Chinese Women, Asian Women, Online Dating & Things Chinese and Asian
1242 Views | 36 Comments | 0 Articles | 11/16/2017 11:17:01 AM

            My name is Roger and I am rather new to CLM, having joined on September 24th.  I am a 52-year-old divorced man currently living in Chambersburg, Pennsylvania.  My ex-wife is a Chinese lady whom I met through online dating.  Unfortunately, our marriage lasted only for three years.  I'll go into more detail about the reasons for the failure of my marriage in a future installment. Read more…

733 Views | 5 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/10/2016 9:01:46 PM

So Yong wanted flowers. Usually this is one of her easier requests of her life in the West to fulfill. Certainly much easier than her request for “real” Chinese food, which requires a seventy-mile trip to Chicago’s Chinatown. Read more…

1786 Views | 10 Comments | 0 Articles | 9/9/2016 12:19:30 AM

We recently received two messages from a new member with the username of ORGASMDONOR. Yes, he wrote that name in CAPS and he got away with that username because the Chinese employee who approved it didn't get what it meant. You be the judge as to whether our reaction was appropriate coming from a Chinese dating site intended for Chinese women and Western men seeking life partners and/or marriage. Read more…

971 Views | 4 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/31/2016 6:52:17 PM

The following article is based (mostly) on something I read online in the New York Times titled "Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person" by ALAIN de BOTTON. It was so pertinent to dating, including Chinese dating, that I had to share it with you..... Read more…

1144 Views | 5 Comments | 0 Articles | 3/23/2016 5:41:41 PM

There are some, many or numerous foreigners who often make an interesting comment about Chinese people and their social behavior or thinking .  I have heard (and in the beginning years of living with Chinese I also used the same comment ... ) -- Chinese have no logic!!  In other words, these foreigners assert that Chinese social behavior is devoid of rational logical thinking ... So, I am going to write more than enough blog posts to consider this assumption .   Read more…

848 Views | 3 Comments | 0 Articles | 3/23/2016 12:17:55 PM

I have received enough suggestions ... I write too much and too long and with too much fluff....  Hopefully this is better .. Read more…

925 Views | 8 Comments | 0 Articles | 3/15/2016 1:42:08 PM

If you really wish to be happy living in China (excluding the SARs and that Island ) Read more…

523 Views | 1 Comments | 0 Articles | 3/16/2016 4:21:14 PM

满月是一枚婚戒   Read more…

708 Views | 7 Comments | 0 Articles | 3/14/2016 10:44:57 PM

    The title is concerned with seeking positive social behavior towards others... Read more…

2280 Views | 6 Comments | 0 Articles | 1/3/2016 12:42:42 AM

After all the fights on my "Are You a Player?" article, I still have some truculence left in me and want to talk about the same topic–SEX. John, I don't mean to start the Second CLM War here with this blog, but I feel that I need to talk about a problem that had been bugging me since I visited my current Chinese girlfriend for the first time. Read more…

4184 Views | 48 Comments | 1 Articles | 12/7/2015 7:17:05 PM

“Barry, I love you.”  Tina whispered gently into my ear. “Please never doubt this.”    Read more…

2215 Views | 10 Comments | 0 Articles | 11/17/2015 3:58:03 AM

Okay, I admit that maybe I was overreacting but enough is enough! Someone brought to my attention a braindead article that got posted not once, but twice, in two major publications. In it The Telegraph UK and ChinaDailyAsia take the basic approach that every western guy who is attracted to Chinese or Asian women is suffering from a sexual perversion. Needless to say, as someone married to a great Chinese woman, and as co-owner of CLM and ALM, I was more than a little pissed at this crap being published as if it was an unquestioned fact, when it is actually a careless and extremely insulting slur with no basis in fact whatsoever. Read more…

1057 Views | 10 Comments | 0 Articles | 10/12/2015 12:46:50 PM

一周过去了。我和我的客人完成了帮助小孩检查视力的工作,客人们配好了眼镜又亲自把眼镜送到小孩子们手上。然后我依依不舍的送别我的客人,我很想在客人离别时送上一份我的礼物以表达我对他们的感激之情,但因为一周来我和客人都早出晚归,我只能让我女儿亲自去帮我买几个绣球在送别客人时送给他们,我之所以把绣球作为礼物,是因为绣球是壮乡人民吉祥物象征之一,在中国古代流传着绣球是壮乡青年男女爱情的信物,有些地方有一个风俗,姑娘抛出一个绣球,谁得到这个绣球,谁就可以成为这个姑娘的丈夫。当然,姑娘一般会看准意中人,把绣球抛到他身上,以便他捡到。后来也就有了抛绣球、狮子滚绣球等民间活动,现在,抛绣球仍然是壮族人民喜闻乐见的传统体育项目,人们在茶余饭后常互相抛接以娱乐,起到沟通感情的作用。 Read more…

1657 Views | 15 Comments | 5 Articles | 10/8/2015 6:44:45 AM

I have been in the States for almost two months now as a visiting scholar; there is nothing relevant I could share with you guys until I attended a special lecture on sex and relationship education for women. Now I would like to share with you some of it and what do I feel about it: Read more…

1629 Views | 7 Comments | 0 Articles | 9/14/2015 3:25:25 AM

This blog today is basically about three announcements.  First, another couple has provided us with their CLM Chinese Dating Success Story and it has been posted today.  Second, Barry has awarded his 1 year Gold upgrade and the winner is busy enjoying it now.  See details below… Read more…

1287 Views | 0 Comments | 1 Articles | 7/27/2015 12:37:13 PM

I guess if you're looking to catch monstrous, fat fish for a night of whatever you call sex with a monstrous fat fish, Tinder is the place to be. If you're looking for something a little more appetizing, and a relationship that's a lot more meaningful, stay right where you are on CLM and ALM. Read more…

2175 Views | 13 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/28/2015 6:47:44 AM

This blog started out as a response to comments made on Peter’s blog How to Fall in Love with a Chinese Woman and you should go read that blog and the comments there to better understand the issues discussed here, but I have tried to write this in a way that you will be able to get it without doing that if you don’t have much time. Having said that, the issue being discussed by Peter in his blog, and the arising issue discussed here, are crucial issues in online dating, especially international online dating, so if that’s what you’re into then you should take the time and read it all. Read more…

1396 Views | 10 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/22/2015 10:16:28 AM

I got a big kick out of this image. While living in China after my first breakup with a Chinese woman I too was introduced to Jack Daniels and got to know him pretty well. I don't recommend Jack as a life mate, be you male or female, and here's why: Read more…

1638 Views | 10 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/20/2015 8:20:10 AM

Originally, when I first saw this, my thought ran something like this - "If this is how you feel about relationships and women, then dude, you've been in the wrong relationships and been choosing the wrong kind of women! A good, Chinese woman will most certainly shift your perspective and you'll have a genuine happy ending." But then I thought, maybe that's just me, and maybe I've just been lucky. Read more…

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