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Come on Macchap............

From: China 山东(shan dong) 济宁(ji ning ) @paulfox1 Time : 2016-08-07 00:39:53

Tell us why you would want to marry a Chinese lady who you could never have a real marriage with?



We're all waiting with baited breath.....


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From: Ukraine Dnipropetrovsk Dneprovskoye @Sergey77 Time : 2017-12-12 18:11:04 #1

Hey. It's strange that no one answers this question). I am registered on many western and Chinese dating sites. I think first you need to decide on the meaning of the word "Marriage" in different cultures. I was married for 12 years on a Ukrainian girl (I live in Ukraine, in the city of Kropiwnicki (Kirovograd) this is the geographical center of Ukraine, by the way my city was not on the list and I put the nearest city from me. When I was 8 my grandmother was a Russian teacher and music, lived in Kiev (the capital of Ukraine) took me to museums, theaters, ballet and opera performances, after which she acted as an actor in some amateur theaters.As in the times of the USSR, all her actions (my grandmother's) were voluntary-compulsory Forced me forcibly They were deeply involved in my character and world perception, and these voluntary compulsory actions lasted a long time, until I went to college, my father was a military officer, as well as grandfather, great-grandfather, great-grandfather and all the men in my family and his upbringing was compulsory - a man must be a military man, be able to wield arms, must protect his family and his homeland; chants, culture, drawing on canvas for women. My father grew a real man from me, I was engaged in boxing, I had a weapon since childhood, better than any soldier was dismantling and assembling a Kalashnikov assault rifle, watching a hunting rifle and going hunting. When I came to the grandmother for a vacation (More than 4 months a year), for me it was a paradise - no one forced me to kill rabbits or roe deer, I did not rip off skins from killed animals and did not cut live fish.
Initially, I was a kind child, but I was born in Bryansk (Russia), and unlike Ukraine there is a more severe people, and the street is a race for survival - if not you beat means you are beaten. My father constantly beat and insulted me, so I was not afraid of beatings and had good authority among the courtyards of juvenile gangsters, but like any gangster I had a certain set of laws of which I adhered - I did not beat the weak, I did not raise my hand to the girl, and my whole I took aggression on stronger opponents. I was fearless not afraid of pain and vented my anger by sticking to groups of children or older teens. Having moved to Ukraine, they did not want to take any school because of my characteristics in my case. My father in the city took the post of deputy chief of staff of civil defense, mother of an English language and literature teacher with the help of connections in the communist party and my grandfather (he was at that time a teacher in the flight school in Kiev and a party figure), I was accepted to school. For many children, parents forbade me to communicate, I could send a teacher or director to a mat, could start to beat an adult. I ran away from home many times, my favorite pastime was to go out onto the road and meet the cars, waiting for who would first turn, for which I was repeatedly beaten by drivers. At the age of 5, I had a younger sister, it was a small, sweet and helpless creature whom I began to love madly. This is my only soul that I did not give to anyone. At the age of 9, I started to like girls and, I started to pay attention to adult women aged 14-30 at the age of 12-13. In general, I always liked the range of 18 to 45 years, but I always chose girls younger, and later much younger than myself.
I oharaktirizoval my life that would be understood how I had feelings. The first acquaintance with the Chinese girls happened at 10 years old, the Chinese theater came to Kiev to speak, I was impressed by the beauty of the faces and the harmony of the movements of Chinese women, they not only complemented each other, but also worked in unison with the team, it was well-coordinated a mechanism from different personalities and at the same time each girl carried an individuality. I was in love with a woman I think she was about 25-30 years old. Later I attended many performances by Chinese actors' troupes, I still had a poster of a Chinese girl when I was 15, she was about 30 years old, I still remember her eyes, body,. her movements, her voice. Ukrainian men like girls in the body, with a big bust, a big booty and that would cook well. I think I became a disruption for my father, I hate violence - I'm a pacifist, I'm a vegetarian, I have not become a military man since I do not recognize any violence and I hate guns, I do not have a male profession - I'm a psychologist (demagogue as the father says), I'm attractive a man by the standards of Ukrainian girls - I have many fans of different ages, but at the same time I can give myself all the girl I love, I cook, I give the reins to the girl (not inclined to masochism or submission). Marriage is primarily an alliance with the person you trust, I know that I'm attractive and charismatic, I'm loyal and will never offend and betray my half, Chinese girls are faithful and honor the family - for the sake of feelings you can forgive everything (except treason).This is a subconscious desire to find something pure, native, in which you are sure, but which can surprise you with your strange desires or traditions (which she herself will invent, but will say that this is a centuries-old tradition). It is a social aspect to be with someone close and dear, but at the same time constantly guessing it. We all want to be liked - I like the Chinese girls because they know how to love and express it with their eyes.

From: China 山东(shan dong) 济宁(ji ning ) @paulfox1 Time : 2017-12-13 21:25:42 #2


@Sergey77

Thank you for your wonderful response

Such a shame that @Macchap (to whom this mesage was oriiginally addressed), failed to respond.

Speaks volumes........

From: Hong Kong,China Hong Kong Tuen Mun @jellyfish Time : 2017-12-16 11:30:55 #3


@Sergey77, 

Very impressive with your upbringing. The only thing I could say is that your past and life experience will equip you to help your future spouse. Her's will be same to you. You just need patience. 

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