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Kibecky’s Long Journey Into Scammer Prison Part 2

2701 Views | 0 Comments | 0 Articles | 4/14/2012 6:00:25 PM
After the exchange of letters you saw in Part 1 of this blog, in which MemberX was dating a “Chinese girl” who supposedly resides in the UK but had gone on a trip to Nigeria, I discovered that a letter I had sent to MemberX earlier than the last letter in Part 1 had actually not reached him, so I sent it again. You’ll find it below and it’s valuable because of our recommendations to MemberX on what to watch for, as well as his understandable refusal to want to give up on Kibecky, but his intelligent plan to now test Kibecky more thoroughly to determine if she was real or not. In this letter I am setting MemberX’s responses in bold so they’re easy to separate from my own questions and comments. Read more…

Kibecky’s Long Journey Into Scammer Prison

3950 Views | 4 Comments | 0 Articles | 4/8/2012 4:29:26 PM
We recently went through a fairly intensive investigation of a Scammer. We received a letter from a member who had “found someone on ALM”. This was a fellow whose profile we had recently reviewed because we thought it was very sensible, and displayed an intelligent awareness and approach to the potential problem of being scammed on a dating site. Just one example was his insistence that anyone contacting him must have a webcam. I will simply refer to the member as “MemberX”. Read more…

Speaking Of Scams, How About

126807 Views | 41 Comments | 0 Articles | 4/6/2012 12:46:33 AM

Update: Since posting this article almost 2 years ago things have changed. has recently changed it's name to  To understand the basic way in which AsianBeauties, and now AsianDate, operate and why you need to avoid getting caught up in either site, keep reading here. But at the end of this article you will find a link to another article just posted, entitled "A Scam is a Scam is a Scam! Part 1:, - What's the Difference?" which will explain that the two sites are the same, and one can be trusted no more than the other. Read more…

The Latest Scammer Ploy On CLM

8020 Views | 16 Comments | 0 Articles | 2/5/2012 4:21:17 PM
We’ve had an interesting little run in with a Scammer over the last few days so I thought you all might be interested in it. It’s been quiet on the scammer front for the last few months, and while a few have been caught and placed in Scammer Prison, it has mostly been online Chinese Dating as usual here on CLM. But this one is a little unique so maybe it's worth the write up. Read more…

Welcome to America c/o The Department of Homeland Security

2814 Views | 7 Comments | 0 Articles | 2/3/2012 9:51:55 PM
I receive a newsletter called The Daily Reckoning which is put out by a company that researches and recommends international investments. I'm not really in the league of true "international investors" but I find that stuff strangely interesting, especially when the information is coming from a source that is a little on the rebel side. Read more…

Happy Chinese New Year & Year Of The Dragon

2714 Views | 9 Comments | 0 Articles | 1/22/2012 4:41:06 PM
Spring Festival is here and the chaos has reached full blast, having started almost 2 weeks ago and been building up speed since then. Of course if you’re a stay-at-home type, as most Expats in China are at this time of year, the chaos going on may have gone unnoticed. But if you’re one of the gazillion Chinese or few Expats who are caught up travelling during the annual greatest human migration in human history then you’ve no doubt been caught up in the chaos at some point. Read more…

Happy New Year & New Year’s Day in Hangzhou

3318 Views | 6 Comments | 0 Articles | 1/1/2012 4:48:19 PM
First, on behalf of all the staff and owners of CLM and ALM we wish all members and visitors a very happy and prosperous New Year filled with joy, good fortune and especially love. Many of you have already found your perfect match here on our websites. For those still searching, or those who have just begun their search, we hope success finds you very early in 2012. Read more…

Christmas In Hangzhou & Merry Christmas to You

2320 Views | 8 Comments | 1 Articles | 12/25/2011 4:06:40 PM
It's been a bittersweet few days leading up to Christmas for my wife and I here in Hangzhou. We're both missing family in different parts of the world, and as good as it is to be with each other during this time, it would so much better to also be with our sons and daughters, my aging Mother, brothers and sisters, nephews and nieces, all those little grandchildren, plus other close family members or old friends. Read more…
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Wading In on Western Scumbag Men vs Desperate Chinese Women (Part 2)

4939 Views | 4 Comments | 0 Articles | 9/9/2011 7:49:11 PM
When is a Desperate Chinese Woman not Really so Desperate? Read more…

Wading In on Western Scumbag Men vs Desperate Chinese Women (Part 1)

5919 Views | 10 Comments | 0 Articles | 8/28/2011 11:38:18 PM
When is a Scumbag Man not a Scumbag? Read more…
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