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Should The Forum Be Discontinued?

11589 Views | 34 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/23/2013 1:17:06 PM
We have been receiving letters, and noting some comments on the Forum, that have forced us to really do some intense examination of the Forum and many of the comments and new threads that we have been publishing there, and some soul searching as to whether or not we can continue to publish them, or even whether we should continue to operate the forum. Read more…

A Canadian in China: My Experiences with Chinese Food!

6063 Views | 14 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/21/2013 6:49:06 PM

In the face of all the heat Achelle is taking for simply trying to alert both the Chinese members and especially the Western men about some of the inherent dangers that are hiding in what is generally, and mistakenly, believed to be “health food”, I feel obliged to relate to everyone here my experiences with Chinese food during my 10 years of living here. Read more…

A Canadian in China

3495 Views | 10 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/18/2013 4:17:45 PM
Recently a good member (I consider all Canadians to be good members) posted a forum thread entitled "Travel for a Canadian to China". I wrote everything below as a comment, then thought "What the hey, I don't have much time to write my blogs anymore, so why not post this as a blog instead". I suggest you visit the thread and then come back for my response on China travel. I'm sure there'll also be a number of other comments of equal or greater value than mine from some of the other Expats in China who hang out on CLM, so you should check back on the thread and the comments here occasionally if you too intend to travel to China.. Read more…

The Difference Between Thai Women and Chinese Women

27178 Views | 10 Comments | 0 Articles | 4/28/2013 2:05:51 PM
Recently a thread was opened on the CLM Forum in which an anonymous Chinese woman member indicated she had lost or was losing her western boyfriend to a Thai woman. The thread is “Is he still like me? What is difference Chinese Woman and Thai Woman”. In one comment another (or perhaps the same) anonymous lady member specifically commented “actually what i want to ask someone like johnabbot had thai girl friend before and chinese wife now so what do you think about it what is the different JohnAbbot?” This blog is my response. Read more…

What? New Years is Here and Still No Christmas?

2374 Views | 4 Comments | 1 Articles | 1/2/2013 1:11:41 AM
We continue to suffer from very spotty internet connections here, and it has caused us again to put off our plans for Christmas. I am trying to be light about this, but it is starting to wear very, very thin. Inside I am filled with expletives screaming to get out. But… Read more…

CLM Rescheduled Christmas - Gift #1 - Zoe

3456 Views | 5 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/30/2012 1:53:43 PM
If you happened to read my recent forum thread, "CLM/ALM Has Rescheduled Christmas", then you're already aware that as a result of truly horrendous Internet connections, CLM has been forced to move back the universal celebration of Christmas several days. As such, Christmas will be celebrated December 30th this year instead of December 25th. We apologize if that screws up your Christmas plans but it couldn't be helped. Read more…

My Online Chinese Dating Plan Meets Some Serious Opposition

8304 Views | 24 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/16/2012 3:15:32 PM
Recently a Chinese woman and member of our dating site posted an extremely interesting thread, in a somewhat mocking reference to a series of blog articles I had written a few years back. Her forum thread suggested that she was planning a trip to the West to meet up with a number of Western male members, one at a time, in hopes that one of them at least would be a suitable match and become her life mate. Read more…

Er Nai, Threesomes – Thanks But No Thanks

3174 Views | 3 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/2/2012 12:37:28 PM
We have briefly contemplated some of the comments and suggestions made in the two earlier blogs on this subject. To be perfectly frank, the contemplation lasted for about 5 minutes, because here in the background the reaction was unanimous and took little thought at all. Here at CLM/ALM we are not interested in expanding our horizons beyond what we are and always have been, dating sites committed to offering genuine and sincere Chinese and Asian women and genuine and sincere Western men who are seeking life partnerships with each other a safe, secure and enjoyable platform on which to meet, online date and hopefully find real love. Read more…

Er Nai, Threesomes – Then What?

4257 Views | 7 Comments | 0 Articles | 11/25/2012 3:35:22 PM
As usual with any discussion about what direction the websites should go on any given controversial issue, there was a mixed bag of comments regarding whether or not we should allow members seeking extraordinary types of “heterosexual” long term relationships, such as a concubine style relationship or a threesome style relationship, to register on CLM/ALM. And, if allowed to register, then should they be allowed to publicize on their profiles their unusual preferences, or to only communicate them privately. Clearly we are sites intended to provide Chinese dating or Asian dating to heterosexuals seeking long term relationships of the life partner or marriage variety. Read more…

Er Nai (Concubines) and Threesome Relationships – What’s Up With That?

9852 Views | 20 Comments | 1 Articles | 11/11/2012 2:55:47 PM
This blog is going to go into two topics that are confounding us on how exactly to deal with each of them. They don’t come up very often but when they do they are the subject of great debate here in the back end of CLM/ALM. Being a westerner where we tend to let everyone have their own philosophy to live by, to live and let live as they say, I think quite differently about how we should deal with these issues than our Chinese manager and staff think. So I thought I’d canvass how the members feel, both East and West. I’m particularly interested to hear from the women members, both the Chinese women and Non-Chinese Asians, to see if there is a difference between the two. Read more…
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