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Imi Needs Our Help Imi 需要我们的帮助

From: China 浙江(zhe jiang) 杭州(hang zhou ) @JohnAbbot Time : 2018-10-12 08:37:03

This is to all members, but especially those who have been with CLM for a long time.



Imi needs our help. He has a meeting coming up with Canada Immigration Officers to determine whether or not his wife Janessa (颜琼姗 Yan Qiong Shan - CLM username: zelmaniss) will receive her Visa to reside in Canada with Imi. It is important that they realize that Imi and Janessa have met because they were searching for true love, that they are really and truly in love, and that they are sincerely in a relationship that they hope will last for life.



We need to give Imi a testimonial letter containing testimonials from as many members as possible that will tell how you know Imi from his blogs and comments he makes on other people's blogs on CLM. Even though we have not met Imi in real life, we all have come to know him very well through his ongoing writing and through the frequent discussions he has joined in on the blogs and forum.  



Please write a comment below describing your knowledge of Imi, your experiences reading his many blogs and comments, your knowledge of his good character and your belief that he is a very sincere man who has been seeking and has found true love with a Chinese lady on CLM. He has been with us for many years and has always been very open and honest in everything he has said or done. 



Please use your own words to do this.



Thanks for your time and help, John



致所有的会员,特别是加入CLM较长时间的会员:



Imi 需要我们的帮助。他和他的妻子Janessa(颜琼姗 - CLM username: zelmaniss)在CLM交友网站上相识相恋结婚。加拿大移民局现在需要判断是否能给她签证,让她可以移居到加拿大,和Imi生活在一起。问题的关键是帮助移民官认识到Imi和Janessa是因为寻找真爱相遇,真心相爱,直到永远。



我们需要给Imi一份证明信,信里提供尽可能多的人们告诉说,你是在CLM上怎么从他的博客文章和他给其他博客的留言里认识Imi的。 尽管我们没有在真实生活中遇见过,但我们从他在CLM博客和论坛上不间断写作和频繁讨论留言里逐渐认识他。



请在下面写下您的留言,描述您知道的Imi, 您阅读他那么多博客和留言的经历,您从中知道的他的好人品,和您相信他是位非常真挚的好男人,他是在CLM上寻找到了一位中国女人,得到了真爱。我们知道他已经好多年了,他的言和行始终非常坦率、真诚等等。



请用您自己的语言写下您对Imi的认识和感受。



谢谢您花的时间和帮助, John.



Many thanks to QinQl for translating this message from English to Chinese. She is always a great classmate.


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From: China 浙江(zhe jiang) 杭州(hang zhou ) @JohnAbbot Time : 2018-10-12 09:12:39 #1

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For anyone interested to know what has happened to Imi and Janessa recently and about their problems with Janessa receiving a spousal visa please read his blog here which Zoe has translated into Chinese.

https://blog.chinalovematch.net/blog/article/Our-Lives-Through-The-Keyhole


From: China @QinQL Time : 2018-10-12 20:58:52 #2

校长在点名了!把多年保存的名册寻找出来,大家出来冒个泡呀:)

From: United States Texas Canyon Lake @YinTingYu Time : 2018-10-13 00:16:01 #3

@ John Abbot

To Whom it may concern,

I am a long time member for years on CLM/ALM and only know Imi from his deep felt writings. This is a VERY good man. He is an immigrant from Hungary who now resides in the Vancouver, Canada area. He has overcome many challenges to be where he is now. Indeed, Imi has been through many experiences in trying hard to develop a new life. Imi has met a Very good Chinese lady, Janessa. They love each other so much that they married in China. I am convinced it is the True and Deep love that binds them.

They wish to explore and develop their life together in Canada. They do NOT want to take advantage of the Visa/Immigration system in some dishonest way. No !! They just want to give their new life a good try but,...official protocall blocks their chance for a happy future. Is this fair and correct ?? I don't think so !! Place yourself in their shoes. How would you like it if you were experiencing the same ?? Not too much ?? I thought so.

I ask YOU who are in the seat of this decision making process to give them a chance and allow them to develop a happy life together just like you would want. Imi is a strong young, good man and Janessa is a strong young, good woman. They really do share the deep true love. Perhaps there might be some way for them to set a new precident. We all need it and,...it's time for a change. If I can be of further help please let me know.

Thanking you in advance for your consideration in this matter.

Sincerely, Yin Ting Yu

From: Canada British Columbia Vancouver @Imi5922 Time : 2018-10-13 07:43:50 #4

@QinQL

 

Thank you very much for translating this forum thread. I really appreciate it.

From: China 福建(fu jian) 福州(fu zhou ) @LUCKYME1 Time : 2018-10-13 17:41:25 #5

When I read Imi's recent blog, I felt very sad that two young people so in love were separated by immigration policies on both sides of the Pacific. Chinese wife in the western Pacific, Canadian husband in the eastern Pacific, relying on a small cell phone screen mutual love, this is a brutal story for years. This reminds me of my favorite English song, which is just like the love portrait of Imi and Janessa:

Right Here Waiting

Ocean apart day after day
And I slowly go insane
I hear your voice on the line
But it doesn't stop the pain
If I see you next to never
How can we say forever
Wherever you go
Whatever you do
I will be right here waiting for you
Whatever it takes
Or how my heart breaks
I will be right here waiting for you
I took for granted, all the times
That I thought would last somehow
I hear the laughter, I taste the tears
But I can't get near you now
Oh, can't you see it baby
You've got me going crazy
Wherever you go
Whatever you do
I will be right here waiting for you
Whatever it takes
Or how my heart breaks
I will be right here waiting for you
I wonder how we can survive
This romance
But in the end if I'm with you
I'll take the chance
Oh, can't you see it baby
You've got me going crazy
Wherever you go
Whatever you do
I will be right here waiting for you
Whatever it takes
Or how my heart breaks
I will be right here waiting for you
Waiting for you

As an old member of CLM for many years, I read the process and story of his search for love from Imi's blog. I am happy and relieved for the happy combination of Imi and Janessa, and deeply sorry and sad that they still can't get together.

I like and trust CLM very, very much. There are top-ranking managers with high quality, high morality and responsibility. Here is a good place for single men and women to sincerely seek love. I have also experienced the joys and sorrows of searching for love on the platform of CLM. Here is the home of sisters who sincerely seek for love, which gives me a lot of warmth. Here is the first station to learn western culture, from which I benefit a lot. CLM is a serious dating site. In the Internet age, the world has already been a global village, the immigration bureau should not not believe the network, leaving the network of the world has been unable to work and live!

I sincerely wish them an early reunion in Canada!!!

From: China 山东(shan dong) 济南(ji nan ) @sunrise68 Time : 2018-10-15 11:22:52 #6

To Whom it may concern,

I have been a member of ChinaLoveMatch.net for many years. This website aims to mainly help western men and Chinese women find their true love. There are many blogs and forrums on this site related to cross-culture relationship, and I am impressed by some authors who are active writing articles on this site, like Imi. From his blogs and comments, I think he is a  sincere, kind, caring, quality person. He took pains to pursue true love, fortunately now he finds Janessa, a kind Chinese girl, and they have  married . However, they can't stay together due to visa permit; this is one of the largest sufferings on the earth! They are just like Niulang and Zhinv, a pair of lovers in a Chinese legend, being separated by Milky Way arranged by  the Heavenly Queen who is extremely imperous and unreasonable. I hope the concerned department deliberates the visa process again and don't harm innocent people.

 

From: China @QinQL Time : 2018-10-16 19:07:11 #7


@sunrise68 - 你可真是好心人!看到你给予的支持和关心,感觉好温暖。尽管不是写给我的,但分明有一份感动在心中荡漾。还记得你那张拉小提琴的照片呢。后来还给我留言---本人非常荣幸。你是位踏实生活又不乏浪漫情怀的女人。期待和你有更多交流。 

 

@LUCKYME1 -  最近好吗?记得你曾经去过美国一趟, 不知那段关系现在如何了?

From: China 福建(fu jian) 福州(fu zhou ) @LUCKYME1 Time : 2018-10-19 13:39:10 #8

晴妹妹,那是一个不堪回首的肥皂剧。在此不表了。谢谢你的关注和关心!你在这多年,依然孑然一身吗?与其是找错人,不如是从未发生。祝你早日找到如意郎君!

From: China 山东(shan dong) 济南(ji nan ) @sunrise68 Time : 2018-10-21 10:14:33 #9


@QinQL

谢谢你对我的关注,从照片上看你真是位超凡脱俗的大美女,又那么热心参与这里的事情,我很高兴认识你,期望能与你成为知心朋友。不知你在哪个城市,从事什么职业?感情路上几多坎坷、几多欢欣?

提起我那张拿着小提琴的照片,我都觉得不好意思,其实我不会拉小提琴,只是对各种乐器都爱好,特别羡慕会演奏乐器的人才,所以我那次楞充个样子,拿着个象似玩具式的小提琴让别人为我拍了照,你看我的穿戴,从来都是不修边幅的。

在我二三十岁的时候先后相处过的两个男人修养太差,因为性格不合,与他们分手时,他们对我横加谴责,百般欺负,想想那些时候我就是死里逃生,所以这些年来我保持单身,不敢轻易再涉入感情纠葛中。有空时就登录这个网站,看看会员们写的文章,已成为我的生活习惯。

祝你和其它的姐妹们事事顺心、越来越美丽!

From: China @QinQL Time : 2018-10-22 18:35:38 #10


@LUCKYME1 - 也是哈,过去的就过去了。生活始终是自己的,往前看,寻找自己真正需要的生活样子。遇到任何问题和困惑,你一定要记得回到这里和我们聊聊哈。是呀,我没什么进展, 只是停留在“纸上谈兵”,然后就不了了之的状态。也罢,反正这只能是锦上添花的事,哈哈。我小孩现在高三了,需要我的陪伴。参加高考过去这么多年了,现在居然还可以和她一起讨论她的学习, 周围的人都很怀疑地问我:你还记得吗?!我自己也很惊叹,我怎么还可以!哈哈。其实,我哪里能记得,好多也都忘了。但我们是开卷讨论呀,不记得的可以翻书,思维还在那,所以我小孩可以从我们的讨论中get到解题的思维。每每解了一个困惑,她都会表达对我的欣赏和喜爱。我也好安慰,哪个妈妈不想帮到自己的孩子呢。好过到外面参加什么培训班补习班, 那里哪里可以遇到这么有针对性的一对一的有效辅导呢。我还很开心,省了一笔钱,哈哈。

From: China @QinQL Time : 2018-10-22 19:32:39 #11


@sunrise68 - 谢谢你的夸奖。我喜欢交流。我在广东佛山哈。你问我的感情经历,我就来说说哈。有过一次婚姻,初恋在大学时光。初恋男朋友控制欲太强,趁毕业分手了。那时心里特别难过,自己还是挺喜欢他的, 1米8的个子,帅帅的,我是系女子足球队主力队员,他是我们的教练,男子足球队的守门员。他的父母邀请我到他家吃饭,他家就在大学里。刚开始,感觉特别甜蜜,相处一段时间后,问题就出现了,我感觉自己好像一个罪人。旁人看我一眼,我不会留意到的,他会把牵着的手捏紧;穿件新衣服,他也会着紧,我没能感觉多疼,但手腕上留下了青一块紫一块的印迹,又是夏天,没法穿长袖遮住,同学都发现我受男朋友不良对待了。所以,离开他,真不得已。参加工作后,花了8年时间忘记初恋,遇到了前夫。他和我同单位,上班后就认识了。认识8年后我们才走得近些,那时自己也不年轻了,而且他不像初恋男友那样把我看得紧紧的,感觉自己可以有自由呼吸的机会,得到信任和认可的我觉得这份感情可以陪伴我一辈子。婚后, 我们习惯不同就出现些问题了,他喜欢和朋友在一起,我只是偶尔出去,多数时间喜欢在家里。所以常常是我一个人呆在家里。再后来,我们没有一个儿子,只是女儿,在我独自抚养女儿到5岁时,我遂了他的意离婚了。一直到现在,也许我能力有限,忙工作忙孩子忙学习,让我无暇顾及其它。

From: China 广西(guang xi) 南宁(nan ning ) @summer725 Time : 2018-10-26 17:37:32 #12
貌似感知校长的召唤,很久不来,今天突发奇想上来看看,Imi需要什么帮助?
From: China @QinQL Time : 2018-11-02 19:11:04 #13


@summer725- 好久不见,好吗? 是啊,前天吧,John还提到lim,他总是称赞他,说He has found his happiness and he earns it 之类的话,原话我记不得了,就这个意思哈。还说,他还在等移民局找谈话的消息,你现在帮lim写还不迟呢。快写来吧。

meg
From: China 广东(guang dong) 惠州(hui zhou ) @meg Time : 2018-12-12 21:43:06 #14

@JohnAbbot

 

Long time not online.

Hope everything is going well with you and your family.

 

Hope everything is goring well with Imi and his wife.

I am not sure if they still need my letter.

If they need, I would like to write for them, because I read Imi's brogs and he read mine as well. we had some comments on the brogs.

Hope to heaar from you soon, John

Merry Christmas!

Meg 

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