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178 Views | 5 Comments | 0 Articles | 11/1/2018 6:31:25 PM

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3844 Views | 37 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/16/2016 2:06:55 AM

Recently a new member posted a thread on the Forum in which he expressed concerns on a number of items, but specifically was concerned that he had messaged one member twice and so far not received a reply. He originally sent it as a letter to CLM, but we suggested he post a thread in order to get a broader range of responses. This blog is my in response to that thread, which you can find here: Read more…

1392 Views | 5 Comments | 0 Articles | 6/5/2016 5:16:43 PM

The remainder of the day took in all the sights of the southern end of Phuket island. Che drove us to the Big Buddha, Wat Chalong and Rawai Beach. It was a pleasant and memorable day out. The only drawback was that it was difficult to talk to Noi one on one when surrounded by her friends and the kids. I guess this was a part of Asian dating culture. She appeared to be happy so that made me happy too. Read more…

1230 Views | 2 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/29/2016 12:38:10 PM

This first time and my first month in Thailand also had their serious moments. It’s true to say the whole month had a holiday feel to it. Hell, Phuket is a great choice for a vacation. And, it’s even better if you are sharing that time with a Thai lady of your choice. Read more…

2238 Views | 3 Comments | 0 Articles | 6/20/2016 8:31:20 AM

Asian and Chinese internet dating is, like all online dating, rife with people trying to disengage you from your cash through various forms of internet scams. We try to protect you from these people and one of our best lines of defence is member reporting which we highly encourage. Unlike most dating sites who simply pretend sammers don't exist, we investigate every report and it is one of the best tools we have for getting rid of these people who are at best a waste of your time and at worst extremely vile criminals.  Read more…

949 Views | 9 Comments | 0 Articles | 4/22/2016 10:14:13 AM

When I first came to my QLV to take up my job as an English teacher, I was given the task of teaching a subject called 'Civics'. 'What the hell is civics?' I thought, yet dare not speak the words aloud for fear of making myself look 'ignorant' in the eyes of my Chinese boss. Read more…

1251 Views | 6 Comments | 0 Articles | 3/16/2016 2:30:10 PM

The last divorce, number three, was painful. We had been together for nigh on twenty-five years, and two children together and one grandchild. Both of the kids were grown up and had long fled the nest at the time of my last divorce. They had their own lives to lead. Of course, I would miss seeing my grandchild, a girl now aged six. Read more…

1295 Views | 3 Comments | 0 Articles | 1/1/2016 12:43:02 AM

We had a fuzzy end to the year as a few of the bloggers (myself included) went to war. And a few members chipped in. Luckily sanity prevailed and everything settled on a good note. Perhaps it was a blessing in disguise as it maybe reminded us in the end that there are many things more important for us to spend our time and efforts on than whether or not a blogger’s choice of topics or writing style suits us. All the people who contributed to those few days of folly are good people with good intentions, so it shows how easily we can lose our common sense and do silly things or fail to do the right thing as a result. Read more…

2427 Views | 2 Comments | 0 Articles | 1/7/2015 4:17:06 AM

A member recently made the following comment in my blog about Asiandate.com here... Read more…

2009 Views | 3 Comments | 0 Articles | 1/1/2015 5:49:18 AM

We’re holding a Best New Year’s Photo Contest on our ChinaLoveMatch Facebook Page. We are looking for anyone who enters to post what they consider to be a great photo that is somehow relevant to New Year.  It doesn’t matter if we consider it relevant, because if it garners a lot of LIKES then it must be relevant and if it doesn’t, then not so much. The winner will be the photo that gets the most LIKES on Facebook. Read more…

2289 Views | 6 Comments | 0 Articles | 1/1/2015 5:23:58 AM

There is a double meaning in the title, and it hasn’t escaped us. But let’s start with our New Year’s wishes for all of you members of, and visitors to, our Chinese and Asian dating sites, ChinaLoveMatch.net and AsiaLoveMatch.net.  So here is what we wish for you in 2015 and beyond, and if you know anything about our sites, you know these wishes are heartfelt and come from everyone, owners and staff, from across both sites. We sincerely wish for you: Read more…

1705 Views | 3 Comments | 1 Articles | 12/5/2014 3:28:20 PM

“You ask, what keeps me from going mad?”  The Rajah stuck a match across his zipper. In the sudden light I could see he’d soon be prowling the Pattaya streets in search of a date. “You ask, what keeps me from going mad in this endless, ghostly, dark night of a Universe? This unholy lost pirate ship of a Universe…” Read more…

3002 Views | 5 Comments | 1 Articles | 6/11/2014 11:10:51 AM

Over the next few weeks, we caught up with each other’s lives of the last 15 years.  There was no awkward phase; we simply started talking again the way old friends always do – comfortably, eagerly, tenderly.  Like H said, our bridge wasn’t burned; it was merely blocked and made impassable by our individual circumstances in the past.  Read more…

2103 Views | 2 Comments | 1 Articles | 12/22/2013 1:56:19 PM

Without knocking, I rushed into the Oval Office…  “Mr  President! I’d like to talk to you about the most pressing issue facing the world today! That is, the rising price of a good cup of coffee in Southeast Asia! It’s tough enough paying for my Asian dating without having to cough up extra cash for a cuppa joe.” Read more…

4358 Views | 20 Comments | 0 Articles | 11/8/2013 9:50:40 AM

China is a most magnificent nation yet it has one major problem.  For those who don’t like bad news, please stop reading right here.  For those who get a kick out of reading bad news however, you all should be ashamed of yourselves! Read more…

2803 Views | 3 Comments | 1 Articles | 10/14/2013 9:58:59 AM
Bad month! I’d gotten in trouble with the President for mistranslating that top secret Syrian communiqué as “Syrian President….poison gas!” when it should really have been “Syrian President ….passing gas!”. Who knew Syrian President Assad was so secretive about his social embarrassment? Read more…
12315 Views | 21 Comments | 0 Articles | 10/5/2013 4:50:36 PM
We recently received a double Scammer report on ALM member Joan49, another Asian dating scammer and now a resident of Scammer Prison. The interesting thing about the reports was that both gentlemen had recognized in Joan49’s behavior sure signs that she was leading up to asking for money, and that she was a Scammer for sure, but neither had yet received a request for money, which is essential in our placing someone in Scammer Prison lacking other evidence. We can hardly put someone in Prison for acting suspicious but we also don’t want to leave someone out there who we are very confident is a Scammer. It’s a tough spot for us. Read more…
10155 Views | 34 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/23/2013 1:04:32 PM
We have been receiving letters, and noting some comments on the Forum, that have forced us to really do some intense examination of the Forum and many of the comments and new threads that we have been publishing there, and some soul searching as to whether or not we can continue to publish them, or even whether we should continue to operate the forum. Read more…
2926 Views | 4 Comments | 1 Articles | 7/23/2013 2:26:49 AM
I recently had the honor of Asia travel with American President Barrack Obama to the wonderful country of Indonesia. After a long day of statecraft the President would love to disguise himself as a humble spice merchant and go out with me onto the night streets of Jakarta where he would graciously give away American jobs to Indonesians we met. Read more…
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