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1078 Views | 29 Comments | 5 Articles | 9/3/2017 8:42:08 AM

Yet again, my eyes cast down. I felt to be an awful clown, living in a land where there was now no purpose to be. Because of she. The woman I loved. Great God above. What was I to do? Staring disconsolately at the floor however gave me no answers. Life was never this simple, but rather, an intricate architecture of highs and lows, taunts and teases, tragedy and triumph. Read more…

2290 Views | 42 Comments | 5 Articles | 7/15/2017 12:24:47 PM

This series unapologetically delves into the depths of the traumatic breakup with my former partner Lily and its immediate aftermath, including what happened in the fraught days and weeks following the separation. Writing it is providing a much needed catharsis, releasing me from many negative emotions associated with the galling break up. Read more…

987 Views | 27 Comments | 1 Articles | 7/2/2017 2:12:31 PM

This story continues from the last article.  It describes the day after I’d been unceremoniously kicked to the kerb by my last girlfriend, Lily. One of the less joyous times of my life. One that even to this day, is etched painfully into my memory. It's easy to say "Well, as one door closes, another one opens". Read more…

1586 Views | 16 Comments | 0 Articles | 2/11/2017 12:43:02 PM

On ChinaLoveMatch.net our members are at many different stages of relationship with their Chinese or Western partners. Maybe you met your new Chinese woman or Western man a few days ago here on the ALM or CLM dating site, and you’re just starting to get into a serious romance. It is equally possible you met your true love months or even years ago on one of our sites, and you’ve already started living together; perhaps you’re already married. Or you could be anywhere in between those two extremes. Read more…

3977 Views | 48 Comments | 1 Articles | 12/7/2015 7:17:05 PM

“Barry, I love you.”  Tina whispered gently into my ear. “Please never doubt this.”    Read more…

3855 Views | 32 Comments | 8 Articles | 1/8/2015 1:13:59 PM

It was late in the day.  Tina and I had struggled to do the three hour hike home in the dark, after visiting a half completed monastery in the far distant hills around her home town of Shawan. Read more…

3656 Views | 15 Comments | 1 Articles | 9/23/2014 1:46:39 PM

In my previous blog article I was talking about a few relationships or should I say some failed attempts to find love in China. When I'd written that article I was unaware of some details about my last relationship with a Chinese woman that I became totally conscious of after I submitted my previous article for publishing Read more…

6985 Views | 25 Comments | 0 Articles | 6/25/2014 1:35:49 PM

When we got back from the park, I went to take a shower and let them to talk. Sally told everything to her about my plan. After my shower, I asked Lily if she could take me to my hotel, it was late. Read more…

3016 Views | 9 Comments | 0 Articles | 6/18/2014 3:20:11 PM

After lunch, we started to get ready to go back to Shenzhen to meet with Sally for the weekend. I saw Lily and Mandy talking about something and they told me that, with Jeff helping them in translation, Jeff and Mandy will stay in Yangjiang for another 2-3 days, Lily and I will go to Shenzhen only, to meet with Sally. I was surprised, but it gave me the chance to talk to her about my plan. Read more…

4823 Views | 5 Comments | 0 Articles | 9/3/2013 3:04:40 PM
Foreign men looking for a certain type of Chinese woman – one who is more westernized than traditionally Chinese, to be more specific – may feel that he will have better Chinese dating prospects in Hong Kong than in the mainland. Definitely, women in Hong Kong have more westernized attitudes, especially when it comes to dating and relationships. It is this fact, however, that may also make it harder for a foreign man to find his ideal Chinese girlfriend among Hong Kong women. Read more…
8521 Views | 25 Comments | 0 Articles | 8/27/2013 3:55:05 PM
After we checked in the hotel, it was dark. We drove to look for somewhere to have dinner. Parked in an underground parking lot, we walked to look for a restaurant. Read more…
6191 Views | 34 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/18/2013 2:08:39 PM
How do you reconcile your desire for love with the traditional standards of suitability that you also look for in a potential partner? Allow me to elaborate. Read more…
4239 Views | 8 Comments | 0 Articles | 3/26/2013 4:26:30 PM
We watched “Painted Skin, II”, the movie was not so interesting, but sitting there with H, I was full of happiness. Read more…
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