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899 Views | 19 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/9/2017 6:11:47 AM

            The subject for my second blog entry will be, as the title suggests, the criteria for my ideal match, why I chose them and why Chinese women.  While this will certainly provide the members of CLM with a great deal of insight into myself, I'm not at all certain just how generally applicable those insights will be to the typical American as I have never regarded myself as typical in any respect.  I'm just arrogant enough to believe that this subject will be interesting to at least some of my readers. Read more…

1062 Views | 14 Comments | 0 Articles | 4/6/2017 1:39:48 PM

The rest of the remaining month soon passed. Why do happy times seem fleeting? Yet, bad times seem to linger. I had to make plans to leave the villa in Kanchanaburi. Noi and I both knew the time was fast approaching for me to fly back to England. She understood the reasons why I had to leave. I assured her I would return as quickly as possible. Certainly, once I had attended to outstanding business back there. Read more…

898 Views | 3 Comments | 0 Articles | 3/24/2016 12:05:02 PM

I awoke from my sleep of contentment. It was filled with pleasant dreams partly as a result of Noi’s welcome massage. My slumbers had eradicated all the tiredness of travel from England to Thailand. I looked forward to my second day in a new country and a new life. Dating was something I had forgotten. It was a distant memory from a distant past. Read more…

1361 Views | 8 Comments | 0 Articles | 3/24/2016 11:18:13 AM

“Ryan” “Ryan” I heard my name called. This was in spite of the shouts of vendors and honking car horns.  The air outside Phuket International Airport was full of noises.  They assaulted me from all directions. I turned toward the direction of the voice and saw a diminutive Thai woman running toward me. I recognized her immediately. It was Noi, “the little one.” Read more…

789 Views | 9 Comments | 0 Articles | 4/22/2016 10:14:13 AM

When I first came to my QLV to take up my job as an English teacher, I was given the task of teaching a subject called 'Civics'. 'What the hell is civics?' I thought, yet dare not speak the words aloud for fear of making myself look 'ignorant' in the eyes of my Chinese boss. Read more…

1147 Views | 7 Comments | 0 Articles | 3/16/2016 12:26:38 PM

“It was the best of times, it was the worst of times ...” Read more…

1930 Views | 2 Comments | 1 Articles | 12/22/2013 1:56:19 PM

Without knocking, I rushed into the Oval Office…  “Mr  President! I’d like to talk to you about the most pressing issue facing the world today! That is, the rising price of a good cup of coffee in Southeast Asia! It’s tough enough paying for my Asian dating without having to cough up extra cash for a cuppa joe.” Read more…

11457 Views | 21 Comments | 0 Articles | 10/5/2013 4:50:36 PM
We recently received a double Scammer report on ALM member Joan49, another Asian dating scammer and now a resident of Scammer Prison. The interesting thing about the reports was that both gentlemen had recognized in Joan49’s behavior sure signs that she was leading up to asking for money, and that she was a Scammer for sure, but neither had yet received a request for money, which is essential in our placing someone in Scammer Prison lacking other evidence. We can hardly put someone in Prison for acting suspicious but we also don’t want to leave someone out there who we are very confident is a Scammer. It’s a tough spot for us. Read more…
3442 Views | 7 Comments | 0 Articles | 8/5/2013 5:19:59 AM
I just finished watching a web miniseries on Western men dating Asian women. Titled “They’re All So Beautiful,” the series was created by Debbie Lum, who directed the documentary film “Seeking Asian Female,” a film that has been discussed in blogs on this site. Read more…
2711 Views | 10 Comments | 0 Articles | 6/15/2013 3:00:16 PM
One of interesting interactions that goes on in relationships that I grapple with the most is the idea of closeness and distance. I am of the opinion that you can be close and distant at the same time - and that these 'boundaries' move constantly and maybe at different speeds for different parts of my psyche. and for different people. Read more…
3889 Views | 12 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/5/2013 9:23:14 PM
Fact: Many foreign men prefer Asian women as partners because of their looks Read more…
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