Chinese Women, Asian Women, Online Dating & Things Chinese and Asian
2980 Views | 13 Comments | 0 Articles | 9/9/2016 12:19:30 AM

We recently received two messages from a new member with the username of ORGASMDONOR. Yes, he wrote that name in CAPS and he got away with that username because the Chinese employee who approved it didn't get what it meant. You be the judge as to whether our reaction was appropriate coming from a Chinese dating site intended for Chinese women and Western men seeking life partners and/or marriage. Read more…

2870 Views | 15 Comments | 0 Articles | 8/29/2016 11:46:00 PM
We recently received a message from a member of CLM asking about the number of Chinese women on CLM, why he is not getting much interest and why there don't seem to be many young Chinese women here. I have posted it below along with my response. I thought the discussion might be of interest to the men as a whole, and I am also interested in receiving member's thoughts on the subject too. Read more…
2128 Views | 7 Comments | 0 Articles | 9/14/2015 3:25:25 AM

This blog today is basically about three announcements.  First, another couple has provided us with their CLM Chinese Dating Success Story and it has been posted today.  Second, Barry has awarded his 1 year Gold upgrade and the winner is busy enjoying it now.  See details below… Read more…

2557 Views | 2 Comments | 0 Articles | 1/7/2015 4:17:06 AM

A member recently made the following comment in my blog about Asiandate.com here... Read more…

2439 Views | 6 Comments | 0 Articles | 1/1/2015 5:23:58 AM

There is a double meaning in the title, and it hasn’t escaped us. But let’s start with our New Year’s wishes for all of you members of, and visitors to, our Chinese and Asian dating sites, ChinaLoveMatch.net and AsiaLoveMatch.net.  So here is what we wish for you in 2015 and beyond, and if you know anything about our sites, you know these wishes are heartfelt and come from everyone, owners and staff, from across both sites. We sincerely wish for you: Read more…

3058 Views | 9 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/22/2014 3:45:57 PM

It sometimes amazes me just how many great people are among the members of CLM, and how much they contribute to the community spirit we strive to create here. This includes the bloggers of course, and the many regular contributors to the forum, both men and women. But there are many other Chinese women who really have gone out of their way to make CLM a good site for everyone. I'm going to discuss 4 such women in this blog today. Read more…

3013 Views | 10 Comments | 1 Articles | 9/9/2014 11:03:16 AM

First, let me describe my experience trying to make a Chinese Mooncake.  I failed miserably. To be honest, I read Prana’s recipes and thought “This looks kind of easy.”  Hah! How wrong I was... Read more…

6215 Views | 8 Comments | 0 Articles | 9/1/2014 3:48:41 PM

The subject of Feminism has reared its (fast becoming) ugly head in the blogs these days.  The discussion, initiated by Peter and followed up on by Achelle, centered on the suggestion that Feminism has evolved over time from a well justified and socially necessary movement for the securing of equality with men for woman, into more of a women’s hate-fest of men and a grab for entitlement and privilege by a minority (but not a small one) of feminists, who have commandeered the original movement for their own purposes. Read more…

6513 Views | 22 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/22/2014 8:49:49 AM

The following few weeks had been like a roller coaster ride. One day she was sad and depressed, asking me to find another nice Chinese woman who wasn't sick in the head. The next day she was happy and asking me about our future and telling me. “I know for fact that you will be my future husband.” Read more…

7249 Views | 25 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/14/2014 4:48:24 PM

I incidently got to know some man from Sweden at end of April and we have been seriously communicating since that time. We agreed we both are serious, honest and keeping promise type person.He has been working a famous international company for about 27 years and I think he should be patient and tolerant person from that point.He is a little humorous and I even can't immediately realize his little humor when he release now and then. Actually I like that way since I am always too serious on all thing and people. I hope I can learn from him on this point. Read more…

4402 Views | 14 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/13/2014 2:13:47 PM

I checked the CLM blogs and forum threads one morning while I was eating my breakfast, but there were no new ones there. I started checking the photos and suddenly saw Lily's profile there as a new member. My heart sank, my stomach was in a knot. I wanted to forget her, but seeing the Chinese woman I loved looking for another man made me sick to my stomach. I couldn't stop myself and sent her a message. She replied with offering her friendship and wished me good luck with my search. I didn't bother her anymore, but I saw her on the site everyday for hours and hours. She seemed really determined to find a man. Read more…

11484 Views | 56 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/2/2014 2:42:00 PM

Monday morning Sally went back to work, but she returned always at the evening time and did her duties as a “chaperone”. Lily was very cold with me after that drunk evening. She might have felt ashamed of herself because of what happened between us or what she said or all of the above. I tried to catch her eyes, but she looked away all the time. She made herself busy cleaning and cooking, I felt that she didn't want me there anymore. Read more…

3159 Views | 3 Comments | 1 Articles | 5/23/2014 2:08:46 PM

Being a private eye in Bangkok doesn’t even pay all the bribes on my work visa, so I was really happy when the U. S. Embassy offered to pay me big money to find the mysterious Hero Cat.  Read more…

4455 Views | 12 Comments | 2 Articles | 5/11/2014 10:56:24 AM

"There can be no keener revelation of a society's soul than the way in which it treats its children.” Read more…

7867 Views | 10 Comments | 0 Articles | 2/9/2014 12:59:31 PM

We recently received a letter from a member who was asking just that: “Is ChinaLoveMatch.net a Scam Dating Site?”  Well not in those exact words, but it is certainly what he meant. When the message was brought to my attention I was a little shocked. Nobody has accused us of Chinese dating scams up to now, and given our anti-scam efforts I was perhaps a little defensive in my response.  Of course, we like to think we are one of the best Chinese dating sites (well, actually we think we are the very best, but I am trying to be modest here). Below is the exchange of messages that passed between us. In the end they might actually be of more interest because it evolved into a discussion of how to not to scare interested Chinese women away by pushing too fast for a meeting, once the chinalovematch scams discussion came to a close. Read more…

3298 Views | 15 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/30/2013 1:13:33 PM

Since the dawn of time when man sent his woman to the local takeaway on a Saturday night for deep fried Dodo and chips, the subject of women's beauty has long been a somewhat topical discussion for the discerning male. In the same way as "one man's meat is another man's poison", your idea of a beautiful woman may not match mine, and vice versa... Read more…

10234 Views | 30 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/7/2013 6:42:57 PM

It’s been fun over the last few weeks, writing these blogs and I hope you guys have enjoyed reading them as much as I have enjoyed writing them. As the series begins to draw to a close, we have 2 (legitimate) types of women to discuss and then one other "TYPE" that I am deliberately leaving until last. No throw of the dice this time – I just decided to try get the tar & feather brigade (who admittedly have been a little bit quiet of late) up in arms again, so I decided to write about the most awful woman that you are likely to meet on your chinese dating site “travels”. Read more…

6577 Views | 19 Comments | 1 Articles | 12/2/2013 4:24:13 PM

Much in the vein of Zoe's recent blog series which captivated us all, we now bring you a similar series about a relationship that has developed between a Western man and a Chinese woman, but this time through the eyes of the man. We offer to you Imi, and his brilliant biographical blog series entitled simply "My Love for Lily". And in the spirit of her own blog offering the men a chance to experience the thoughts and feelings of a Chinese woman, in order to ensure that the Chinese ladies can use this opportunity to experience the thoughts and feelings of a Western man, Zoe has generously agreed to translate Imi's story for the Chinese ladies. Any member who doesn't follow this series really doesn't understand what a fabulous learning tool she or he is missing.  Please welcome Imi and enjoy! Read more…

4637 Views | 16 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/2/2013 9:38:30 AM

Before I start this title, I want to say thank you for all of the comments on my first blog. You guys make me more confident to continue. :-)   Some friends thought I am a very brave and strong woman when read my story, but I consider myself a very common Chinese woman, even a little shy and cowardly some times.  I remember when I just graduated from college, because of lack of confidence, I lost the chance of a  good job. I still remember that was a Taiwanese owned factory, the man interviewing me said that the best job for me was to be a wife, not a sales lady...:-) Read more…

10655 Views | 34 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/23/2013 1:04:32 PM
We have been receiving letters, and noting some comments on the Forum, that have forced us to really do some intense examination of the Forum and many of the comments and new threads that we have been publishing there, and some soul searching as to whether or not we can continue to publish them, or even whether we should continue to operate the forum. Read more…
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