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Melcyan is a Water Dragon. He is also a retired Chemistry teacher and a lifelong learner. He met his Chinese partner for the first time in 2007 while ballroom dancing in Australia. Their relationship started in 2010 and they have been together ever since. His focus on CLM has been to learn more about the implications of his life-partner's culture and language for building a lifelong loving relationship.
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Little China

2899 Views | 56 Comments | 4 Articles | 4/28/2019 1:35:07 AM

My eyes flicker open. I awake in a bed that I have never slept in before. A young Chinese woman is above me. Where am I? Read more…

Decluttering Is All About Love Part 3 – the bedroom!

460 Views | 8 Comments | 1 Articles | 3/14/2019 1:17:27 PM

My bedroom has not changed during the time my partner and I have been together. A queen size bed faces a lifeless double window.  Two wardrobes and a dressing table are on one side of the room. A chest of drawers and a desk are near the window. The other long wall has two large metal filing cabinets and two smaller filing cabinets covered with a top to make it function as a computer desk. A computer sits on top of that. The carpet has long passed its used by date. The walls need repainting and show many cracks. WARNING! I have taken a patent out on this uniquely designed love nest, so don’t try to copy it. Read more…

Decluttering Is All About Love Part 2 - transforming ugly to cute!

418 Views | 10 Comments | 1 Articles | 3/7/2019 10:59:52 AM

It is getting harder. My second son is returning home for 12 months. I have 3 areas of my house that are floor to ceiling clutter. I now return to the state where I have 2 adult sons living with me. This will be a truly testing time for relationships. It will test my relationship with my beautiful Chinese wife. It will test my relationships with my two sons. It will test the dark corners of my relationship with myself.  Read more…

Decluttering Is All About Love Part 1

985 Views | 28 Comments | 0 Articles | 2/22/2019 2:00:32 PM

Decluttering is all about love. Great love is all about presence. Being present is a 24 hour a day activity. Read more…

From Boy to Man

4512 Views | 42 Comments | 1 Articles | 8/27/2016 10:48:45 PM

I know a 53-year-old man who has failed with two marriages with women from China. It is unlikely that he will ever get a third opportunity. He is good at so many things, but not relationships with women. It looks like the relationship part of his brain still only works at the level of a 14-year-old. I also know men in their sixties and seventies who have the same problem with the relationship part of their brain. Read more…

Online Dating Revisited - Multi-Meets /Single Meets & Much More 网上交友——论距离的影响 第二部分

2522 Views | 8 Comments | 0 Articles | 10/16/2015 6:33:50 AM

A final word on multi-meets versus single meets ending with a confession. It is interesting to flip through the blogs and magazine articles that John Abbot has produced over the years. His position on multi-meets has been very consistent over a long time and it probably does not need to be detailed any further in this blog. I will concede that for some men and women the multi-meet is the best approach. However, I know from my own experience that it was not the best approach for me and the many success stories on CLM also seem to support a single meet approach. Read more…

Online Dating – How it Changes with Distance

7676 Views | 64 Comments | 0 Articles | 9/8/2015 12:31:42 PM

Let's consider online dating where the women you are looking at have similar backgrounds but the distance apart varies.  Read more…

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