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753 Views | 10 Comments | 0 Articles | 11/16/2017 2:58:39 AM

This is half a chapter from a story that a brilliant Chinese woman and I wrote. It's a love story between a white man and a Chinese woman. However, it's just too long to post it on CLM. Something 80,000 words. The Chinese version is going to be available to read on a Chinese website when the translation is done. Read more…

983 Views | 10 Comments | 0 Articles | 3/7/2017 5:56:18 AM

Spring Festival in China is a tradition that involves the biggest human migration in the world. People from all over China head home to visit their family. Many of those young people who are still single are filled with dread, instead of excitement, at seeing their family again. They must face the wrath of their parents and grandparents for not being married. Read more…

2029 Views | 12 Comments | 0 Articles | 8/28/2016 7:16:45 PM

“What do you mean?” I asked. Read more…

777 Views | 1 Comments | 0 Articles | 3/16/2016 4:21:14 PM

满月是一枚婚戒   Read more…

1499 Views | 3 Comments | 0 Articles | 4/6/2016 5:36:19 AM

The lawnmower had gotten me and flattened me onto the ground. The razor-sharp blades cut into my flesh, and an insanely unbearable pain blocked the deafening noise out of my ears. I could hear nothing else but the bawls that I gave out when the blades turned me into a braying chunk of meat. The pain was just too overwhelming. It tested my threshold in waves like an angry sea tests the rocky shoreline. I couldn't bear it for too long. I just wanted to die—drown right there—in the waves of agony, as soon as possible. Read more…

1676 Views | 7 Comments | 0 Articles | 3/3/2016 10:13:45 AM

Writing is something that I came to love. It gives me a route to escape, forget, and heal, all at the same time. I had come up with the story Autumn in Guilin during last year's Mid-Autumn Festival. Janessa (my current girlfriend) always wanted to travel to Guilin, so we went, and this is a story about that. Read more…

1322 Views | 2 Comments | 1 Articles | 7/13/2015 8:00:16 AM

Okay, you're on a chat with the service department of some vendor, you know the girl yu are talking to has the name "Jessica", and that reminds you of a cartoon rabbit that was once the dream girl of every guy who had the slightest trace of an imagination, and suddenly in the face of insurmountable odds you find yorself having a little fantasy. It can happen to any guy, right? Read more…

3433 Views | 9 Comments | 4 Articles | 12/19/2013 12:14:31 PM

Must be Happy Read more…

6696 Views | 29 Comments | 0 Articles | 11/9/2013 9:09:20 AM

6 types of women…. 6 numbers on a dice! – So let’s see who is next… roll the dice… and it is... OH… it’s the OTSSWW!  Last time, we discussed the DDH (Desperate, Divorced Housewife) – the first of the 6 different types of women you are likely to meet in Chinese Dating (and many hated it!).  This time, I have chosen the “On-The-Shelf Single Woman” as being the second (or Type B) Chinese woman for discussion – well, actually the DICE has chosen her - lol. Read more…

6650 Views | 23 Comments | 0 Articles | 6/15/2013 2:57:45 PM
I've been contemplating some big issues lately - must be the warmer weather and all the sweet young ladies in summer fashion! Seriously though, I have been working on the ideas of the differences between how Chinese might view love and desire compared to myself. More specifically, When you love, how does it feel? When we desire, how is it different from love? Read more…
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