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Chinese women are selfish

@Anonymous1590 Time : 2016-06-22 22:17:25

I am curious to know why Chinese women are for the most part extremely selfish in a relationship be it bf/gf or husband/wife. For the most part I have found almost an ambivilance to the commitment in a relationship from Chinese women. Long distance relationships is where they really show this selfish "me me me" attitude, it almost seems they do not care about the man as long as they get or do what ever they want no matter the damage done.

I can say that most western women I have been invovled with and from what I have seen or heard are so busy trying to emasculate their man they dont ignore them in this fashion...

Opinions from guys and gals most welcomed....

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From: China 广东(guang dong) 湛江(zhan jiang ) @Kittyzx2015 Time : 2016-06-24 08:21:47 #1


你选择了漂亮的女人,你就要接受她的花费;你选择了能干独立的女人,你得接受她的霸道和不讲理; 你选择了赚钱的女人,你得接受她的不顾家;你选择顾家的女人,你得接受她的没赚钱:你选择了坚强勇敢的女人,你得接受她的固执任性;你选择了理性的女人,你得接受她的算计; 你选择了听话的女人,你得接受她的没主见!...........


@Anonymous24836 Time : 2016-06-24 10:50:58 #2
@Anonymous24842 Time : 2016-06-24 16:48:30 #3
I strongly suspect that the problem has been created by you. Abandon your "dartboard' or "trial and error"or "appearance only" approach to choosing a partner. As @Kittyzx2015 correctly points out, there is an enormous diversity of Chinese women. If you approach your choice with more preparation work and care, you will greatly minimize the problems that you have encountered.
From: China 辽宁(liao ning) 沈阳(shen yang ) @AchrisT Time : 2016-06-24 16:52:16 #4
I call it “Wanting a Chinese man in Western clothing.” First thing not all are like that. There are some, and some of the some are really bad. But for most parts I just laugh and move on when I run across one. I can tell you many stories. But another thing you will find is one of the first questions; even though your profile says single/divorce; is “Are you married?” Not give them something; you will get “If I dated a Chinese man ….. “Sometimes you will find the ones that tell you that “I am a traditional woman looking for a traditional marriage.” All the same there are some very nice people out there you just have to explore, or at least I keep telling myself that LOL
@Anonymous24847 Time : 2016-06-24 20:18:39 #5

@Anonymous24849 Time : 2016-06-25 00:25:21 #6
@Kittyzx2015 xie xie for your reply. I am not sure if I understand all that you are trying to say, translation is not always correct. Are you saying no matter what behaviors a Chinese woman has I should just take it, deal with it, accept it? For example: if a woman is extremely selfish as a person and in a relationship I should just accept that is who she is?

I do agree that women have individual personalities but also behave and react like most women of different cultures and races do.

Yes I agree Japanese woman are wonderful people, they tend to be very kind and respectful.

@Anonymous24855 Time : 2016-06-25 12:07:25 #7

Excuse me , most Japanese woman tend to be very kind and respectful that is dependent on the man make all the money supply grow up family ,and money is contral by wife.
From: China 广东(guang dong) 湛江(zhan jiang ) @Kittyzx2015 Time : 2016-06-25 21:27:29 #8

Thank you for your attention!(f)(f)(f)
See your message, let me think of Long Ying tai said: every era has thinking and not thinking of the people.
From: China 广东(guang dong) 湛江(zhan jiang ) @Kittyzx2015 Time : 2016-06-25 21:55:00 #9

@Anonymous24849 and @Anonymous1590 Is the same person???

For "love" confused Sir: Thank you for your attention! Thank you for your patience!

First, please tell me why you first consideration is to choose Chinese woman? Instead of selecting a Japanese woman? Korean woman? Thai woman? ........(the same is Asian countries)

In the vast sea of people, you said that "selfish woman," what initially attracted you to the point?

Now that made a paste, indicating difficult to let go, tangled ....... it means that she has merit? ? ? Still attracts you? ? ?

Her selfishness that you defined? ? ? Or define all your friends? Or communication between you and she have a problem? ??

To understand the Chinese woman the first thing you need to understand Chinese culture, Chinese history, Chinese man, China's system, due to the Pedantic sense preference for boys.

These factors are only created a Chinese woman in the world to make it a "marvel group" .......

Chinese woman is in the vicissitudes of the historical background and the vast expanse of the soil to grow up.......

If you are interested, you can look at American female writer Pearl S. Buck to describe China's novel 《The Good Earth》.

In 1938 for this reason this was awarded the Nobel Prize for literature, many of the problems in this novel, the most serious of the most tragic is the status of Chinese women, to understand today's Chinese women also have reference value! Pearl S. Buck lived in China for nearly 40 years, right? !

Since you mentioned the Japanese woman..... I can also tell you that they are not what you imagine are all very kind and respected man ......There are plenty of people who Foreign to the gentle and virtuous woman lioness's roar.

Please do not generalize, a peephole view, tunnel vision........

I want to say is that in my 20 s, I lived in Tokyo for six and a half years... Japanese women are various, the dizzying...

A lot of people are a mixture of Western and Eastern... (ways of thinking and values .......)

There are also a lot like 《おしん / Oshin》 actress as a woman.

There are women like the Japanese actress in the film below.
Leidenschaften (The Berlin Affair) (1985)

Japanese women in the purchase of a house, to treat men derailment ... etc., it will appear more humane feelings, tolerant attitude...

There is no doubt that the cause of this is built in Japan is a highly developed economy, social civilization and highly sophisticated country .......

I hope you can see is a fair and objective evaluation and description .......

Good luck to you! Life is constantly doing multiple choice!

Excuse me if I've spoken wrong place.




有兴趣的话,可以看看美国女作家赛珍珠描写中国的小说《大地》(The Good Earth),1938年以此获得诺贝尔文学奖,在这部小说的许多问题当中,最严重最悲惨的就是中国妇女的地位问题,对了解今天的中国女人同样有参考价值!赛珍珠在中国生活了近40年吧?!





Leidenschaften (The Berlin Affair) (1985)




@Anonymous24864 Time : 2016-06-25 21:55:16 #10
@Anonymous24855 you said

"Excuse me , most Japanese woman tend to be very kind and respectful that is dependent on the man make all the money supply grow up family ,and money is contral by wife."

Your words describes a Chinese women to the T.
From: China 广东(guang dong) 湛江(zhan jiang ) @Kittyzx2015 Time : 2016-06-26 16:10:43 #11





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@Anonymous24998 Time : 2016-07-13 00:47:39 #13

"Excuse me , most Japanese woman tend to be very kind and respectful that is dependent on the man make all the money supply grow up family ,and money is contral by wife."

No "woman" will ever control my money anytime anywhere. Any man who voluntarily gives up control of his money is a foolish man. Most people have been trained to believe women are better with money which is a fallacy. It is just a way in which women attempt to control the man... lollol

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