国女人。”
中国，你知道吗？你给了老外太多、太多，多到老外反过来瞧不起你。多到连外国人自己也看不惯，称他们为白色垃圾（White trash）。
我在这里也要正告那些老外不要太得意，你得到只是中国女人的肉体，一具没有灵魂的躯体。
最近网上盛传一则外国人在中国征婚的笑话：一位47岁的老外在中国的婚介所征婚，长时间无人问津。突然有一天，来了大量的征婚信，令老外大吃一惊。后查明，是由于婚介所的工作人员的粗心把他的年龄错写成了67。
一项涉外婚姻调查也证实了中国女人主要不是为了爱而嫁给外国男人的。调查发现，中国女人和外国新郎的结婚年龄平均相差10.5岁，其中有13%的夫妻是两代人，整整差了20岁。据悉，在涉外婚姻中，创下纪录的是当时轰动一时的一对夫妻，两人相差54岁。结婚时，美国新郎已是一个82岁的老翁，而中国新娘仅28岁。
说来凑巧，我前不久在一份美国杂志上看了一则笑话：一位八十多岁的老翁陪他怀孕的二十多岁的妻子到医院做检查。医生好心地提醒他是否有别的可能，老翁一口拒绝地说，“不会，我这个人一向能创造奇迹。上回我和我妻子以及她的一个男朋友一块去打猎，我只用一把雨伞指着一头鹿，那头鹿就中弹身亡了。”
不知那位中国新娘是否不久也会传出怀孕的消息，好让大家真正欣赏一下人间奇迹。
您也许得到些什么，但却失去最宝贵的尊严毋庸讳言，成就那些丑陋的外国男人的始作俑者正是中国女人。但是这些女人，他们大多数没有出过国，脑子里充满了幻想。所以，今天我要利用这个机会告诉她们真相。
我还是要警告您。首先，中国女人大多追求一个稳定的婚姻，但是，除极少数例外，西方发达国家的离婚率多在50%左右，而国际婚姻不稳定的因素更多。
其次，我还高度怀疑，今天的外国男人是否会给予中国女人真爱。因为真爱的前提是尊重，而在外国男人眼中，中国女人的形象已经开始被那些少数人搞坏了，已经变成了：世界上最开放的、最大胆的、别有用心的、头脑简单的、知识贫乏的、傻的、功利的容易女孩（Easy girl）。很难想象有男人会对这样的女人付出真爱。只有一种例外，一位美国人介绍说，那就是那些把亚洲妻子当作厨师、佣人、性工作者三合一（a desire for a combination maid/cook/sex worker
Anonymous4037
@Anonymous4037 Time : 2012-11-26 19:55:41 #13
参与论坛的人不多就对了，毕竟我们不是冲着论坛来这里的，我们的重心不在这。
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