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232 Views | 6 Comments | 0 Articles | 6/13/2017 7:19:56 AM

With her arms crossed over her chest, the woman held the comforter as if trying to shield herself against whoever it was in the dark. Despite the insufficient protection the blanket provided, it actually stopped her from screaming out in fear. A little while later, though, when something grazed her forehead, she almost cried out. The only reason for staying silent was that the touch was soft and came with a scent that surprised and muted her. The smell was of orchids; she was able to identify it right away. Someone was touching her forehead, face, and hands with the velvety petals of the flowers. Read more…

571 Views | 1 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/27/2017 10:43:04 PM

When the woman regained consciousness, the things she noticed first were the hardness of the kitchen floor and its coolness against her bare skin. Her pajama top was open, and one of her breasts had a bright red bite mark on it, but in all likelihood greenish purple by the morning. She covered her breasts and pulled her pajama bottom back up from her knees. If it weren't for the smell of smoke, she wouldn't have moved yet. Out of the utter confusion and despair, she wasn't ready to see the state she was in. The smoke, however, was getting thick, and she forced herself to get up and look around. Read more…

1211 Views | 13 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/18/2017 11:31:08 PM

After she had been pulled off the bed, the woman lay supine and in horror on the hardwood floor. Her husband, very unsteady on his feet, stood over her body, feeling smug after his demonstration of spineless dominance. His clothes and breath reeked of smoke and alcohol, and a dense haze of delirium clouded his eyes. He slurred something that the woman couldn't fully understand. Having no idea how to respond, she kept quiet. She didn't dare to even breathe or blink. Like a fish out of water, she just lay there, submissive, on the floor, clearly still in shock from what had just transpired. The old bruise on her back began to ache again, pounding a steady rhythm with her racing heart. She wished—if butterfly she could be no more—to be a fish, hiding from the world deep down in an abyss of eternal darkness. She wanted to be anything but a woman who got less respect from her husband than a homeless, hapless beggar. Read more…

976 Views | 4 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/10/2015 9:59:05 AM

It seems that, according ot the ever reliable Onion, the evidence is in that the very best way to guarantee the woman you love who has dumped your ass will want you back is to devote every waking moment to crying like a baby, hiding away in your bedroom and generally delbillitating yourself with self pity. Anyone who loves a good dose of sarcasm, should read more here... Read more…

18097 Views | 117 Comments | 0 Articles | 10/4/2014 2:24:12 PM

Today, or more precisely, yesterday, September 6th, because I just now turned to my left side and looked at the clock, it is 2am now, I met H. yes, my dear readers, after two years, or 23 months (I visited him in Germany and was back to China on the 6th of October in 2012), I met this guy again, in city B, Germany. We were sitting for three hours and had coffee together.  Read more…

5300 Views | 22 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/22/2014 8:49:49 AM

The following few weeks had been like a roller coaster ride. One day she was sad and depressed, asking me to find another nice Chinese woman who wasn't sick in the head. The next day she was happy and asking me about our future and telling me. “I know for fact that you will be my future husband.” Read more…

7890 Views | 45 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/13/2014 12:47:41 PM

Mandy, Jeff and Lily were waiting for me at the airport. I came only for eight days because I had to return to Vancouver for that big job my contractor talked about. The plan was to stay one night in Shenzhen and the next day to travel to Mandy's hometown for 3-4 days. After that, come back to Shenzhen to get ready for my return to Canada. Read more…

9347 Views | 53 Comments | 0 Articles | 4/21/2014 12:12:24 AM

I received the news, not about her American visa, but about somebody I trusted, had disappeared with $40000 that belonged to me. I am not a rich man, losing that kind of money at once made me sick. I felt that I was losing everything, my business, my life and my intended Chinese wife, my Lily. Read more…

2206 Views | 8 Comments | 0 Articles | 3/17/2014 6:36:48 PM

I sincerely meant to get off that path to self-destruction.  But a chance at happiness appeared unexpectedly; at least, at that time, I sincerely believed that was what it was.  In some ways, I was manipulated into what turned out to be a messed up situation; but I wasn’t completely blameless.  Nobody held a gun to my head.  There were warning signs, but I wanted so badly to believe that I could finally have the happiness I yearned for, so I ignored them. Read more…

2217 Views | 5 Comments | 0 Articles | 2/21/2014 10:51:38 AM

After sixteen years, the time and circumstances were finally right; they weren’t perfect, but they were right.  We were together again.  Third time’s the charm, they always say.  A year into our long-distance relationship, he was finally able to visit me from the U.S.  Seventeen months later, that long-distance relationship came to an abrupt end. Read more…

11410 Views | 71 Comments | 0 Articles | 11/20/2013 12:42:59 PM

Four years ago, my parents backed wuhan from zhuhai, living in my home, ran dad's book reprint. There were two old friends visited my parents a day, they are university teachers, all older than me. After they left, my father sighed, "alas, they are all imperfect family." Their family all have no master. I realized that I am also an imperfect family woman. Dad's words are very precise as a writer. Read more…

12765 Views | 47 Comments | 0 Articles | 9/26/2013 4:17:55 PM
Not long ago, I met a European guy. The first impression I had was that he was like a wolf, solitary and untamed. It’s written in his business card ‘xxxx International Hotel G.M.’ I felt heavy when reading this. Read more…
9241 Views | 35 Comments | 0 Articles | 9/12/2013 2:49:31 PM
Another long flight, got layover in Abu Dhabi and back to Beijing, after almost 15 hours finally I landed in Dalian. At midnight, arrived home, opened the door, turned on lights, took a shower; it’s almost dawn, got to head to work. A colleague said, you look very tired. She didn’t know that I was much more tired than my face could be seen. Read more…
8323 Views | 25 Comments | 0 Articles | 8/27/2013 3:55:05 PM
After we checked in the hotel, it was dark. We drove to look for somewhere to have dinner. Parked in an underground parking lot, we walked to look for a restaurant. Read more…
7490 Views | 28 Comments | 0 Articles | 8/10/2013 3:01:10 PM
The last day, H finished work early and we drove to Stuttgart, stayed in a hotel for the night, the next morning I would go from there to Frankfurt airport. Just a couple of days ago I was sitting by his side, driving home from Stuttgart, and it was full of joy for the wonderful reunite moment with H, now I was again by his side but had to be parting from him, could not help but being overwhelmingly sad. Read more…
6213 Views | 20 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/25/2013 5:03:33 PM
Staying at home later on and watched a movie, meanwhile waiting for H to come from work. He bought things to eat on the way home, typical German cold dishes. I was not hungry at all after a big pizza at noon, so he would not bother making himself things to eat either. Read more…
6135 Views | 25 Comments | 0 Articles | 6/6/2013 10:06:14 AM
He would not come to Frankfurt to pick me up, I got to go to Stuttgart by train, because it takes 4 or 5 hours to drive to Frankfurt but two hours to Stuttgart from the town he lives. Read more…
1957 Views | 3 Comments | 0 Articles | 3/6/2013 3:25:59 PM
There is this Filipina I know who had been illegally staying in a particular Asian country for a number of years, during which she got involved with a Filipino who had legal status in the said country and with whom she had three kids. The relationship ended badly. Read more…
4104 Views | 9 Comments | 0 Articles | 2/17/2013 3:06:53 PM
After he went back to Germany, we got only to chat sometimes on weekends. I understood that he must be quite busy for he just got a new job, besides, he got to settle down in Germany again and there must be a lot of things to deal with. Although I was really hoping that he could be online more often to talk with me, I would be very happy just to see him in the screen. Read more…
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