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1097 Views | 7 Comments | 0 Articles | 2/2/2020 9:23:11 AM

How to Find the Woman of Your Dreams By Learning Mandarin Read more…

1108 Views | 23 Comments | 0 Articles | 1/25/2020 12:25:23 AM

In view of the Corona Virus and what is currently going on in and around Wuhan it is difficult to say the words “Happy Chinese New Year Everyone”. How can this be a happy New Year with so many of our wonderful Chinese friends and family facing such a threatening and fast spreading disease? Read more…

1284 Views | 22 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/27/2019 7:06:41 PM

I was having a rather interesting text-chat last night with a female CLM member who is known to many of us here. Read more…

538 Views | 1 Comments | 0 Articles | 1/1/2020 1:04:10 AM

Depending on where you are in the world at the time I post this New Years Eve is approaching or may have slipped by in the last few hours. Either way we want to wish you all a very happy New Years Celebration and a fantastic year in 2020. May you all live in peace, enjoy good health & prosperity, enjoy a loving relationship with your family and either maintain a loving relationship with your current life partner or find such a relationship with a new life partner.  Read more…

4205 Views | 11 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/17/2019 6:32:46 AM

"Wow, I haven't heard from you in a while", was my first reply to a Wechat message that popped up from my old boss. She's a Chinese lady with excellent English, but she was fired from our school for getting herself involved in a rather stupid scam that had been organised by rich parents with no brains, but that's another story. Apparently she now owns and operates a Training School. We always got on well. Read more…

2709 Views | 23 Comments | 3 Articles | 4/3/2019 3:50:30 PM

I first met Jenny whilst working as an English teacher in Leshan in Sichuan Province, China in 2016.  She was a dance leader, that is, several evenings per week, she and a group of followers would street dance for one to two hours, a wonderful tradition within much of China. Western countries are much the worse for not having such a unique, charming practise. Read more…

1261 Views | 15 Comments | 1 Articles | 2/2/2019 3:35:39 PM

Life’s a continuing work in progress, full of challenges. Communicating appropriately with ladies, especially ones from another culture, is exactly the same. A learning process, a bit of a minefield, in fact. Read more…

1358 Views | 15 Comments | 3 Articles | 12/23/2018 2:32:21 PM

Fish wouldn't ever be caught on a hook if only they'd keep their mouths shut! In similar vein, some Chinese women would be best advised to do the same and shut their big gobs! Read more…

723 Views | 5 Comments | 0 Articles | 11/1/2018 6:31:25 PM

Compromise Read more…

723 Views | 8 Comments | 10 Articles | 11/7/2018 7:58:16 PM

In Imi's recent blog, 'Our Lives Through A Keyhole', Imi wrote a comment on page 6 that reads - Read more…

3657 Views | 82 Comments | 0 Articles | 10/30/2018 11:25:06 PM

If Barry was wondering IF his kind and congenial invite would have any response -- this might indicate he was successful. Read more…

1884 Views | 23 Comments | 3 Articles | 5/23/2018 1:11:31 PM

I've been registered on this site on and off for years now.  I joined in 2013, but this was my second stint here. I originally had joined a year or so earlier than this, on my first stretch, that only lasted a few weeks, before I quickly met someone, causing me to leave CLM in high spirits. I eventually made a special trip to China to meet this lady, named Alice. Great stuff. Sometimes luck’s on your side. But a few months later, the friendship unfortunately petered out, causing me to rejoin CLM, feeling both somewhat disillusioned yet optimistic at the same time. Read more…

11722 Views | 200 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/30/2018 12:21:06 AM

I know the subject of this blog doesn't relate to Chinese dating, online dating and/or international relationships, and I need to apologize for that. However, I couldn't hold myself back from writing this article for a personal reason. There is a blogger on CLM, whom I'm going to name later in the article if you bear with me, who, like a parrot, keeps repeating his preferred words of nonsense in almost everything he writes about as of late. And what really pisses me off is that he does this condescendingly, calling us, ordinary people, CLM members, and bloggers, sheeple. Well, he's flat out wrong. Read more…

6719 Views | 183 Comments | 3 Articles | 6/14/2018 12:24:48 PM

Anger within me, camouflaged so well Read more…

1975 Views | 34 Comments | 0 Articles | 3/31/2018 6:02:04 AM

            You know, the whole "Oh my God, you won't ever get a date with those profile pictures" would have carried a great deal more weight were it not for the fact that 34 CLM members and 12 ALM members have contacted me despite my profile pictures.  A couple of them have contacted more than once and one was so interested in me that she has contacted me no fewer than three times despite the fact that I have told her that I was not interested in her twice already.  I have said this before, too.  But like I said, not everyone reads every comment.  I simply have not been convinced that I was discouraging "worthy" potential partners because of my profile pictures.  I have been convinced that I have been discouraging the shallow, the gold diggers, the ones searching for trophy husbands and the ones primarily interested in impressing the outside world rather than pleasing themselves. Read more…

4545 Views | 70 Comments | 3 Articles | 5/18/2018 11:49:49 AM

"Dark recesses within the mind of maleficent man Read more…

1452 Views | 14 Comments | 0 Articles | 3/31/2018 5:57:28 AM

            I began studying Latin in high school.  We used a textbook which employed Latin proverbs to help teach the language.  The author obviously intended to kill two birds with one stone, teaching us about ancient Roman thought as well as their language.  Among these proverbs were ars gratia artis, "art for the sake of art", amor omnia vincit, "love conquers all", and vestis virum reddit, "clothes make the man".  This last one obviously bore the greatest significance to the subject of this blog, my profile pictures. Read more…

1998 Views | 22 Comments | 0 Articles | 3/23/2018 6:14:24 AM

            Since Melcyan and, I suspect, others as well, were interested in reading about how I met my ex-wife, I decided to make that the subject of my next blog entry.  At the beginning of 2009, I had spent the last nine months dating online.  During that time, I was using E-Harmony and was not specifically looking for East Asian women.  I found the experience rather disappointing.  I was surprised at how few of my "highly compatible" matches were interesting to me and how few of them were interested in me. Read more…

2124 Views | 15 Comments | 0 Articles | 2/9/2018 10:00:17 PM

            Every day I checked to see if she has logged-in again, and every day I was both disappointed and relieved that she has not.  I was disappointed that she has not logged-in and read my messages, thus proving my interpretation of the fact pattern correct.  I was relieved that she has not proven my interpretation false by logging-in and then failing to read my messages. Read more…

2046 Views | 22 Comments | 0 Articles | 2/9/2018 9:57:45 PM

            I had peace of mind for the next nine days as I waited patiently for my almost perfect match to return from her vacation.  But on the tenth day, I began to feel uneasy again.  I dealt with my uneasiness by sending two more messages to my almost perfect match.  The first message was short, just a reassurance that I was still waiting patiently for her.  The second one was to correct a mistake which I had made in my second message.  Those mistakes revolved around some confusion which I had about the time stamps on CLM. Read more…

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