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290 Views | 11 Comments | 0 Articles | 11/22/2017 1:41:34 PM

Most fairy tales from Disney world usually ended up with “and they lived happily ever after.” Everything is wonderful. Of course, happy ending is guarantee. But back to reality, how many of you live happily ever after once you get married? Read more…

884 Views | 4 Comments | 0 Articles | 11/5/2016 3:05:59 AM

Have you been feeling confused why you always attract wrong person even if you think you are a very good person? Actually we can see many of such matching around us. Externally, one kind and capable person often marry with someone who is not so considerate or even a little cold-hearted instead. As mentioned in the physics book, the different electronic charges inter attract each other, it also suits for human being. They are just like a combination from the both extremes. Read more…

1013 Views | 11 Comments | 0 Articles | 10/17/2016 1:29:43 PM

During your first, several or whole interaction with someone you are contacting, have you ever experienced one, several or all mentioned as followings? 在和对方交往的第一次,几次或是整个互动中,你曾经有经历过下面所说的一种、几种或是所有情形吗? Read more…

2627 Views | 42 Comments | 1 Articles | 8/27/2016 10:38:42 PM

I know a 53-year-old man who has failed with two marriages with women from China. It is unlikely that he will ever get a third opportunity. He is good at so many things, but not relationships with women. It looks like the relationship part of his brain still only works at the level of a 14-year-old. I also know men in their sixties and seventies who have the same problem with the relationship part of their brain. Read more…

1114 Views | 7 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/2/2015 11:11:02 PM

[Readers may be interested (but not required) to read the previous blogposts in this series, which describes a visit to America by one exceptionally daring Chinese woman.] Don't Do This with a Chinese Woman and First Sight Read more…

2173 Views | 23 Comments | 0 Articles | 9/11/2015 9:55:28 PM

The room seemed tidy enough.  Sparse but not too bad, except for a layer of dust on the floor.  Tina and I entered it cautiously, bags in hand. Read more…

1445 Views | 7 Comments | 0 Articles | 8/29/2015 8:08:39 PM

I arrived at the airport early, my mind a jumble of conflicting emotions. Excited, yes, about the possibility of a relationship with the Chinese woman I was going to meet; nervous, of course, about how we would get along, what we would talk about, what the weather would be like on our camping trip. But the dominant emotion was dread—the dread that comes from anticipating a confrontation with the unknown, the outcome of which is both significant and uncontrollable. Within a nanosecond of meeting face to face—before the words “how was your flight?” would leave my lips—I would know whether this relationship had a future. Read more…

2003 Views | 10 Comments | 1 Articles | 2/14/2015 1:28:17 AM

“According to Greek mythology, humans were originally created with four arms, four legs and a head with two faces. Fearing their power, Zeus split them into two separate parts, condemning them to spend their lives in search of their other halves.” – Plato Read more…

2180 Views | 4 Comments | 2 Articles | 10/23/2014 11:22:26 PM

Picture this: A man and a woman who had just started dating, fall victim to the twisted humor of fate and find themselves stranded on an island, thousands of miles from civilization.  They both realize it’s a good thing that they have gotten along so well so far; the physical attraction between them has only gotten stronger, in fact.  An emotional connection has already started to deepen and, as all early relationships go, they have only explored the shallow waters of how much their minds also fit together.  But they both agree that they are lucky to be stranded on an island together, instead of with a complete stranger or somebody they disliked.  Read more…

1603 Views | 4 Comments | 1 Articles | 9/25/2014 4:56:25 PM

Grief is in two parts. The first is loss. The second is the remaking of life. - Anne Roiphe Read more…

2275 Views | 10 Comments | 0 Articles | 8/14/2014 3:28:32 PM

Life is made of all kinds this or that, big or small self-fighting battles. The biggest enemy of us is ourselves.  During your life journey, have you ever suffered or currently suffering these situations? Read more…

3915 Views | 13 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/9/2014 4:22:11 AM

International marriage between Chinese woman and western man is more and more popular on the internet and in real reality. More of us seems only see the glorious part of their story or life. As per my understandings by now, I think the successful and happy cross cultural marriage is very difficult to achieve. If one side or both sides know well and like the other side’s overall culture, the successful rate will be comparatively higher. Read more…

2154 Views | 6 Comments | 1 Articles | 6/27/2014 11:27:36 AM

Fate, destiny, pure chance, or just the inevitable result of the collective choices we make; but it can be simply amazing how two people walking parallel or even divergent paths eventually find each other, and from that point forward become forever intertwined despite being separated again and again by circumstances and time. Read more…

2682 Views | 5 Comments | 1 Articles | 6/11/2014 11:10:51 AM

Over the next few weeks, we caught up with each other’s lives of the last 15 years.  There was no awkward phase; we simply started talking again the way old friends always do – comfortably, eagerly, tenderly.  Like H said, our bridge wasn’t burned; it was merely blocked and made impassable by our individual circumstances in the past.  Read more…

2439 Views | 11 Comments | 0 Articles | 6/4/2014 1:48:04 PM

Recently I chatted with a guy (an ordinary friend) , when we talked on the toptic on relationship and marriage, hereunder is our conversation: Read more…

9856 Views | 80 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/4/2014 12:08:41 AM

Lily got her American visa, but she didn't care, she was a mess. She had to break up with a man who gave her a little bit of hope after 9 years of being alone. It was like, she was starving for a long time and someone showed her the foods that she could have, but wasn't allowed to eat. She was hungry for love and male attention. She wanted to feel safe again with her son in a nice family. The opportunity for a better life was lost when the man told her a bad joke that triggered something in Lily. Read more…

3614 Views | 13 Comments | 0 Articles | 4/10/2014 2:42:47 PM

It happens.  With no conscious effort, without meaning to, or deciding to, or choosing to; you fall in love.  You may wish really hard for a different ending to a story you’ve read over and over; but just as fruitless as it is to hope against hope that a beautiful night will never end, the inevitable will always happen.  You don’t get to choose with whom, or when, or how.  You fall in love.  And you are as helpless as a bird in the air with a broken wing.  But it happens.  Sometimes, two people find and fall in love with each other at the worst possible time and in the least ideal situation.    Read more…

2075 Views | 6 Comments | 0 Articles | 3/3/2014 5:37:20 PM

Just like the first time, our rekindled connection abruptly ended.  There was no preamble.  There was no buildup to a satisfying end.  There were no fitting goodbyes.  In retrospect, the abruptness of it all was remarkably fitting to what was an unremarkable re-acquaintance.  I came upon another turning point in my life at that time; I really didn’t know how badly or well his life was going.  As all crossed paths were bound to go, ours continued in different directions, and so we simply went our separate ways. Read more…

2072 Views | 6 Comments | 1 Articles | 11/21/2013 10:06:43 AM

Even “the best-laid plans of mice and men often go awry,” as the saying goes.  I was ready to wait two, maybe three, more years; but my fiancé got himself in a very tight bind, instead.  For two-and-a-half months, I was not sure what was going to happen to us. Read more…

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