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2107 Views | 69 Comments | 0 Articles | 9/17/2018 6:38:10 PM

I'm holding this piece of small device we call a cellphone in my hand. Actually, I'm hanging to it for dear life even though I feel a profound hatred for it. The only thing that stops me from throwing it against the wall is the fact that my wife lives in it. Yes, it's true. My wife is so tiny that she fits in my phone, living her life away without me. What a world we live in!    Read more…

783 Views | 10 Comments | 0 Articles | 11/16/2017 2:58:39 AM

This is half a chapter from a story that a brilliant Chinese woman and I wrote. It's a love story between a white man and a Chinese woman. However, it's just too long to post it on CLM. Something 80,000 words. The Chinese version is going to be available to read on a Chinese website when the translation is done. Read more…

2264 Views | 13 Comments | 5 Articles | 12/21/2016 10:48:20 PM

What could be better than snuggling up on a couch and reading a good book at Christmas time? Well, I genuinely believe that there's nothing wrong with that picture. In truth, there have been times when I preferred being alone to giving up my solitude for anybody. However, times have changed, and I have certainly changed with age—for better or for worse, I can't really say. What I can truly say is that if I could, I would spend this holiday season in a more enjoyable setting. Read more…

1207 Views | 5 Comments | 0 Articles | 9/30/2016 11:01:33 PM

I took my shirt off. Jeans, too. I wrung all the water from them into the drain in the middle of Janessa's father's bathroom. He seemed to be a nice man,—quiet, just like Janessa had told me earlier—and my kind of person. I marveled at the impression I must have made on him with my wet clothes as I gave them a final wring and hung them on a loose nail that was sticking out of the wall. I used the towel that Janessa's father had given me to dry myself, then I put the damp clothes back on. A few seconds later, I joined Janessa and her father in the living room. They were sitting on a wooden bench and talking when I entered, and for a good half a minute, they didn't even realize I was there. Read more…

1590 Views | 9 Comments | 0 Articles | 8/28/2016 8:02:20 PM

Janessa and I had arrived in Yangchun, her hometown, by bus, at around ten in the evening. We walked the short distance from the bus terminal to the hotel. As soon as we checked in, Janessa's phone began to ring. Read more…

2081 Views | 12 Comments | 0 Articles | 8/28/2016 7:16:45 PM

“What do you mean?” I asked. Read more…

1524 Views | 3 Comments | 0 Articles | 4/6/2016 5:36:19 AM

The lawnmower had gotten me and flattened me onto the ground. The razor-sharp blades cut into my flesh, and an insanely unbearable pain blocked the deafening noise out of my ears. I could hear nothing else but the bawls that I gave out when the blades turned me into a braying chunk of meat. The pain was just too overwhelming. It tested my threshold in waves like an angry sea tests the rocky shoreline. I couldn't bear it for too long. I just wanted to die—drown right there—in the waves of agony, as soon as possible. Read more…

6507 Views | 56 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/11/2015 11:04:05 AM

"Are you a player?" A Chinese woman had asked me this question a long time ago when we talked on QQ one day. Read more…

2698 Views | 10 Comments | 0 Articles | 11/17/2015 3:58:03 AM

Okay, I admit that maybe I was overreacting but enough is enough! Someone brought to my attention a braindead article that got posted not once, but twice, in two major publications. In it The Telegraph UK and ChinaDailyAsia take the basic approach that every western guy who is attracted to Chinese or Asian women is suffering from a sexual perversion. Needless to say, as someone married to a great Chinese woman, and as co-owner of CLM and ALM, I was more than a little pissed at this crap being published as if it was an unquestioned fact, when it is actually a careless and extremely insulting slur with no basis in fact whatsoever. Read more…

2922 Views | 11 Comments | 2 Articles | 1/17/2015 5:12:23 PM

We were still giggling about the Japanese diners as we arrived back in the hotel carrying the fresh fruit we had bought from a street vendor on the way home. Read more…

7626 Views | 35 Comments | 0 Articles | 2/26/2014 2:57:48 PM

The next morning after my shower Sally called me and said, she was going to pick me up with Lily and after we go for breakfast together. And there it was again, eating so much good food for breakfast, but I liked it. I told them after breakfast though, if I was going to eat like this every morning I would be a fat man soon and Lily wouldn't like me anymore. They both smiled. Read more…

10796 Views | 35 Comments | 0 Articles | 9/12/2013 2:49:31 PM
Another long flight, got layover in Abu Dhabi and back to Beijing, after almost 15 hours finally I landed in Dalian. At midnight, arrived home, opened the door, turned on lights, took a shower; it’s almost dawn, got to head to work. A colleague said, you look very tired. She didn’t know that I was much more tired than my face could be seen. Read more…
9634 Views | 25 Comments | 0 Articles | 8/27/2013 3:55:05 PM
After we checked in the hotel, it was dark. We drove to look for somewhere to have dinner. Parked in an underground parking lot, we walked to look for a restaurant. Read more…
8619 Views | 28 Comments | 0 Articles | 8/10/2013 3:01:10 PM
The last day, H finished work early and we drove to Stuttgart, stayed in a hotel for the night, the next morning I would go from there to Frankfurt airport. Just a couple of days ago I was sitting by his side, driving home from Stuttgart, and it was full of joy for the wonderful reunite moment with H, now I was again by his side but had to be parting from him, could not help but being overwhelmingly sad. Read more…
5509 Views | 9 Comments | 0 Articles | 4/14/2013 2:14:33 PM
The next morning he went back to the hotel, to meet a friend whom he was working together with, and I followed him later on. I was wearing a long brown dress, white knitwear, and light pink flat shoes, with my long hair unfolded naturally hanging on my back. Read more…
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