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1289 Views | 28 Comments | 3 Articles | 5/1/2017 12:22:12 PM

Learned  people inherently knew there were three channels to learn wisdom. The first method was by pondering and reflection, that supposedly was the most noble way. But this was for people smarter than me who sat cross-legged in caves all day and ate nothing but lettuce leaves. Read more…

284 Views | 3 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/10/2017 5:12:32 AM

As most of you already know, on China Love Match we pride ourselves on providing good service. However, recently we've had a few issues with members not receiving our emails even though they have verified their addresses with us, which means their own email providers should be accepting our messages into their Inboxes. But it seems that a number of email providers have now started taking it upon themselves to block messages even though the recipient has clearly indicated they wish to receive them. Read more…

1416 Views | 13 Comments | 5 Articles | 12/21/2016 10:48:20 PM

What could be better than snuggling up on a couch and reading a good book at Christmas time? Well, I genuinely believe that there's nothing wrong with that picture. In truth, there have been times when I preferred being alone to giving up my solitude for anybody. However, times have changed, and I have certainly changed with age—for better or for worse, I can't really say. What I can truly say is that if I could, I would spend this holiday season in a more enjoyable setting. Read more…

595 Views | 1 Comments | 0 Articles | 11/26/2016 2:09:02 PM

When you are dating Chinese women or Western men online, being able to video chat with them becomes essential at some point, both to assure yourself that she or he is the person they sya they are in their profile photos, and so you can spend time seriously getting to know each other. Read more…

14966 Views | 254 Comments | 8 Articles | 5/14/2016 12:49:47 PM

“Love is poison. A sweet poison, yes, but it will kill you all the same.” (excerpt from ”Game of Thrones”). Read more…

6117 Views | 221 Comments | 6 Articles | 4/17/2016 8:01:37 PM

The race for the US Presidency is on.  Discussions about this and other important world affairs have been made in the comments to my last article, “Perceptions of China – Part 3”.  Rather than muddying the waters however of a discussion about aspects of China that was the original intention of the "Perceptions" article, it’s become apparent that the US election and other crucial political and economic issues should have a blog all their own. Read more…

2371 Views | 17 Comments | 1 Articles | 4/2/2016 11:29:21 PM

The international terminal at Chicago O’Hare is a relatively modest affair compared to its futuristic United counterpart at the same site, that airline’s largest, or compared to any of the four other terminals for that matter. Terminal 5 as it’s known is also separated from the rest of the airport so that reaching it requires either boarding an above ground train or getting on a shuttle and taking an escalator down to a nondescript waiting area. Read more…

2468 Views | 30 Comments | 3 Articles | 1/14/2016 6:40:26 PM

As a long term unbiased observer of this website, one feature that particularly stands out is the fact that most of the men here on average are of discernibly lower intelligence than the ladies.  As a practising teacher working in China, I can say this definitively, having honed my skills both as a keen student of human nature and mental perspicuity, particularly the differences between the sexes. Read more…

1667 Views | 11 Comments | 0 Articles | 10/13/2015 3:25:43 PM

Hello, everyone.  My name is Carl (CJS1960), and I have been hanging around CLM for about a year.  I have truly enjoyed the experience, and I have met some great ladies, I have enjoyed the writings of many of the bloggers, and (quite frankly) I’ve learned a lot.  Of course, I’ve also pissed off some great ladies, I’ve read some real b.s. on the blogs, and I’ve wasted an incredible amount of time sending emails to women who haven’t been on the site since 2009.  I just recently learned about the “last login” feature.  No wonder “Iamtheone” never responded. Read more…

2084 Views | 4 Comments | 0 Articles | 8/1/2015 8:21:57 PM

"Get's down to what it's all about. Making the wrong move at the right time." Read more…

1140 Views | 8 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/24/2015 9:45:13 AM

So in the last post I discussed a New York Times article that supposedly provided a quick way to deepen a relationship. The method, described in the article “To Fall in Love with Anyone, Do This,” consisted of asking and answering a series of 36 questions with someone you are considering a relationship with and want to get to know in more depth. Read more…

2008 Views | 13 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/28/2015 6:47:44 AM

This blog started out as a response to comments made on Peter’s blog How to Fall in Love with a Chinese Woman and you should go read that blog and the comments there to better understand the issues discussed here, but I have tried to write this in a way that you will be able to get it without doing that if you don’t have much time. Having said that, the issue being discussed by Peter in his blog, and the arising issue discussed here, are crucial issues in online dating, especially international online dating, so if that’s what you’re into then you should take the time and read it all. Read more…

1283 Views | 10 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/22/2015 10:16:28 AM

I got a big kick out of this image. While living in China after my first breakup with a Chinese woman I too was introduced to Jack Daniels and got to know him pretty well. I don't recommend Jack as a life mate, be you male or female, and here's why: Read more…

2626 Views | 18 Comments | 1 Articles | 7/24/2015 6:11:58 AM

One problem that confronts the dedicated user of China Love Match is how to get to know another person in enough depth that you want to fly half way around the world to check them out as a potential mate.  For those who are not living in China, this is standard operating procedure:  to choose from among the bounty of Chinese women presented on the site a small number to visit and then, from those few, to hopefully find one you wish to get serious about and settle down with. Read more…

6053 Views | 32 Comments | 8 Articles | 1/11/2015 4:16:01 PM

Day 22 dawned.  I couldn’t believe how quickly time was passing.  It seemed like I’d arrived in China just a few days or so previously, but the facts were the facts.  I was entering my fourth week here, like it or not.  I felt a vague yet quite genuine sense of sadness that I'd have to be leaving China soon.  I’d felt immensely happy here and inwardly vowed that I would return, though I knew that due to work and other pressures back in Australia, this probably wouldn’t be as soon as I’d like. Read more…

2579 Views | 16 Comments | 1 Articles | 1/4/2015 5:40:24 AM

Thailand - arguably the sex capital of Asia so why on earth would a middle aged fat bastard such as myself currently embroiled in serious Chinese dating take his new Chinese girlfriend to such a destination? (Was a question often asked by my friends) "Taking sand to the beach? Taking snow to the Arctic?" Was a common parallel  Read more…

8623 Views | 56 Comments | 4 Articles | 8/31/2014 1:24:30 PM

The following article contains material of a sexual nature.  If you’re easily offended by such things, then please stop reading now.  I need to reiterate that this is a factual report of my trip to China, where two people who’d been chatting on the internet for many months finally met each other face to face, person to person.  Through a series of travels and adventures, this is a tale of two people  - Tina and I  -  who morph seamlessly together into what can only be described as an exultant and unashamed love story. Read more…

2094 Views | 10 Comments | 2 Articles | 8/22/2014 2:48:27 AM

Although there are numerous reasons Western men provide for explaining why they join international online dating sites like China Love Match, one that is frequently mentioned is feminism. Now it seems that Western men are not the only ones who have a problem with feminism.  A tumblr account "Women Against Feminism" has sparked quite a bit of controversy by portraying women holding up signs detailing their reasons for being opposed to feminism.  Here are some of what the signs are saying. Read more…

4600 Views | 30 Comments | 8 Articles | 6/18/2014 9:03:29 PM

Day 16 dawned.  Damn, these days were going fast.  Einstein was wrong  - time in fact wasn't moving ahead uniformly - it was inexorably accelerating! Read more…

4767 Views | 36 Comments | 7 Articles | 6/7/2014 6:50:00 PM

It was 7.30am, my usual time to get up.  I was still sleeping alone in the QinLi hotel in Shawan each evening.  Tina and her daughter Wendy were located fifteen or twenty minutes walk away.  By all appearances, I was leading a perfectly respectable life -  the gossip merchants in Tina’s apartment block had no cause to talk too much about either her or me.  A single Chinese woman would tend to be frowned upon, if it was noticed a man staying with her overnight.  “Saving face” is an important concept in China. Read more…

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