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1428 Views | 44 Comments | 4 Articles | 4/16/2019 5:11:04 PM

My eyes flicker open. I awake in a bed that I have never slept in before. A young Chinese woman is above me. Where am I? Read more…

240 Views | 6 Comments | 0 Articles | 4/14/2019 6:03:06 PM

Inside was cool, quiet, and fuggy. Perhaps too quiet and too fuggy. But what did I expect? It was a nursing home, not a nursery school. No one was supposed to run around, tug your coat, and make funny faces at you. Read more…

994 Views | 17 Comments | 0 Articles | 4/8/2019 7:39:21 AM

After learning about my upcoming trip to Hungary, someone asked me if I could take some money to her mother. The bank fees were too high, she told me, and the amount in question wasn’t enough to pay a hefty fee on. Read more…

354 Views | 10 Comments | 1 Articles | 3/6/2019 1:32:42 PM

It is getting harder. My second son is returning home for 12 months. I have 3 areas of my house that are floor to ceiling clutter. I now return to the state where I have 2 adult sons living with me. This will be a truly testing time for relationships. It will test my relationship with my beautiful Chinese wife. It will test my relationships with my two sons. It will test the dark corners of my relationship with myself.  Read more…

503 Views | 9 Comments | 0 Articles | 10/27/2018 8:16:33 PM

I'm asleep, I'm sure of it, and this has to be a dream. The realization gets through my mind slowly and wearily, gasping for validity in spite of my sureness. Read more…

4212 Views | 183 Comments | 3 Articles | 6/14/2018 12:24:48 PM

Anger within me, camouflaged so well Read more…

1195 Views | 12 Comments | 2 Articles | 10/25/2017 9:34:47 PM

Those infamous words from The Eagles' song 'Hotel California' - Read more…

1628 Views | 5 Comments | 0 Articles | 4/18/2017 4:09:28 PM

The day of the marriage arrived. It had all been arranged by Noi and Som, her sister. I drove Noi and Som to the small town near to where their father lived. First, we all three of us ate breakfast then the girls left me in the restaurant. They walked around the corner to the store that sold silk wedding dresses then the beauty salon.  I had about two hours to kill. That was made easier by the presence of a bunch of bikers in the restaurant. Read more…

2712 Views | 33 Comments | 5 Articles | 3/17/2017 7:46:13 AM

On the surface, life in China seems to throw up very few 'social issues' when compared to life in the West. You don't see graffiti; no hooligans pissing up the side of cars at closing-time; no-one throwing rocks through plate-glass windows just because they are drunk and think it's a good idea; few people get attacked because of their race, colour or creed; and there is no cancerous PC. Read more…

1362 Views | 1 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/27/2017 10:43:04 PM

When the woman regained consciousness, the things she noticed first were the hardness of the kitchen floor and its coolness against her bare skin. Her pajama top was open, and one of her breasts had a bright red bite mark on it, but in all likelihood greenish purple by the morning. She covered her breasts and pulled her pajama bottom back up from her knees. If it weren't for the smell of smoke, she wouldn't have moved yet. Out of the utter confusion and despair, she wasn't ready to see the state she was in. The smoke, however, was getting thick, and she forced herself to get up and look around. Read more…

1659 Views | 18 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/10/2017 7:32:25 PM

On the balcony, the woman was busy trying to find a place for the orchids. Her vegetables and herbs were in plastic containers in sizes of rather on the large side, leaving not much room for anything else on the floor. So, for the time being, the woman decided to set the orchids on the concrete guard rail, thinking to hang them from a nail tomorrow when there was daylight. Read more…

2651 Views | 18 Comments | 1 Articles | 1/9/2017 7:25:32 AM
1605 Views | 2 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/13/2016 7:08:09 AM

[Note: In case anyone is wondering how things our going for Yong eight months after our marriage, here is an essay she wrote for her ESL class about her life in the west so far....Peter] Read more…

1240 Views | 5 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/10/2016 9:01:46 PM

So Yong wanted flowers. Usually this is one of her easier requests of her life in the West to fulfill. Certainly much easier than her request for “real” Chinese food, which requires a seventy-mile trip to Chicago’s Chinatown. Read more…

1373 Views | 5 Comments | 6 Articles | 9/22/2016 8:05:24 PM
Sex, the final frontier. These are the ramblings of Paul Fox. His continuing mission to seek out new truths and new facts. To boldly go where no blogger has gone before! Read more…
1152 Views | 7 Comments | 1 Articles | 11/4/2016 12:04:05 PM

“A time machine?” The Rajah shook his head. “Not quite… I think of it more as a Peeping Time Machine.  It shows the future, but only the kinky parts. It was created through quantum perversion physics. You know, the mathematics that developed after America outlawed heterosexuality as being a sick misunderstanding of the true dynamics between men and women.  Dr. Bobbit conclusively proved - via voting on social media - that the male organ has been created by evolution so that women have something to chop off when they get angry.” Read more…

7765 Views | 83 Comments | 1 Articles | 9/24/2016 1:51:08 PM
1929 Views | 13 Comments | 1 Articles | 6/7/2016 4:00:53 AM

Night. A sleazy bar in Bangkok. A man, frozen solid inside the ice bathtub used to water down the drinks...   Read more…

1066 Views | 8 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/9/2016 10:40:28 PM

Julia was still sound asleep as Daniel gingerly crept into the bedroom. He quietly slipped off his clothes and slid slowly into bed beside her. He wasn't safe yet. It was nearly 4am and it was cold outside. If Julia unconsciously came too close and touched his cool body, she may awaken and ask questions. Questions that Daniel wouldn't know how to answer. Especially in a way that would satisfy her insatiable appetite for knowing how he spends every second of every day. Read more…

1184 Views | 4 Comments | 0 Articles | 3/29/2016 1:33:28 PM

I recently told a really good Chinese friend of mine ..  maybe one of the myriad of reasons for the misunderstandings between Chinese and Westerners belong to Ethnocentric social behavior on both sides of the proverbial fence.   Read more…

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