Chinese Women, Asian Women, Online Dating & Things Chinese and Asian
522 Views | 13 Comments | 0 Articles | 8/19/2019 2:00:26 AM

If you are a male member of ChinaLoveMatch you have likely noticed that suddenly we have a rash of beautiful Ukrainian women who are joining the website. We did recently let you know that we are starting to accept non-Chinese women as we are starting to get Chinese men registering too. We pretty well have to accept that Western or non-Chinese Asian women and Chinese men are starting to open up and are interested in each other more than before. They have a right to be included on the site. Read more…

1220 Views | 25 Comments | 3 Articles | 5/9/2019 3:03:55 PM

Jenny and I sat at the lunch table in the refectory area of the university in China where I worked as an English teacher. Our conversation together was rather stilted, as neither of us understood the other person’s language. But we did a lot of grinning and gesticulating, that seemed to have the desired effect. Two pairs of impassioned eyes meeting, staring poignantly into eachother's soul, are arguably all that's needed for the most indepth conversation of all time. I sensed there was something special about this enigmatic lady. I couldn't quite put my finger on it, even as the hairs on my arms bristled.  Where would it lead? Read more…

977 Views | 15 Comments | 3 Articles | 12/23/2018 2:32:21 PM

Fish wouldn't ever be caught on a hook if only they'd keep their mouths shut! In similar vein, some Chinese women would be best advised to do the same and shut their big gobs! Read more…

1519 Views | 22 Comments | 3 Articles | 5/20/2018 10:24:44 AM

This article is a continuation from part one of this series. Various examples of the ladies I've met through Chinalovematch.net are given here. If you're easily bored, please stop reading now. The 1.5 per cent of you that are continuing to read, well done!  I can see that your attention spans and intelligence levels, unlike the rest, are above that of a hampster! Read more…

1280 Views | 40 Comments | 0 Articles | 11/3/2018 11:24:10 AM

Here at CLM I guess that without some of the regular contributors it might seem too slow or bland.   Also with someone often repeating the apparent echo chamber of ----  Just more lies in order to control the 'sheeple' --- it probably stirs up enough fine, dry powder consisting of tiny particles of earth or waste matter lying on the ground or on surfaces or carried in the air.   Read more…

462 Views | 5 Comments | 0 Articles | 11/1/2018 6:31:25 PM

Compromise Read more…

2623 Views | 82 Comments | 0 Articles | 10/30/2018 11:25:06 PM

If Barry was wondering IF his kind and congenial invite would have any response -- this might indicate he was successful. Read more…

1495 Views | 23 Comments | 3 Articles | 5/23/2018 1:11:31 PM

I've been registered on this site on and off for years now.  I joined in 2013, but this was my second stint here. I originally had joined a year or so earlier than this, on my first stretch, that only lasted a few weeks, before I quickly met someone, causing me to leave CLM in high spirits. I eventually made a special trip to China to meet this lady, named Alice. Great stuff. Sometimes luck’s on your side. But a few months later, the friendship unfortunately petered out, causing me to rejoin CLM, feeling both somewhat disillusioned yet optimistic at the same time. Read more…

1200 Views | 28 Comments | 6 Articles | 6/2/2018 9:31:58 AM

As I've discovered, truth can be more horrific than fiction. This article will introduce you to some very disturbing events occurring right now within the USA and other developed countries. Akin to a malignant disease that's spreading like an ever-growing octopus, with blood-sucking tentacles everywhere. Almost in a literal sense. Read more…

1722 Views | 35 Comments | 2 Articles | 9/26/2018 4:42:17 AM

I am writing this through the eyes of a newcomer to ChinaLoveMatch and AsiaLoveMatch because I am trying to imagine how they must feel when they first encounter Conspiracy Corner. This is how I am guessing they might feel, but it is also meant as a primer on how to participate in Conspiracy Corner if you wish to, and how to ignore it if you don’t. Some people love it, others think it is a colossal waste of time. I’d love to hear in the comments below how you felt about it when you found Conspiracy Corner on a Chinese or an Asian Dating Site. Here goes – Conspiracy Corner as I imagine you might see it as a newcomer to CLM and ALM: Read more…

1002 Views | 27 Comments | 4 Articles | 9/15/2018 2:25:27 PM

We discussed in Part 1 of this blog that once people reach middle age, their metabolism slows down. Activity levels often decrease. Yet eating patterns typically remain more or less unchanged. This means threatening clouds looming on the horizon as far as weight issues are concerned. Oh joy. More calories going into your body with less being burnt or otherwise negated in some way, only means one thing. Trouble. Amidst the rubble and the unending stubble of our inevitably ageing and often lonely lives. Read more…

3228 Views | 95 Comments | 3 Articles | 5/21/2018 2:05:32 PM

In todays's society, being tall and slim is the new elitism. A lean cowboy physique means you must be smarter and more successful than a shorter, fatter person, right? Of course, this stereotype is in reality quite wrong. But it's hard to shake. Just look at Justin Trudeau, Canada's Prime Minister, to see what I mean. Does anyone reading this - ignoring your political persuasion for one moment -  genuinely believe if PM Trudeau was a short, plump man, that he'd have reached the heights that he has today? Read more…

4853 Views | 183 Comments | 3 Articles | 6/14/2018 12:24:48 PM

Anger within me, camouflaged so well Read more…

1339 Views | 26 Comments | 4 Articles | 5/24/2018 10:39:02 AM

"Deceptive and deceiving, the human mind

feigns forgiveness and outward love

Maleficence reigning supreme inside

humanity condemned, woe betide" Read more…

1548 Views | 34 Comments | 0 Articles | 3/31/2018 6:02:04 AM

            You know, the whole "Oh my God, you won't ever get a date with those profile pictures" would have carried a great deal more weight were it not for the fact that 34 CLM members and 12 ALM members have contacted me despite my profile pictures.  A couple of them have contacted more than once and one was so interested in me that she has contacted me no fewer than three times despite the fact that I have told her that I was not interested in her twice already.  I have said this before, too.  But like I said, not everyone reads every comment.  I simply have not been convinced that I was discouraging "worthy" potential partners because of my profile pictures.  I have been convinced that I have been discouraging the shallow, the gold diggers, the ones searching for trophy husbands and the ones primarily interested in impressing the outside world rather than pleasing themselves. Read more…

1167 Views | 14 Comments | 0 Articles | 3/31/2018 5:57:28 AM

            I began studying Latin in high school.  We used a textbook which employed Latin proverbs to help teach the language.  The author obviously intended to kill two birds with one stone, teaching us about ancient Roman thought as well as their language.  Among these proverbs were ars gratia artis, "art for the sake of art", amor omnia vincit, "love conquers all", and vestis virum reddit, "clothes make the man".  This last one obviously bore the greatest significance to the subject of this blog, my profile pictures. Read more…

3051 Views | 5 Comments | 0 Articles | 4/6/2018 10:52:44 AM

My friend Wayne (not his real name) is a medical doctor at a large university hospital.  Twice divorced but ever the optimist, he is currently in search of the woman to spend his remaining years with.  Recently a female researcher from China visited his university.  He was interested, and not only in a scholarly sense, as I deduced from a couple of emails I received from him querying me on matters of Chinese culture. After not hearing from him for a while, I decided to check on  how things were going, and received the following response: Read more…

1728 Views | 27 Comments | 0 Articles | 3/10/2018 11:40:25 PM

            I'm not really sure just how widespread the term, "Peanut Gallery", is but it is a well-known term among Americans though most have no idea of its origins.  Several months ago, I was sufficiently interested to perform a little online research.  Turns out that Peanut Gallery was originally a theater term.  During the days when Vaudeville was the most popular theater genre, the performers took to calling the balcony the Peanut Gallery. Read more…

1776 Views | 15 Comments | 0 Articles | 2/9/2018 10:00:17 PM

            Every day I checked to see if she has logged-in again, and every day I was both disappointed and relieved that she has not.  I was disappointed that she has not logged-in and read my messages, thus proving my interpretation of the fact pattern correct.  I was relieved that she has not proven my interpretation false by logging-in and then failing to read my messages. Read more…

1675 Views | 22 Comments | 0 Articles | 2/9/2018 9:57:45 PM

            I had peace of mind for the next nine days as I waited patiently for my almost perfect match to return from her vacation.  But on the tenth day, I began to feel uneasy again.  I dealt with my uneasiness by sending two more messages to my almost perfect match.  The first message was short, just a reassurance that I was still waiting patiently for her.  The second one was to correct a mistake which I had made in my second message.  Those mistakes revolved around some confusion which I had about the time stamps on CLM. Read more…

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