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869 Views | 27 Comments | 0 Articles | 8/31/2018 1:45:58 AM

It is hardly surprising that the skills and abilities which allow one to excel at one undertaking can be a positive hindrance to success at another.  The risk taking of the firefighter ill serves the estate planner, whose actions must abound in caution; the loquaciousness of your average salesman would probably get your average librarian fired.  I have recently gained first-hand experience of this truth. The desire to produce fluid, flawless prose which was my goal as an academic would paralyze me in my present position as psychiatric crisis worker, where reports must be filed immediately leaving time for only the most tangential concern towards the niceties as grammar and style. Read more…

1962 Views | 95 Comments | 3 Articles | 5/21/2018 2:05:32 PM

In todays's society, being tall and slim is the new elitism. A lean cowboy physique means you must be smarter and more successful than a shorter, fatter person, right? Of course, this stereotype is in reality quite wrong. But it's hard to shake. Just look at Justin Trudeau, Canada's Prime Minister, to see what I mean. Does anyone reading this - ignoring your political persuasion for one moment -  genuinely believe if PM Trudeau was a short, plump man, that he'd have reached the heights that he has today? Read more…

837 Views | 6 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/23/2017 6:31:39 AM

"On These Pages Awaits Your Perfect Match".  Those words appeared at the top of every page whenever you use the browse feature on CLM.  I have to admit that the first time I encountered them I was more than just a little skeptical.  I simply dismissed them as little more than advertising copy.  But within perhaps ten to fifteen minutes I found those words rather unexpectedly validated.  My first action upon joining CLM was to perform a search for women between the ages of 21 and 45.  Within the very first page of search results, I found her, the woman who has ever come closest to matching the profile of my ideal match. Read more…

963 Views | 7 Comments | 1 Articles | 12/14/2017 10:13:42 PM

Yong and I recently returned from a long delayed honeymoon to Greece. The location was her idea. My occupation has fortunately afforded me numerous opportunities to visit the birthplace of Western thought, many of which I have taken advantage of. As a result I have spent by my calculation approximately nine months over the course of my life wandering the islands and mainland, the mountains and seas of that amazing region. Hence, I would have preferred to explore a new part of the globe. But on matters such as where to spend your honeymoon (and on most other matters as well) I have found it best to defer to my Chinese wife. Read more…

982 Views | 7 Comments | 0 Articles | 4/28/2017 2:22:05 PM

This India adventure has been interesting. Four months as a Fulbright scholar has offered me the opportunity to interact with Indian college students, Uber drivers, and vegetable vendors; to walk in the footsteps of the Buddha, trace the journey of Rama, and float on the holy Ganges; to view Bollywood movies, Indian art shows, and the classical dance form of Bharatanatyam; to learn the difference among nan, roti, and paratha, as well as that among tabla, tampura, and sitar. In short, to experience first-hand—even if only in a limited and at an ultimately superficial level—India. Read more…

2319 Views | 16 Comments | 0 Articles | 2/11/2017 12:43:02 PM

On ChinaLoveMatch.net our members are at many different stages of relationship with their Chinese or Western partners. Maybe you met your new Chinese woman or Western man a few days ago here on the ALM or CLM dating site, and you’re just starting to get into a serious romance. It is equally possible you met your true love months or even years ago on one of our sites, and you’ve already started living together; perhaps you’re already married. Or you could be anywhere in between those two extremes. Read more…

1424 Views | 2 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/13/2016 7:08:09 AM

[Note: In case anyone is wondering how things our going for Yong eight months after our marriage, here is an essay she wrote for her ESL class about her life in the west so far....Peter] Read more…

1188 Views | 5 Comments | 0 Articles | 9/30/2016 11:01:33 PM

I took my shirt off. Jeans, too. I wrung all the water from them into the drain in the middle of Janessa's father's bathroom. He seemed to be a nice man,—quiet, just like Janessa had told me earlier—and my kind of person. I marveled at the impression I must have made on him with my wet clothes as I gave them a final wring and hung them on a loose nail that was sticking out of the wall. I used the towel that Janessa's father had given me to dry myself, then I put the damp clothes back on. A few seconds later, I joined Janessa and her father in the living room. They were sitting on a wooden bench and talking when I entered, and for a good half a minute, they didn't even realize I was there. Read more…

1415 Views | 5 Comments | 0 Articles | 9/13/2016 4:07:17 AM

“Come in,” I said. Read more…

2518 Views | 11 Comments | 0 Articles | 9/9/2016 12:19:30 AM

We recently received two messages from a new member with the username of ORGASMDONOR. Yes, he wrote that name in CAPS and he got away with that username because the Chinese employee who approved it didn't get what it meant. You be the judge as to whether our reaction was appropriate coming from a Chinese dating site intended for Chinese women and Western men seeking life partners and/or marriage. Read more…

2983 Views | 17 Comments | 1 Articles | 4/2/2016 11:29:21 PM

The international terminal at Chicago O’Hare is a relatively modest affair compared to its futuristic United counterpart at the same site, that airline’s largest, or compared to any of the four other terminals for that matter. Terminal 5 as it’s known is also separated from the rest of the airport so that reaching it requires either boarding an above ground train or getting on a shuttle and taking an escalator down to a nondescript waiting area. Read more…

6377 Views | 56 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/11/2015 11:04:05 AM

"Are you a player?" A Chinese woman had asked me this question a long time ago when we talked on QQ one day. Read more…

1426 Views | 7 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/2/2015 11:11:02 PM

[Readers may be interested (but not required) to read the previous blogposts in this series, which describes a visit to America by one exceptionally daring Chinese woman.] Don't Do This with a Chinese Woman and First Sight Read more…

5150 Views | 21 Comments | 0 Articles | 10/22/2015 3:25:01 AM

Don’t judge a book by its cover.  This is one saying that should be taken to heart by any foreign man seriously looking for a Chinese wife through Chinese online dating.  More specifically, do not believe right away that a woman’s photo is an “accurate” representation of her real looks, especially when she is all made up in it and in all the other photos in her profile.  Read more…

3951 Views | 22 Comments | 3 Articles | 8/23/2015 3:25:05 AM

I finally passed the test and got my full licence. “Now you passed the test. You can renew your unrestricted licence for one, three, five or ten years. Which do you want?” the tester asked. “I choose ten years.” Without any hesitation, I answered and smiled to my love. “Ten years! Good.” He smiled and paid. Read more…

2490 Views | 4 Comments | 0 Articles | 8/1/2015 8:21:57 PM

"Get's down to what it's all about. Making the wrong move at the right time." Read more…

1532 Views | 8 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/24/2015 9:45:13 AM

So in the last post I discussed a New York Times article that supposedly provided a quick way to deepen a relationship. The method, described in the article “To Fall in Love with Anyone, Do This,” consisted of asking and answering a series of 36 questions with someone you are considering a relationship with and want to get to know in more depth. Read more…

3407 Views | 18 Comments | 1 Articles | 7/24/2015 6:11:58 AM

One problem that confronts the dedicated user of China Love Match is how to get to know another person in enough depth that you want to fly half way around the world to check them out as a potential mate.  For those who are not living in China, this is standard operating procedure:  to choose from among the bounty of Chinese women presented on the site a small number to visit and then, from those few, to hopefully find one you wish to get serious about and settle down with. Read more…

1300 Views | 4 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/10/2015 9:59:05 AM

It seems that, according ot the ever reliable Onion, the evidence is in that the very best way to guarantee the woman you love who has dumped your ass will want you back is to devote every waking moment to crying like a baby, hiding away in your bedroom and generally delbillitating yourself with self pity. Anyone who loves a good dose of sarcasm, should read more here... Read more…

1639 Views | 3 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/8/2015 10:48:16 AM

Is a Chinese woman's mind less complicated? You'd Better believe it, she hasn't been reading Cosmopolitan for 40 years! Read more…

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