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I met a conservative Chinese woman with a belly button ring

@Anonymous918 Time : 2013-10-28 04:28:08
I got to know this conservative Chinese woman over the course of a year. Everything about her was conservative. Her dress, her mannerisms, her demeanor, her lifestyle, etc. However, one day I discovered she had a belly button ring. I was (and still am) dumbfounded.

So many questions arise in my mind now. Why did she get the belly piercing? When did she get the belly piercing? Did she have some sort of wild lifestyle in the past?

I don't think there is anything wrong with belly piercings, I am only seeking understanding.

My personal opinion is that a piercing is not just something you decide to do "on the fly". It is a very conscious decision. So what was the thought process in her mind when she made that fateful decision?

What is the true nature of a woman? Is it conservative or wild? I must know.

I am curious to hear the responses from women who are 35+ years old.
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@Anonymous9162 Time : 2013-10-28 19:32:49 #1
From: China 北京(bei jing) 北京(bei jing) @whui Time : 2013-10-28 21:02:30 #2
Maybe this conservative Chinese woman is a fan of India dance. Why not ask her for that? I think that you really want is her answer.
@Anonymous9172 Time : 2013-10-28 23:45:24 #3
This is very common things, don't your country woman not so? Why do some foreign men wear earrings?maybe A person in a specific environment and age. She might do something impulsive, maybe even she don't know why. or it can only be a person's hobby is different. If you stick to ask why, it just means you have a mental problem
You are not a real gentleman, if you are a gentleman, you will not after you've slept this woman, then still evaluating the women in the public place.
From: China 广东(guang dong) 深圳(shen zhen ) @SunnyME Time : 2013-10-28 23:55:51 #4
The best way is that you learn about her with your wisdom by yourself,believe yourself.
@Anonymous9174 Time : 2013-10-29 00:12:00 #5
Are you the same guy who posted about "physical traits of wildness"?

I thought we put that one to bed. All women are unique people, they can act how they like and use their own mind to decide if a belly ring is cool or sexy. It doesn't have to correlate with any behavioral manner except that she thinks for herself.

Good for her if this good girl decided she likes belly piercings and so went out n did it.

Dont question when you find a rose with some unique special feature, it's just that some little surprise that makes her different from the rest, and special... It doesn't have to mean anything more than that.
From: Sweden Stockholms län Stockholm @ab1972 Time : 2013-10-29 02:20:21 #6
Well, I am not a 35+ woman so you may not be interested in my reply, but I will write one anyway.

Does it matter if she has a belly ring? If you like her and don't like the belly ring why don't you just ask her if she is willing to take it off?

Maybe she was wild when she was younger but conservative now. Does it really matter how she was before?
From: Costa Rica San José La Uruca @shirley9183 Time : 2013-10-29 04:05:56 #7
Very obviously that she pretend to be pure and conservative, the real conservative Chinese woman will never do such kind of things on the body, even the normal one will also not do it. Only the weird and bad women will do it and think it is a modern way. I suggest you to give up her and search the lovely new one now.
@Anonymous9178 Time : 2013-10-29 07:31:27 #8
@Anonymous918 My apologies ahead of time for not being a 35+ year old woman, but that being said my opinion is that you should just ask her the details. I think I would be equally surprised by such a discovery if I had formed a view of someone. On the other hand.. I'd hate for my outlook on life to be judged by a one mistake I made. I have an ex that did this when she was going through a phase of feeling old. It made her feel young-ish to get a piercing. Good luck!
@Anonymous9181 Time : 2013-10-29 09:30:05 #9
I wonder... Why don't you just ask her, instead of making assumptions that it belies some deep seeded and/or secret meaning about her character?

If you are interested in her, as opposed to merely being interested in judging her, perhaps it would be a good conversation starter. I would suggest you phrase it as more of a compliment leading you to be curious about its origin or her thoughts about getting it and less as if you are perplexed by the dichotomy of one who seems to be conservative but does something you think makes her a bit of a bad girl. I know you claim to not be against such things but your wording, "fateful decision" sounds more like you think it has permanently marked her as less somehow.
From: China 陕西(shan xi) 西安(xi an ) @zhang77 Time : 2013-10-29 11:20:18 #10
The umbilical ring does not represent what actually, everyone be fond of, like people who have tattoos are not necessarily bad people, people who don't have a tattoo also are not necessarily good, not to say that the external conservative women she thought is conservative and old fashion concept, also some women are conservative and look fashionable , you will notice if it is emotional man, hide will not be permanent, words and deeds will teach hidden secret, I wish good luck.

@Anonymous9204 Time : 2013-10-29 18:03:36 #11

From: China 辽宁(liao ning) 大连(da lian ) @haifeng Time : 2013-10-29 21:47:00 #12
From: China 江苏(jiang su) 南京(nan jing ) @shellnong Time : 2013-10-29 21:48:49 #13
From: Canada Ontario Hamilton @mike1963 Time : 2013-10-29 22:08:34 #14
I'm sorry. I'm a little confused. Did you read a different question than I? Nowhere did this man say that he had slept with this woman. Please understand that in western culture, conservative women , in appearance and behaviour, do not have belly piercings. There are wild women who have jobs that require them to appear conservative. I am assuming that this man was not exposed to her only at her workplace. Why then would it take a year for him to know about the piercing? I have tatoos , and two piercings, in one ear, and my tongue. These are things that I reveal to a potential partner within a few weeks of corresponding. The question this man should be asking is, why did she hide this from me? In my way of thinking, this is comparable to not revealing that she has a child, or even a criminal record. After a year there should not be a piercing that he should not know about.
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