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571 Views | 10 Comments | 0 Articles | 6/24/2017 7:01:55 AM
From the kitchen, the woman went to the hallway. After checking her dress in the mirror there, she quickly ran her fingers through her hair one more time, then opened the door. In the doorway, a young man stood, slightly out of breath after climbing six flight of stairs. In his hands, he held a potted cactus, the size of a soccer ball. He looked to be in his early twenties. Sweat covered his face, and a lock of hairs stuck to his forehead. His gray T-shirt was soaked through, leaving dark spots around his armpits and on his chest. His chinos, loose-fitting, were cut at knee hight. His bony legs ended up in a pair of battered running shoes. He had abnormally large feet. If hard times were to sneak upon him and in the lack of a job, he could have easily tried out for an elite swimming team. With his lean body and those huge flippers of his, he could have even made it to the Olympics. Looking somewhat startled, the young man apologized for being late with the delivery. Then, as if in need to say more, he opened his mouth but, in the next second, quickly swallowed the words and looked behind him. One of the woman's neighbors, an elderly man with a walking stick, was getting down the stairs. Read more…
455 Views | 6 Comments | 0 Articles | 6/13/2017 7:19:56 AM

With her arms crossed over her chest, the woman held the comforter as if trying to shield herself against whoever it was in the dark. Despite the insufficient protection the blanket provided, it actually stopped her from screaming out in fear. A little while later, though, when something grazed her forehead, she almost cried out. The only reason for staying silent was that the touch was soft and came with a scent that surprised and muted her. The smell was of orchids; she was able to identify it right away. Someone was touching her forehead, face, and hands with the velvety petals of the flowers. Read more…

1472 Views | 13 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/18/2017 11:31:08 PM

After she had been pulled off the bed, the woman lay supine and in horror on the hardwood floor. Her husband, very unsteady on his feet, stood over her body, feeling smug after his demonstration of spineless dominance. His clothes and breath reeked of smoke and alcohol, and a dense haze of delirium clouded his eyes. He slurred something that the woman couldn't fully understand. Having no idea how to respond, she kept quiet. She didn't dare to even breathe or blink. Like a fish out of water, she just lay there, submissive, on the floor, clearly still in shock from what had just transpired. The old bruise on her back began to ache again, pounding a steady rhythm with her racing heart. She wished—if butterfly she could be no more—to be a fish, hiding from the world deep down in an abyss of eternal darkness. She wanted to be anything but a woman who got less respect from her husband than a homeless, hapless beggar. Read more…

806 Views | 4 Comments | 0 Articles | 11/5/2016 3:05:59 AM

Have you been feeling confused why you always attract wrong person even if you think you are a very good person? Actually we can see many of such matching around us. Externally, one kind and capable person often marry with someone who is not so considerate or even a little cold-hearted instead. As mentioned in the physics book, the different electronic charges inter attract each other, it also suits for human being. They are just like a combination from the both extremes. Read more…

940 Views | 11 Comments | 0 Articles | 10/17/2016 1:29:43 PM

During your first, several or whole interaction with someone you are contacting, have you ever experienced one, several or all mentioned as followings? 在和对方交往的第一次,几次或是整个互动中,你曾经有经历过下面所说的一种、几种或是所有情形吗? Read more…

1012 Views | 5 Comments | 0 Articles | 9/13/2016 4:07:17 AM

“Come in,” I said. Read more…

2482 Views | 42 Comments | 1 Articles | 8/27/2016 10:38:42 PM

I know a 53-year-old man who has failed with two marriages with women from China. It is unlikely that he will ever get a third opportunity. He is good at so many things, but not relationships with women. It looks like the relationship part of his brain still only works at the level of a 14-year-old. I also know men in their sixties and seventies who have the same problem with the relationship part of their brain. Read more…

684 Views | 8 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/9/2016 10:40:28 PM

Julia was still sound asleep as Daniel gingerly crept into the bedroom. He quietly slipped off his clothes and slid slowly into bed beside her. He wasn't safe yet. It was nearly 4am and it was cold outside. If Julia unconsciously came too close and touched his cool body, she may awaken and ask questions. Questions that Daniel wouldn't know how to answer. Especially in a way that would satisfy her insatiable appetite for knowing how he spends every second of every day. Read more…

782 Views | 8 Comments | 18 Articles | 5/21/2016 8:54:44 AM

When I heard the hens singing, “Hens lay eggs?!”  I put down my basket on the table, took off gloves, dried my hands, and I ran to the chicken house. Look! There it is! The two black hens were singing there, a shining egg was lying in the nest. I picked up the egg carefully: it was warm,sticked with feather; I cleaned it with my hands, held it and ran to tell my husband and kid happily…… Read more…

2609 Views | 25 Comments | 0 Articles | 9/15/2015 6:39:59 AM

I just don’t get it. Many members on sites such as CLM are divorced and already have kids, right? So unless you plan to have more kids, then why marry? It may sound like a strange question to ask on a dating site, but consider the argument for a few moments... Read more…

1543 Views | 9 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/29/2015 1:15:08 PM

This entry is largely in response to John's blog “Whether a Chinese Woman or Western Woman, Is This True”? The question, “...why don't we all choose to live happily ever after, ALONE?” I will attempt to answer... Read more…

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1563 Views | 10 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/20/2015 8:20:10 AM

Originally, when I first saw this, my thought ran something like this - "If this is how you feel about relationships and women, then dude, you've been in the wrong relationships and been choosing the wrong kind of women! A good, Chinese woman will most certainly shift your perspective and you'll have a genuine happy ending." But then I thought, maybe that's just me, and maybe I've just been lucky. Read more…

947 Views | 2 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/16/2015 3:49:51 PM

There is just something so ironically funny about this newspaper headline that I had to post it here. As a male who has grown just a little weary of all men being vilified for every wrong ever committed by every male who ever lived as if not one of us, in the history of mankind, has ever done anything good, my hat goes off to one Hugo Martin, the Times reporter who penned this item. Read more…

1054 Views | 4 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/10/2015 9:59:05 AM

It seems that, according ot the ever reliable Onion, the evidence is in that the very best way to guarantee the woman you love who has dumped your ass will want you back is to devote every waking moment to crying like a baby, hiding away in your bedroom and generally delbillitating yourself with self pity. Anyone who loves a good dose of sarcasm, should read more here... Read more…

1931 Views | 10 Comments | 1 Articles | 2/14/2015 1:28:17 AM

“According to Greek mythology, humans were originally created with four arms, four legs and a head with two faces. Fearing their power, Zeus split them into two separate parts, condemning them to spend their lives in search of their other halves.” – Plato Read more…

1754 Views | 9 Comments | 1 Articles | 11/25/2014 10:49:55 AM

A friend of mine passed this onto me recently and I felt that it was quite humorous. I am posting it here now because we have been on a bit of a pets and dogs slant here on the blogs recently. I also know that we will soon be introducing a series of articles here on the blogs and in the Magazine that are more serious and more focused on issues relevant to dating between Chinese women and Western men, so maybe this is a good time to throw a litlte humor in. I do hope nobody will take offense at this and I welcome the Chinese women to counter with why they might prefer their cats to husbands.  I give you then: Read more…

2931 Views | 11 Comments | 0 Articles | 11/7/2014 11:19:32 AM

No matter if you believe or not, we individual create our world especial through our mindsets and thoughts in our head. If the mindsets and thoughts there are confused and messy, the real life and world related with us will be same messy too. If we are not sure on “who are you” and “what you want”, we are actually not ready for any new relationship until we have already figured it out. Read more…

3590 Views | 24 Comments | 8 Articles | 10/26/2014 5:46:08 PM

My travels in China increasingly caused me to focus more and more on things that had only peremptorily been glanced at previously.  One cannot help but be influenced by the environment one’s in and on this trip, I was living with Tina who I slowly realised had an innately different set of values to me.  This didn''t mean we were incompatible, it simply meant we each were in a good position to both learn and grow from each other.  Read more…

2131 Views | 4 Comments | 2 Articles | 10/23/2014 11:22:26 PM

Picture this: A man and a woman who had just started dating, fall victim to the twisted humor of fate and find themselves stranded on an island, thousands of miles from civilization.  They both realize it’s a good thing that they have gotten along so well so far; the physical attraction between them has only gotten stronger, in fact.  An emotional connection has already started to deepen and, as all early relationships go, they have only explored the shallow waters of how much their minds also fit together.  But they both agree that they are lucky to be stranded on an island together, instead of with a complete stranger or somebody they disliked.  Read more…

4041 Views | 12 Comments | 1 Articles | 9/27/2014 10:14:24 AM

Today I have accidentally read some very interesting and valuable information on the internet and I am sure it will be helpful and valuable for every one of us here who is on the way to search for the right person for us.  I found this information on a Chinese blog called 心阈 my life. Read more…

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