Chinese Women, Asian Women, Online Dating & Things Chinese and Asian
590 Views | 6 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/23/2017 6:31:39 AM

"On These Pages Awaits Your Perfect Match".  Those words appeared at the top of every page whenever you use the browse feature on CLM.  I have to admit that the first time I encountered them I was more than just a little skeptical.  I simply dismissed them as little more than advertising copy.  But within perhaps ten to fifteen minutes I found those words rather unexpectedly validated.  My first action upon joining CLM was to perform a search for women between the ages of 21 and 45.  Within the very first page of search results, I found her, the woman who has ever come closest to matching the profile of my ideal match. Read more…

606 Views | 7 Comments | 1 Articles | 12/14/2017 10:13:42 PM

Yong and I recently returned from a long delayed honeymoon to Greece. The location was her idea. My occupation has fortunately afforded me numerous opportunities to visit the birthplace of Western thought, many of which I have taken advantage of. As a result I have spent by my calculation approximately nine months over the course of my life wandering the islands and mainland, the mountains and seas of that amazing region. Hence, I would have preferred to explore a new part of the globe. But on matters such as where to spend your honeymoon (and on most other matters as well) I have found it best to defer to my Chinese wife. Read more…

771 Views | 7 Comments | 0 Articles | 4/28/2017 2:22:05 PM

This India adventure has been interesting. Four months as a Fulbright scholar has offered me the opportunity to interact with Indian college students, Uber drivers, and vegetable vendors; to walk in the footsteps of the Buddha, trace the journey of Rama, and float on the holy Ganges; to view Bollywood movies, Indian art shows, and the classical dance form of Bharatanatyam; to learn the difference among nan, roti, and paratha, as well as that among tabla, tampura, and sitar. In short, to experience first-hand—even if only in a limited and at an ultimately superficial level—India. Read more…

1982 Views | 16 Comments | 0 Articles | 2/11/2017 12:43:02 PM

On ChinaLoveMatch.net our members are at many different stages of relationship with their Chinese or Western partners. Maybe you met your new Chinese woman or Western man a few days ago here on the ALM or CLM dating site, and you’re just starting to get into a serious romance. It is equally possible you met your true love months or even years ago on one of our sites, and you’ve already started living together; perhaps you’re already married. Or you could be anywhere in between those two extremes. Read more…

1209 Views | 2 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/13/2016 7:08:09 AM

[Note: In case anyone is wondering how things our going for Yong eight months after our marriage, here is an essay she wrote for her ESL class about her life in the west so far....Peter] Read more…

1043 Views | 5 Comments | 0 Articles | 9/30/2016 11:01:33 PM

I took my shirt off. Jeans, too. I wrung all the water from them into the drain in the middle of Janessa's father's bathroom. He seemed to be a nice man,—quiet, just like Janessa had told me earlier—and my kind of person. I marveled at the impression I must have made on him with my wet clothes as I gave them a final wring and hung them on a loose nail that was sticking out of the wall. I used the towel that Janessa's father had given me to dry myself, then I put the damp clothes back on. A few seconds later, I joined Janessa and her father in the living room. They were sitting on a wooden bench and talking when I entered, and for a good half a minute, they didn't even realize I was there. Read more…

1228 Views | 5 Comments | 0 Articles | 9/13/2016 4:07:17 AM

“Come in,” I said. Read more…

2055 Views | 11 Comments | 0 Articles | 9/9/2016 12:19:30 AM

We recently received two messages from a new member with the username of ORGASMDONOR. Yes, he wrote that name in CAPS and he got away with that username because the Chinese employee who approved it didn't get what it meant. You be the judge as to whether our reaction was appropriate coming from a Chinese dating site intended for Chinese women and Western men seeking life partners and/or marriage. Read more…

2703 Views | 17 Comments | 1 Articles | 4/2/2016 11:29:21 PM

The international terminal at Chicago O’Hare is a relatively modest affair compared to its futuristic United counterpart at the same site, that airline’s largest, or compared to any of the four other terminals for that matter. Terminal 5 as it’s known is also separated from the rest of the airport so that reaching it requires either boarding an above ground train or getting on a shuttle and taking an escalator down to a nondescript waiting area. Read more…

5628 Views | 56 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/11/2015 11:04:05 AM

"Are you a player?" A Chinese woman had asked me this question a long time ago when we talked on QQ one day. Read more…

1216 Views | 7 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/2/2015 11:11:02 PM

[Readers may be interested (but not required) to read the previous blogposts in this series, which describes a visit to America by one exceptionally daring Chinese woman.] Don't Do This with a Chinese Woman and First Sight Read more…

4567 Views | 21 Comments | 0 Articles | 10/22/2015 3:25:01 AM

Don’t judge a book by its cover.  This is one saying that should be taken to heart by any foreign man seriously looking for a Chinese wife through Chinese online dating.  More specifically, do not believe right away that a woman’s photo is an “accurate” representation of her real looks, especially when she is all made up in it and in all the other photos in her profile.  Read more…

3299 Views | 22 Comments | 3 Articles | 8/23/2015 3:25:05 AM

I finally passed the test and got my full licence. “Now you passed the test. You can renew your unrestricted licence for one, three, five or ten years. Which do you want?” the tester asked. “I choose ten years.” Without any hesitation, I answered and smiled to my love. “Ten years! Good.” He smiled and paid. Read more…

2327 Views | 4 Comments | 0 Articles | 8/1/2015 8:21:57 PM

"Get's down to what it's all about. Making the wrong move at the right time." Read more…

1365 Views | 8 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/24/2015 9:45:13 AM

So in the last post I discussed a New York Times article that supposedly provided a quick way to deepen a relationship. The method, described in the article “To Fall in Love with Anyone, Do This,” consisted of asking and answering a series of 36 questions with someone you are considering a relationship with and want to get to know in more depth. Read more…

3090 Views | 18 Comments | 1 Articles | 7/24/2015 6:11:58 AM

One problem that confronts the dedicated user of China Love Match is how to get to know another person in enough depth that you want to fly half way around the world to check them out as a potential mate.  For those who are not living in China, this is standard operating procedure:  to choose from among the bounty of Chinese women presented on the site a small number to visit and then, from those few, to hopefully find one you wish to get serious about and settle down with. Read more…

1172 Views | 4 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/10/2015 9:59:05 AM

It seems that, according ot the ever reliable Onion, the evidence is in that the very best way to guarantee the woman you love who has dumped your ass will want you back is to devote every waking moment to crying like a baby, hiding away in your bedroom and generally delbillitating yourself with self pity. Anyone who loves a good dose of sarcasm, should read more here... Read more…

1468 Views | 3 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/8/2015 10:48:16 AM

Is a Chinese woman's mind less complicated? You'd Better believe it, she hasn't been reading Cosmopolitan for 40 years! Read more…

2039 Views | 9 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/17/2015 2:33:22 PM

下午大约4点钟左右,司机打电话问我现在我在哪?我说正在宾馆的会客室呢?司机说他和客人已经到宾馆了,现在在服务台.,听到司机这样说我立即从会客室走向服务台,,我边走边抬头看向服务台,看到几个比较高的外国人正在和服务台里的服务员讲话。我想那肯定是我的客人了。他们的身高和中国人相比都显得比较高。我170CM的身高有时加上高跟鞋,平时走在中国人群中尤其是女同胞中总是显得鹤立鸡群。.但现在站在他们中第一次感觉自己变得矮了. Read more…

2100 Views | 9 Comments | 7 Articles | 1/18/2015 4:23:26 PM

“Why did you wake me up?” Tina had cried out.  “I was eating MEAT!”  This was the last sentence of my previous article.  It had described how Tina as a youngster had been brought up in tough conditions, often with a minimum of food to eat.  Meat in particular was a special treat for the family to be enjoyed only occasionally. Read more…

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