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爱的五种语言 Five Love Languages

From: China 广东(guang dong) 广州(guang zhou ) @WarmLifeGz7 Time : 2019-01-03 13:18:58

Instead of creating a Blog that would need to be continued in a series I decided to let the English counterpart go it's way and put the Chinese version here .   Contribute your own ideas and feedback as well .  Of course, using either of the two main Languages used in CLM -- or you could try out your Cantonese, Hakka or whatever dialect you might prefer.  



每一个人都有一个情绪的爱箱,只有当这个爱箱填满了的时候,人际关系才能发展。然南,不同人的爱箱需要用不同的语言来填满。查普曼博士发现人们基本上有五种爱的语言:肯定的言词、精心的时刻、接受礼物、服务的行动、身体的接触。 两性间许多误解、隔阂、争吵都是由于不了解或者忽略了对方的主要爱语造成的。当夫妻双方主动选择使用对方的主要爱语时,就能够很好地发展彼此的亲密关系,并积极地处理婚姻中的冲突和失败。 本书将带领读者跨越两性沟通的迷思与阻隔,填满自己和伴侣的爱箱,进行一场婚姻的内在革命。 本书自1992年出版问世以来,三年间销量突破300000册,十年间突破了1000000册,并被译成20种文字在全球发行。



 简春安  

 

 "我若能说万人的方言,并天使的话语,却没有爱,我就成了鸣的锣,响的拨一般。 "这是至理名言。 谈到爱,就必须讲究"沟通";谈到沟通,就必须执著于"爱"。 (爱的五种语言一一创造完美的两性沟通》这本书的原名是"The Five Love Languages",专门教导读者如何去表达爱的语言,从婚姻的角度来看,这是一本好书,而且是一本重要的书。

 

 我从事婚姻辅导至今已有20年,发现在很多状况中,贤妻良母不一定得到先生的疼爱;奉公守法、刚正不阿的男人,不见得太太就喜欢;认真努力的人也不见得就一定成功……这些情形不免令人感触万分。 但是仔细探讨其过程,不难发现它的因由,最主要的原因是他们不会沟通,不会表达情爱。 导致明明是心地善良,却被以为冷漠奸诈;明明是要表达情爱,却被认为肉麻不堪;明明是兴奋莫名,却被误解为大发脾气……难怪会有"我俩因误会而结合,因了解而分开"这种嘲弄婚姻的说辞产生。

 

 本书从理论上来分析,算是颇为完整的。 它提到了沟通的类别,除了言词的沟通,还包括了身体的接触(行为语言的了解),也探讨如何发现主要爱语(隐示沟通)。 它详细分析了爱情的技巧:肯定的言词、精心的时刻、接受礼物、服务的行动以及身体的接触等。 最难能可贵的是这本书也提到了爱情的理智层次与意志层次:"爱是一种选择"以及"爱那不可爱的"。 从这些内容里,可以揣测出作者在婚姻辅导上的经验与功力,读者若好好钻研这本书(最好是夫妻一起阅读),相信对婚姻一定会有很大的帮助。

 

 夫妻是永世情缘,理应好好相爱,共度一生。 这种百年好合的境界,不能光靠运气与缘分,而必须以"努力学习"、"不断成长"的方式来处理。 但愿这本书能造就更多的婚姻,使更多的人更幸福。



黄友玲  

 

 问世间爱为何物?

 

 新闻两则并列,竟令我心神恍惚,不禁兴叹:"问世间爱为何物?

 

 台湾南部一对结婚六十载的夫妻,竟以悲剧为终,老先生用斧头将老太太砍死,为的只是怀疑老太太把他家的祖产卖掉。

 

 这天,老先生趁着两人单独相处之时,就朝着老太太的头颅劈去,一时间鲜血四进,老太太惨叫一声倒地。

 

 据报道,老先生行凶时手上还戴着台湾省政府去年颁发给他们的特别礼物一一一只恭喜他们自头偕老的钻石婚戒指,真讽刺,是不是?

 

 另一则是著名银色夫妻布鲁斯•威利和黛咪•摩尔终于在谣言飞天数年之后,以离婚结束了他们11年的感情生活。

 

 这一对佳偶曾经羡煞了多少人! 一个孔武有力、魅力十足;一个娇媚多情、随光四射,想当初他们的结合曾经是那么风光,那么引人注目。 而今,物换星移,丈夫怀疑妻子不忠实,妻子厌恶丈夫的不信任,终于反目成仇,各奔东西。

 

 所谓"爱情"是什么? "婚姻"又有什么意义? 正如本书作者所发出的疑问"婚礼之后,爱情发生了什么变化? "



难道爱情在一夕之间变质? 难道婚姻只有一纸之薄? 在信誓旦旦的背后,隐藏的不是玫瑰花,而是荆棘,现代人的婚姻到底怎么了? 以上两则新闻中的男女主角,在世人的眼光里,本来都应该可以白头偕老、永浴爱河的。 一对是已逾半世纪的老夫妻,一对是金童玉女、天作之合,难道爱情一人婚姻,就完全走了样?

 

 作者查普曼博士看见了这个时代最大的危机就是婚姻的危机,他也看见了造成今日婚姻危机的真正原因,而更难能可贵的是他所提出来的解决办法都不是空中楼阁、纸上谈兵,那些方法都是可以实行的、容易实行的。



他就像是一位医生,看见了患者的病症在哪里,然后对症下药;他看得准,也下得准。 诚如本书中好几对濒临婚姻破裂的夫妻在查普曼博士智慧的指点与导引下,走出了阴囊,拨云见日。 这位婚姻医生的洞见与魄力是值得敬佩的。

 

 本书提出的爱的语言共有五个,即"肯定的言辞"、"精心的时刻"、"接受礼物"、"服务的行动"、"身体的接触"。 当爱情在婚姻里必须变得"现实"的时候,这些语言的练习实在是夫妻经营婚姻不能不知的秘诀。

 

 在两性沟通的领域里,"行为"有时候比"言语"的声音还大,如果我们不懂得将婚前的甜言蜜语,转换成为婚后爱的行动,这样的爱情恐怕很快就会崩溃瓦解。

 

 我认识一对夫妻,婚前恋爱甜蜜蜜,婚后不久竟时常拉警报,三天两头吵,我问起原因,太太告诉我的竟是:"我整天忙得要命,又要上班,又要管小孩子吃喝拉撒睡,他嫌我讲话不够温柔,不够小鸟依人,可是我告诉他,我们是要过生活的,我如果还小鸟依人的话,大家都不要活了! "

 

 从这个真实的例子,我们可以得知,正如查普曼博士在本书中所提出的:婚姻生活里,男性与女性的需求常有差异,对彼此的要求也常常是南辕北辙。 然而,在这样的危机里,如果不懂得将婚前罗曼蒂克的语言,转换成为婚后爱的行动,用行动来说"我爱你"的话,这样的婚姻是极难维持的。

 

 要拥有一个不令你失望的婚姻吗? 要一个真正能"白头偕老、永浴爱河"的婚姻吗? 这本书值得婚前的恋爱男女阅读,更值得已婚的夫妻阅读,在离婚率高涨的今天,这本书实在是无价的。

 

 如果爱情是一则神话,那么这本书可以使美梦成真:如果爱情是一颗蜜糖,那么这本书能教你如何防潮防腐。

 

 让爱情进入婚姻永不褪色,永葆如新。



Holmes!  Watson?  Is this a new Case Afoot?  Yes, indeed Watson, TallyHo! 



 


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From: China 浙江(zhe jiang) 杭州(hang zhou ) @JohnAbbot Time : 2019-01-05 04:15:39 #1

Hey Jim, just because it is a thread doesn't mean you have to cast aside the English. Feel free to add the English in a comment and I'll try to add it to the thread. If you wish?


From: United States California Los Angeles @ferlo Time : 2019-01-07 09:31:41 #2

@WarmLiveGz7    Is nice to have something to read about what this site is meant to be. "LOVE"

 I used to read most blogs but lately they are not regarding for what most subscribers of CLM are her for. 

Goog thread Jim keep them like this. 

   Fernando Lopez

    

From: China 广东(guang dong) 广州(guang zhou ) @WarmLifeGz7 Time : 2019-01-11 20:56:07 #3

Ὑμεῖς γὰρ ἐπ’ ἐλευθερίᾳ ἐκλήθητε, ἀδελφοί· μόνον μὴ τὴν ἐλευθερίαν εἰς ἀφορμὴν τῇ σαρκί, ἀλλὰ διὰ τῆς ἀγάπης δουλεύετε ἀλλήλοις·  ὁ γὰρ πᾶς νόμος ἐν ἑνὶ λόγῳ πεπλήρωται, ἐν τῷ· Ἀγαπήσεις τὸν πλησίον σου ὡς σεαυτόν.  εἰ δὲ ἀλλήλους δάκνετε καὶ κατεσθίετε, βλέπετε μὴ ὑπ’ ἀλλήλων ἀναλωθῆτε.
 Λέγω δέ, πνεύματι περιπατεῖτε καὶ ἐπιθυμίαν σαρκὸς οὐ μὴ τελέσητε.
Ὁ δὲ καρπὸς τοῦ πνεύματός ἐστιν ἀγάπη, χαρά, εἰρήνη, μακροθυμία, χρηστότης, ἀγαθωσύνη, πίστις,  πραΰτης, ἐγκράτεια· κατὰ τῶν τοιούτων οὐκ ἔστιν νόμος.
 εἰ ζῶμεν πνεύματι, πνεύματι καὶ στοιχῶμεν.  μὴ γινώμεθα κενόδοξοι, ἀλλήλους προκαλούμενοι, ἀλλήλοις φθονοῦντες.
 ----  ἀλλήλων  ---- τὰ βάρη βαστάζετε,   
ἄρα οὖν ὡς καιρὸν ἔχομεν, ἐργαζώμεθα τὸ ἀγαθὸν πρὸς πάντας, μάλιστα δὲ πρὸς τοὺς οἰκείους τῆς πίστεως.
ὁ γὰρ καρπὸς τοῦ φωτὸς ἐν πάσῃ ἀγαθωσύνῃ καὶ δικαιοσύνῃ καὶ ἀληθείᾳ
Βλέπετε οὖν ἀκριβῶς πῶς περιπατεῖτε, μὴ ὡς ἄσοφοι ἀλλ’ ὡς σοφοί  ---   ὑποτασσόμενοι ἀλλήλοις ----
 οὕτως ὀφείλουσιν καὶ οἱ ἄνδρες ἀγαπᾶν τὰς ἑαυτῶν γυναῖκας ὡς τὰ ἑαυτῶν σώματα· ὁ ἀγαπῶν τὴν ἑαυτοῦ γυναῖκα ἑαυτὸν ἀγαπᾷ,
 οὐδεὶς γάρ ποτε τὴν ἑαυτοῦ σάρκα ἐμίσησεν, ἀλλὰ ἐκτρέφει καὶ θάλπει αὐτήν,
πλὴν καὶ ὑμεῖς οἱ καθ’ ἕνα ἕκαστος τὴν ἑαυτοῦ γυναῖκα οὕτως ἀγαπάτω ὡς ἑαυτόν, ἡ δὲ γυνὴ ἵνα φοβῆται τὸν ἄνδρα.
 μὴ ψεύδεσθε εἰς ἀλλήλους· ἀπεκδυσάμενοι τὸν παλαιὸν ἄνθρωπον σὺν ταῖς πράξεσιν αὐτοῦ,  καὶ ἐνδυσάμενοι τὸν νέον τὸν ἀνακαινούμενον εἰς ἐπίγνωσιν κατ’ εἰκόνα τοῦ κτίσαντος αὐτόν
 Ἐνδύσασθε οὖν ὡς ἐκλεκτοὶ τοῦ θεοῦ, ἅγιοι καὶ ἠγαπημένοι, σπλάγχνα οἰκτιρμοῦ, χρηστότητα, ταπεινοφροσύνην, πραΰτητα, μακροθυμίαν,  ἀνεχόμενοι ἀλλήλων καὶ χαριζόμενοι ἑαυτοῖς ἐάν τις πρός τινα ἔχῃ μομφήν· καθὼς καὶ ὁ [f]κύριος ἐχαρίσατο ὑμῖν οὕτως καὶ ὑμεῖς·  ἐπὶ πᾶσιν δὲ τούτοις τὴν ἀγάπην, ὅ ἐστιν σύνδεσμος τῆς τελειότητος.
Τὰς ψυχὰς ὑμῶν ἡγνικότες ἐν τῇ ὑπακοῇ τῆς ἀληθείας εἰς φιλαδελφίαν ἀνυπόκριτον ἐκ καρδίας ἀλλήλους ἀγαπήσατε ἐκτενῶς
πάντας τιμήσατε, τὴν ἀδελφότητα ἀγαπᾶτε,   --- Οἱ ἄνδρες ὁμοίως συνοικοῦντες κατὰ γνῶσιν, ὡς ἀσθενεστέρῳ σκεύει τῷ γυναικείῳ ἀπονέμοντες τιμήν, ὡς καὶ συγκληρονόμοις χάριτος ζωῆς, εἰς τὸ μὴ ἐγκόπτεσθαι τὰς προσευχὰς ὑμῶν.
Τὸ δὲ τέλος πάντες ὁμόφρονες, συμπαθεῖς, φιλάδελφοι, εὔσπλαγχνοι, ταπεινόφρονες,  μὴ ἀποδιδόντες κακὸν ἀντὶ κακοῦ ἢ λοιδορίαν ἀντὶ λοιδορίας τοὐναντίον δὲ εὐλογοῦντες, ὅτι εἰς τοῦτο ἐκλήθητε ἵνα εὐλογίαν κληρονομήσητε

This should suffice for this post --  the key point of using Greek is to display -- one another  ----  ἀλλήλων  ---- Although it is a reciprocal pronoun on the surface of the ground of grammar --  in my perspective it has a secret identity akin to Clark Kent or Bruce Wayne -- tooooooo often within a society of consumeristic bots scrambling everywhere in their pursuit of "whatever" individual desires they seek to satisfy --  there is very little or nonexistent focus upon --- the "other" .  Concepts such as mutuality are only wispy shadows lurking behind objects that are passed by ...  --- the sharing of a feeling, action, or relationship between two or more parties.  ---
----  Synonyms for Mutuality: n. alliance (noun) accord, affinity, collaboration, collusion, communion, concord, concurrence, connection, cooperation, interrelation, kinship, union. common ground (noun) community, commutuality. cordiality (noun) reciprocity, sympathy, understanding  ---  allow me to introduce yet another two Greek words -- Perichoresis (from Greek: περιχώρησις perikhōrēsis,  --  The noun first appears in the writings of Maximus Confessor (d. 662) but the related verb perichoreo is found earlier in Gregory of Nazianzus (d. 389/90).[3] Gregory used it to describe the relationship between three hypostases as did John of Damascus --Modern authors extend the original usage as an analogy to cover other interpersonal relationships. The term "co(-)inherence" is sometimes used as a synonym.   -- "Perichoresis" is derived from the Greek peri, "around" and chorein, which has multiple meanings among them being "to make room for", "go forward" and "contain".[7] Circumincession from the Latin circum, "around" and incedere meaning "to go, to step, approach"  In a colloquial fashion I would consider this scenario to be akin to a "Grand Dance"  which invokes our imagination to perceive the "acts" -- the "motion" -- the passion -- the pursuit of interconnecting with others -- a exceptional bonding taking place ---  the integration of "others" as they seek to become a "unity" yet with "diversity"  .   Again -- this is a vibrant, effervescent fellowship --κοινωνία --  koinónia -- fellowship -- there are actual and authentic significant "acts" of social behavior that belong to enriching the "Community's" well-being as well as towards each other .   Thus this is my reason to consider this phenomena as a majestic "Grand Dance" between people who breath, walk and live in order to enhance the social dynamics of the "Community" whether this be a 'couple' or many persons. These "acts" are indicative of, conducive to, or promoting good health.  e.g. · health-giving · healthful · wholesome · nutritious · nourishing · beneficial · salubrious · salutary · beneficial · health-giving · healthful · salubrious · salutary · invigorating · bracing · refreshing · tonic · stimulating · hygienic · clean · --- in contrast to dysfunctional erratic selfish autonomous conflict which breaks up the -- κοινωνία --  koinónia -- fellowship ( (lit: partnership) (a) contributory help, participation, (b) sharing in, communion, --  properly, what is shared in common as the basis of fellowship (partnership, community).   Also communion in this aspect goes way beyond any particular ocassion that might happen within the "Community" .  
Using English has a tendency to take it all for granted, potentially boring,  old hat etc ....   besides there is a lot of cultural baggage along with stereotypical quagmires also attached to English writing .   I will add the Chinese text later .   It is very well known, that reading, listening or participation in a Motivational - Inspirational pep talk lecture can often lend itself towards "abstract" floating through the Sky ... or fail to inculculate -- instill (an attitude, idea, or habit) by persistent instruction.  Thus for these posts I will try to put forward a proposal that insists upon "acts" instead of abstract notions .    

For those who are keen enough to notice that I have avoided Traditional Jargon should also at the same time  --- realize --- that I have done this on purpose -- not to use Harry Potter's Invisibility Cloak to hide something -- but rather to doubly emphasize the ---- Relational interconnected social behavior --- necessary for a Healthy (non-dysfunctional selfish autonomous behavior ) "Community" to exist, thrive, develop and blossom as the Spring rain and bees assist flora to do so .. Personally, I do not care whether anyone accepts my "background" foundation or not .   The principles above and those which continue onwards are suitable and apropos for healthy social interrelated "acts " of the Five Love Languages, and the corollary areas which will be shared in other threads .   8)8)8)8)8)

By the way -- it is not so necessary to be able to read all of the Greek above as I will translate and give explanations as I go on by discussing keywords .    Avoiding the English seems to aid and support my previous students to focus their attention where it should be -- upon the keywords and significant concepts presented .   8)8)8)

From: China 广东(guang dong) 广州(guang zhou ) @WarmLifeGz7 Time : 2019-01-12 00:02:26 #4

How do I get through the night without you --- 没有你 漫漫长夜该如何熬过  ---  If I had to live without you  ---  失去了你的生命  ---  What kinda life would that be
会是哪般风景  --- Oh I need you in my arms, need you to hold   --- 多么想把你抱在怀里 紧紧相拥  --- You are my world, my heart, my soul  --- 你是我的小宇宙  住在我心  侵占我灵  --- If you ever leave  --- 倘若哪天你离去  ---- baby you would take away everything good in my life  --- 你会夺走我生命中的一切美好希冀  ---*  
And tell me now --- 告诉我  --- How do I live without you?  ---  没有你 我怎么过活 --- I want to know  --- 想知道 --- How do I breathe without you?  ---没有你 我怎么呼吸  ----  If you ever go   --- 被你抛弃  ---  How do I ever, ever survive  --- 只能苟延喘息 ---  How do I, how do I, oh how do I live --- 我怎么、怎么、怎能活下去 *  
Without you  ---- 没有你  --- There would be no sun in my sky  --- 天空看不见一丝光明  ---- there would be no love in my life  --- 生命失去了爱的环绕  --- there'd be no world left for me  --- 世界也徒剩一副躯壳  --- And I, baby, I don't know what I would do --- 而我 我已不知如何是好  --- I'd be lost if I lost you   --- 失去你 我会丢了自己
If you ever leave  --  如果你离去  ---  baby you would take away everything real in my life ---- 你会掠去我生命中的每一份真  repeat**  Please tell me baby how do I go on
请告诉我 我该如何继续前行  --- If you ever leave  --- 如果你离去  --- baby you would take away everything  --- 我的世界会被搜刮的无一碎片  ---- need you with me  ---  真的需要你 ---  baby don't you know that you are everything good in my life  ---  你可知道 你是我今生所遇最美   ---  

Birds flying high   --- 群鸟高飞  --- You know how I feel  --- 你知道我的感受 --- Sun in the sky  -- 艳阳当空  --- You know how I feel  --- 你知道我的感受  --- Reeds driftin' on by  --- 芦苇漂过 --- You know how I feel  --- 你知道我的感受  --- It's a new dawn --- It's a new day  --- It's a new life  --- For me   --- 对我而言,这是新的黎明,新的一天,新的生活   --- And I'm feeling good  --- 我感觉正好  --- Fish in the sea  --- 鱼儿在海里游  ---- You know how I feel  --- 你知道我的感受  --- River running free ----河流奔腾自由  --- You know how I feel  --- 你知道我的感受  --- Blossom on the tree  ---- 树上繁华朵朵  ---- You know how I feel  --- 你知道我的感受  --- It's a new dawn
It's a new day   --- It's a new life  ---  For me --- 对我而言,这是新的黎明,新的一天,新的生活  ---- And I'm feeling good  --- 我感觉正好  --- Dragon fly out in the sun
蜻蜓无忧无虑飞舞  --- You know what I mean, don't you know --- 你知道我的意思,不是吗?  Butterflies all havin' fun  --- 蝴蝶四处寻欢嬉戏  --- You know what I mean
你知道我的意思  ---- Sleep in peace when the day is done   ---  白日消逝,平和入睡  ---- And this old world  --- Is a new world  --- And a bold world  --- For me  ---------这古老的世界,对我而言又是如此的新奇显目  ----- Stars when you shine  ---  星光闪耀  --- You know how I feel  --- 你知道我的感受   ---  Scent of the pine  ---------- 松香弥漫  ----You know how I feel   ---- 你知道我的感受  -----  Yeah freedom is mine ---- 是啊,自由属于我  ---- And you know how I feel  ---  你知道我的感受 ------It's a new dawn  ---- It's a new day  ---- It's new life  ----- For me  --- 对我而言,这是新的黎明,新的一天,新的生活

These two songs --- Carly Rose on X-factor with Leann Rimes ---  lyrics without the singer's performance cannot match the passionate vibrant vitality of the musical experience .   Love, or other concepts also cannot match the same vitality and enlightenment without the authentic ( as contrasted to fake or lethargic or "cold" body language exhibited by another )  "acts" of Passionate experience shared with another .   These "acts" are not based upon any Moralistic scheme, Law, Rule of Society either .   One of the biggest challenges to face social behavior is --- after someone has attempted to ---- manage · direct · control · operate · regulate · conduct · handle · run · orchestrate · organize · supervise · superintend · oversee from some codified schema of social behavior.   After any concept becomes codified it will inevitably become ossified .  Any written text that is used in a codified manner will indeed become an indurated page of words ---  any written text that loses its literary wings to soar through the blue skies filled with the salubrious snow white clouds under the radiant Sun will certainly become warped into being a dark thunderstorm with shadows etching their mark upon hearts and minds .. thus the corollary of these musings will be reflected via the source of each individual's social behavior ---  Will it be a shadow or will it be light ?  Will the source be a Dementor (Harry Potter's World ) ---  or a Patronus ?   ---Dementors feed on human happiness and thus generate feelings of depression and despair in any person in close proximity to them. They can also consume a person's soul, leaving their victims in a permanent vegetative state, and thus are often referred to as "soul-sucking fiends", rendering a person an 'empty-shell'.  Whereas the only protection or force capable of dealing with these Dementors are a Patronus ...   I am using this an illustrative contrast between that which ruptures, breaches, disrupts the perichoretic fellowship in order to create or maintain chaos etc ....  or that which enhances, augments, strengthens the mutual benefits of belonging to the "Community" in order to share love, hope, peace, kindness etc ....  

 

From: United Kingdom Hampshire Alton @RobertB Time : 2019-04-10 01:39:14 #5

 

 

我懂你说的一点。 我的汉语还差, 可是我的生活的知识查更多了。

第一:

两个人, 应该是大人。 他们两个知道, 自己决定生活在一起。

在过去, 人物责任比现在不一样。 那就话, 我们能说婚姻比较容易。

男的提供钱和安全, 女人提供, 安慰和家庭的经理, 特别天天生活关注。 差不多。 

现在我们要成为多面手。 

男女要关注任务, 财富, 孩子, 彼此, 自己,饮食疗养。

所以比以前复杂。 更挑战。 需要自由, 需要包容, 需要责任, 需要革新和适应。

技术和技巧。 

所以要成为完美的人。 

I understand some Chinese so I can attempt to add something from me. In XXI century we have achieved geat numbers and abilites that means we do not have to do anything any more. We just need to focus at being better human beings. The society and civillization will not die so quickly. So, in the past man was just provinding food, money and safety and woman was providing food, home care and emotional nourishment. Now everybody has to work and everybody has to be kung fu master (yes, you need to do your work well and even very welll does not matter if it is making omlette or making money. or even other things.. haha. Psyhology is more important than ever, you need to improve yourself, control your spouse, family and your kids. Knowedge of nourishment and markets will help you feed yourself and family better to the health and happiness of them all. Do not forget the aesthetics. Men especially can learn a lot from women, who have to work on many things especially not to underestimate the man. Who can just not appear or disappear and then can be a problem Not for her so much but in the long run for the society. Men not able to contribute deliver two spikes. Increase in money wealth through increased female productivity and sharp decline in birth rates leading to overall changes. Hard to predict. For now. So, we need to learn, be patient, tolerant to a degree, vigilant, and relaxed. Pray, talk and experiment, meditate. Accumulate wealth. Hope for the best and prepare for the worst. Love, always love with pure love. That will save you first. If you lkove you will listen and watch. This will alert you to anything you need to know to adapt. 

This advice is good for everyone I think, men, women, children, robots and aliens alike.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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