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1027 Views | 14 Comments | 3 Articles | 5/16/2017 12:21:36 AM

“In order to find yourself, first you must lose yourself.“  I felt rather annoyed by the smug words written in the stupid book in front of me. A supposedly learned treatise on how to live life and feel better. What utter bullshit it was!  How dare they suggest that people should become dysfunctional or desperate, before somehow miraculously stumbling across some sort of supposed salvation. Much better to simply skip the bit about becoming lost and go straight to deliverance! Read more…

1362 Views | 8 Comments | 0 Articles | 11/6/2016 2:19:28 AM

So, you are contemplating dating a Chinese woman. Yes, it’s true that finding a Chinese woman of your dreams is more or less the same as finding a woman from any part of the world. However, the difference in culture might complicate matters for you just a little bit. To increase your chances of finding and dating the right Chinese woman, you should learn more about the Chinese culture and learn more about their differences. In that way, you will be able to go about your search with ease and confidence. Read more…

1481 Views | 10 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/20/2015 8:20:10 AM

Originally, when I first saw this, my thought ran something like this - "If this is how you feel about relationships and women, then dude, you've been in the wrong relationships and been choosing the wrong kind of women! A good, Chinese woman will most certainly shift your perspective and you'll have a genuine happy ending." But then I thought, maybe that's just me, and maybe I've just been lucky. Read more…

1108 Views | 5 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/9/2015 7:47:26 AM

The photo says it all, doesn't it?  A Chinese woman's loyalty and dedication will never waiver once you've proven to her that you are deserving of her love. This Chinese wife has proven her love and courage over and over again. Read more about Mi Shixiu and He Quangui here... Read more…

5125 Views | 45 Comments | 7 Articles | 11/25/2014 1:06:35 PM

I glanced at my watch.  It was quarter to six in the late afternoon.  The sun sank around 6.00pm.  Tina and I had a two hour hike home from the half constructed Buddhist temple we’d visited.  It was a large, sprawling affair, perched high up on one of the far hills around Shawan.  This meant the bulk of our walk back would be in either semi-dark or totally dark conditions.  Oops! Not the best of planning on our part, but there was nothing now that could be done about it. Read more…

3508 Views | 24 Comments | 8 Articles | 10/26/2014 5:46:08 PM

My travels in China increasingly caused me to focus more and more on things that had only peremptorily been glanced at previously.  One cannot help but be influenced by the environment one’s in and on this trip, I was living with Tina who I slowly realised had an innately different set of values to me.  This didn''t mean we were incompatible, it simply meant we each were in a good position to both learn and grow from each other.  Read more…

5225 Views | 32 Comments | 8 Articles | 8/6/2014 12:11:08 PM

The alarm woke us at 7.20am.  We had to be sure not to sleep in as today we’d booked our return journey on the bus back to Chengdu, a long eight hour journey.  In fact, we’d planned making a very big day of it and returning all the way to Tina’s home town of Shawan.  This necessitated us to catch a second bus late in the afternoon from Chengdu to Shawan. Read more…

3998 Views | 13 Comments | 0 Articles | 6/21/2013 9:39:52 AM
One of the funniest (at the time) Chinese dating techniques I first heard when when I came to China a decade ago was, if you were dating a Chinese woman, place some food onto her plate with your chopsticks. Essentially offering to serve her was a great way to get her interested in you - and was a way of showing your affection for her based on the idea that you were actually showing a willingness to acknowledge her and a commitment to care for her! Read more…
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