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Anonymous918

I met a conservative Chinese woman with a belly button ring

@Anonymous918 Time : 2013-10-28 04:28:08
I got to know this conservative Chinese woman over the course of a year. Everything about her was conservative. Her dress, her mannerisms, her demeanor, her lifestyle, etc. However, one day I discovered she had a belly button ring. I was (and still am) dumbfounded.

So many questions arise in my mind now. Why did she get the belly piercing? When did she get the belly piercing? Did she have some sort of wild lifestyle in the past?

I don't think there is anything wrong with belly piercings, I am only seeking understanding.

My personal opinion is that a piercing is not just something you decide to do "on the fly". It is a very conscious decision. So what was the thought process in her mind when she made that fateful decision?

What is the true nature of a woman? Is it conservative or wild? I must know.

I am curious to hear the responses from women who are 35+ years old.
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Anonymous9162
@Anonymous9162 Time : 2013-10-28 19:32:49 #1
别理她了,我看此人八成是个另类或是个渣女,,
From: China 北京(bei jing) 北京(bei jing) @whui Time : 2013-10-28 21:02:30 #2
Maybe this conservative Chinese woman is a fan of India dance. Why not ask her for that? I think that you really want is her answer.
Anonymous9172
@Anonymous9172 Time : 2013-10-28 23:45:24 #3
This is very common things, don't your country woman not so? Why do some foreign men wear earrings?maybe A person in a specific environment and age. She might do something impulsive, maybe even she don't know why. or it can only be a person's hobby is different. If you stick to ask why, it just means you have a mental problem
You are not a real gentleman, if you are a gentleman, you will not after you've slept this woman, then still evaluating the women in the public place.
From: China 广东(guang dong) 深圳(shen zhen ) @SunnyME Time : 2013-10-28 23:55:51 #4
The best way is that you learn about her with your wisdom by yourself,believe yourself.
Anonymous9174
@Anonymous9174 Time : 2013-10-29 00:12:00 #5
Are you the same guy who posted about "physical traits of wildness"?

I thought we put that one to bed. All women are unique people, they can act how they like and use their own mind to decide if a belly ring is cool or sexy. It doesn't have to correlate with any behavioral manner except that she thinks for herself.

Good for her if this good girl decided she likes belly piercings and so went out n did it.

Dont question when you find a rose with some unique special feature, it's just that some little surprise that makes her different from the rest, and special... It doesn't have to mean anything more than that.
From: Sweden Stockholms län Stockholm @ab1972 Time : 2013-10-29 02:20:21 #6
Well, I am not a 35+ woman so you may not be interested in my reply, but I will write one anyway.

Does it matter if she has a belly ring? If you like her and don't like the belly ring why don't you just ask her if she is willing to take it off?

Maybe she was wild when she was younger but conservative now. Does it really matter how she was before?
From: Costa Rica San José La Uruca @shirley9183 Time : 2013-10-29 04:05:56 #7
Very obviously that she pretend to be pure and conservative, the real conservative Chinese woman will never do such kind of things on the body, even the normal one will also not do it. Only the weird and bad women will do it and think it is a modern way. I suggest you to give up her and search the lovely new one now.
Anonymous9178
@Anonymous9178 Time : 2013-10-29 07:31:27 #8
@Anonymous918 My apologies ahead of time for not being a 35+ year old woman, but that being said my opinion is that you should just ask her the details. I think I would be equally surprised by such a discovery if I had formed a view of someone. On the other hand.. I'd hate for my outlook on life to be judged by a one mistake I made. I have an ex that did this when she was going through a phase of feeling old. It made her feel young-ish to get a piercing. Good luck!
Anonymous9181
@Anonymous9181 Time : 2013-10-29 09:30:05 #9
I wonder... Why don't you just ask her, instead of making assumptions that it belies some deep seeded and/or secret meaning about her character?

If you are interested in her, as opposed to merely being interested in judging her, perhaps it would be a good conversation starter. I would suggest you phrase it as more of a compliment leading you to be curious about its origin or her thoughts about getting it and less as if you are perplexed by the dichotomy of one who seems to be conservative but does something you think makes her a bit of a bad girl. I know you claim to not be against such things but your wording, "fateful decision" sounds more like you think it has permanently marked her as less somehow.
From: China 陕西(shan xi) 西安(xi an ) @zhang77 Time : 2013-10-29 11:20:18 #10
The umbilical ring does not represent what actually, everyone be fond of, like people who have tattoos are not necessarily bad people, people who don't have a tattoo also are not necessarily good, not to say that the external conservative women she thought is conservative and old fashion concept, also some women are conservative and look fashionable , you will notice if it is emotional man, hide will not be permanent, words and deeds will teach hidden secret, I wish good luck.

其实这个脐环并不能代表什么,每个人喜好吧,就像有纹身的人不一定都是坏人,没有纹身的人也不一定都是好人,不是说外在保守的女性她的思想就是保守和陈旧的时尚观念,也有些女性是思想保守,外表看起来时尚而张扬,如果是感情丰富的男人你会有所察觉,掩饰不会是永久,言行举止会暴漏隐藏的秘密,祝你好运。
Anonymous9204
@Anonymous9204 Time : 2013-10-29 18:03:36 #11
@shirley9183

@shirley9183
我认为你是一个很好的女人,但我发现一个问题,有很多次你写在你的文章里。它显示你做事很极端,和判断事物总是喜欢按照你的方式。为什么不换位想一想,也许每个人的审美不一样或者其他?
就像上面一个外国朋友说的,作为一个与她有关系的男人,如果这个女人没有其他的问题,仅仅是这个,也许你能认为很性感或者这个女人很特别,或者如果你不喜欢可以让她摘掉。
关于外国人的帖子,我们应该多关注和支持。这是一种礼貌。但是一定要看看他的目的性。我的感觉,写这个帖子的男人一定不是什么好男人,否则他不会问这样无聊的问题。
From: China 辽宁(liao ning) 大连(da lian ) @haifeng Time : 2013-10-29 21:47:00 #12
@anonymous
一个女人在她的肚脐上拴一个环,如果这种情况在你的国家属于不正常的现象,那么它在中国就更属于不正常的现象,在中国好女人不会做这样的事情,“欲擒故纵”是中国女人经常采用的小计谋,她们会假装纯洁,保守,勾引男人上当受骗,一旦达到目的,她们的本性就会暴露无遗。
From: China 江苏(jiang su) 南京(nan jing ) @shellnong Time : 2013-10-29 21:48:49 #13
@zhang77
完全赞同你说的。:)
From: Canada Ontario Hamilton @mike1963 Time : 2013-10-29 22:08:34 #14
@9172
I'm sorry. I'm a little confused. Did you read a different question than I? Nowhere did this man say that he had slept with this woman. Please understand that in western culture, conservative women , in appearance and behaviour, do not have belly piercings. There are wild women who have jobs that require them to appear conservative. I am assuming that this man was not exposed to her only at her workplace. Why then would it take a year for him to know about the piercing? I have tatoos , and two piercings, in one ear, and my tongue. These are things that I reveal to a potential partner within a few weeks of corresponding. The question this man should be asking is, why did she hide this from me? In my way of thinking, this is comparable to not revealing that she has a child, or even a criminal record. After a year there should not be a piercing that he should not know about.
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