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662 Views | 18 Comments | 1 Articles | 11/6/2017 11:45:26 AM

Recently, I have sent some messages to the CLM members and received some messages from others. What interesting is: once I sent out messages, I usually asked myself a question: he looks so familiar. Where did I see him? I am pretty sure that I never meet them before as I glanced their profile. But why they look so familiar? Finally I got the answer when I looked at the member’s picture. He just looks like one of my very dear friend, a great gentleman whom I met in Maryland. That’s why I felt very fond of him the first time when I saw his profile picture even I never meet him. That is unfair!!! He did nothing but already gained all points from me, right? But this is the reality and how this game works! Read more…

990 Views | 11 Comments | 0 Articles | 10/17/2016 1:29:43 PM

During your first, several or whole interaction with someone you are contacting, have you ever experienced one, several or all mentioned as followings? 在和对方交往的第一次,几次或是整个互动中,你曾经有经历过下面所说的一种、几种或是所有情形吗? Read more…

2583 Views | 42 Comments | 1 Articles | 8/27/2016 10:38:42 PM

I know a 53-year-old man who has failed with two marriages with women from China. It is unlikely that he will ever get a third opportunity. He is good at so many things, but not relationships with women. It looks like the relationship part of his brain still only works at the level of a 14-year-old. I also know men in their sixties and seventies who have the same problem with the relationship part of their brain. Read more…

903 Views | 5 Comments | 0 Articles | 6/5/2016 5:31:23 PM

The first few days in Thailand were perfect. I loved everything about it. The weather, the beaches, the food and Noi. Every day was an easy day just relaxing, eating in restaurants and a few beers in a bar. I was mindful that this was a holiday feeling. I was determined not to be seduced by the vacation atmosphere. There are no responsibilities when on vacation and dating a new, beautiful Asian woman. The hard yards come later when there are decisions to be made about serious matters such as accommodation, location and in our case - what to do about Kamon, Noi’s niece. Those things could wait. I was still in holiday mode. Read more…

2970 Views | 11 Comments | 0 Articles | 11/7/2014 11:19:32 AM

No matter if you believe or not, we individual create our world especial through our mindsets and thoughts in our head. If the mindsets and thoughts there are confused and messy, the real life and world related with us will be same messy too. If we are not sure on “who are you” and “what you want”, we are actually not ready for any new relationship until we have already figured it out. Read more…

2167 Views | 4 Comments | 2 Articles | 10/23/2014 11:22:26 PM

Picture this: A man and a woman who had just started dating, fall victim to the twisted humor of fate and find themselves stranded on an island, thousands of miles from civilization.  They both realize it’s a good thing that they have gotten along so well so far; the physical attraction between them has only gotten stronger, in fact.  An emotional connection has already started to deepen and, as all early relationships go, they have only explored the shallow waters of how much their minds also fit together.  But they both agree that they are lucky to be stranded on an island together, instead of with a complete stranger or somebody they disliked.  Read more…

2545 Views | 9 Comments | 0 Articles | 10/25/2014 1:02:02 PM

Are you not sure what kind of person is good and suitable for you? Read more…

4124 Views | 12 Comments | 1 Articles | 9/27/2014 10:14:24 AM

Today I have accidentally read some very interesting and valuable information on the internet and I am sure it will be helpful and valuable for every one of us here who is on the way to search for the right person for us.  I found this information on a Chinese blog called 心阈 my life. Read more…

3540 Views | 14 Comments | 2 Articles | 8/31/2014 11:30:13 AM

This should be a good topic for discussion on the CLM forum; but here are my thoughts on it. Does it mean being the partner that makes all the decisions? Does it mean always having the final say? Does it mean showing he is in charge, any way he can? Read more…

2583 Views | 5 Comments | 1 Articles | 7/25/2014 9:24:08 PM

I read this interesting short story, L.T.’S Theory of Pets by Stephen King, about a marriage that ended because the couple favored different pets.  Here’s the plot summary (from Wikipedia, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/L._T.'s_Theory_of_Pets): Read more…

2144 Views | 3 Comments | 0 Articles | 3/28/2013 8:26:49 PM
Anecdote 1. Back in college, I had been receiving unwanted attention from this guy who looked every bit the cliche of a weirdo, from his pants that he wore almost up to his armpits, to his soda bottle eyeglasses, to his greasy and flat hair parted in the middle. Even though his advances bordered on creepy, and he even had a habit of following me around like a stalker, I was sure he was a harmless guy. The times he managed to corner me to say hello or to have a short chat with me, I could not find it in me to be mean and tell him to leave me alone; I could not even come up with an outright lie so I could leave right away. So I would return the smile and the hello, or endure the few minutes of small talk. I can honestly say I did not lead him on, but at the same time, I also did not expressly refuse his advances. There were times I chose to take the long way around school or literally hide to avoid him when I was lucky enough to see him before he saw me. Read more…
6148 Views | 18 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/22/2012 10:37:11 AM
We're very pleased to introduce another very promising, well spoken and eduacated Chinese woman blogger. Liangzi is a University lecturer, a lover of life, poetry, art and love itself. Importantly, she is also a member of CLM (under a different username), so she'll have much to offer by way of insights she experiences while learning about online dating with Western men. We welcome Liangzi... Read more…
3841 Views | 4 Comments | 1 Articles | 6/1/2012 12:18:15 PM
Tell me, since when did being well dressed score more points than being good looking? Maybe I spend too much time in the gym and not enough time choosing the right brand of socks? Read more…
9161 Views | 29 Comments | 0 Articles | 4/29/2012 12:03:13 AM
I recently received a letter from young Chinese man, who I understand to be a born in the UK but in any event has spent his life there, expressing serious concerns that Caucasian women may be prejudiced against him because he is Chinese. He asked for my comments and I responded by asking if he would be willing to let me make this a blog article so he would get not only my thoughts, but hopefully the considered thoughts of a number of other western men as well. He wrote back and agreed that was a good idea. I apologize to him because it has taken me several weeks getting around to writing this. Read more…
4153 Views | 11 Comments | 6 Articles | 3/29/2012 10:28:38 PM
“Someone who thinks the world is always cheating him is right. He is missing that wonderful feeling of trust in someone or something”. Eric Hoffer Read more…
4935 Views | 9 Comments | 3 Articles | 3/11/2012 2:27:16 PM
We do not live in a perfect world, but if we follow simple rules, just common sense, the world will be a lot better place for all of us. Read more…
3761 Views | 4 Comments | 2 Articles | 3/2/2012 9:57:54 PM
Human beings are gregarious by nature. There will be a time in our lives when we will consciously or unconsciously engage in actively seeking a person; to live with us, start a family and it has been like this since the dawn of times. Christians and Jews believe that the first couple was hand picked by God Himself, well, it could not get any better than this, but for the rest of us we have to do the work ourselves. Hopefully, God will give a hand. Some call it fate, others destiny, some believe that is just luck, a love lottery, others that happen by chance. For some it happens accidentally in the most unexpected way while other get a little help from friends, family or even professional matchmakers. With today’s technologies, with the advent of the internet, we have the “dating sites” and I believe that saves us a lot of leg work and help to select a few people that are more suitable than others to share life with us. Read more…
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