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My Take on New to Chinese Dating - Need Help Forum Thread

5225 Views | 37 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/16/2016 3:46:35 AM

Recently a new member posted a thread on the Forum in which he expressed concerns on a number of items, but specifically was concerned that he had messaged one member twice and so far not received a reply. He originally sent it as a letter to CLM, but we suggested he post a thread in order to get a broader range of responses. This blog is my in response to that thread, which you can find here: Read more…

If One Member is Cheating on a Spouse Via CLM or ALM, What Should We Do?

1803 Views | 7 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/6/2016 1:10:10 PM

Not too long ago we received a letter from a “member” of CLM complaining about behavior of his Chinese “wife”, also a member, while they were in the process of obtaining a visa for her to move to the USA to live with him. I admit that I might have had some sympathy for this person had his approach been different, but the approach basically set me off. I am interested in readers’ thoughts on how you might have handled the situation differently. Thanks for any comments. Read more…

Let’s Chat About ChinaLoveMatch Video Chat

1623 Views | 1 Comments | 0 Articles | 11/26/2016 2:13:08 PM

When you are dating Chinese women or Western men online, being able to video chat with them becomes essential at some point, both to assure yourself that she or he is the person they sya they are in their profile photos, and so you can spend time seriously getting to know each other. Read more…

Meet OrgasmDonor, an Ex ChinaLoveMatch Member

3703 Views | 13 Comments | 0 Articles | 9/9/2016 12:25:16 AM

We recently received two messages from a new member with the username of ORGASMDONOR. Yes, he wrote that name in CAPS and he got away with that username because the Chinese employee who approved it didn't get what it meant. You be the judge as to whether our reaction was appropriate coming from a Chinese dating site intended for Chinese women and Western men seeking life partners and/or marriage. Read more…

Chinese Dating Sites - What About the Women?

3909 Views | 15 Comments | 0 Articles | 9/1/2016 10:28:57 PM
We recently received a message from a member of CLM asking about the number of Chinese women on CLM, why he is not getting much interest and why there don't seem to be many young Chinese women here. I have posted it below along with my response. I thought the discussion might be of interest to the men as a whole, and I am also interested in receiving member's thoughts on the subject too. Read more…

Black Bra - Size 38C

3339 Views | 13 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/26/2016 1:26:47 PM

I was already thinking of throwing a "doing business in China" oriented blog in here, and then a friend sent me this and I decided that this was more to the point than what I had planned on writing. You need to pay very careful attention to this because there is an important point here that everyone planning to start doing business in China or with Chinese businessmen must understand. It is also relevant often enough in negotiating your future with the Chinese woman you are dating and considering as your life partner. Read more…

About Online Asian and Chinese Dating Scammers

3182 Views | 3 Comments | 0 Articles | 6/20/2016 9:21:17 AM

Asian and Chinese internet dating is, like all online dating, rife with people trying to disengage you from your cash through various forms of internet scams. We try to protect you from these people and one of our best lines of defence is member reporting which we highly encourage. Unlike most dating sites who simply pretend sammers don't exist, we investigate every report and it is one of the best tools we have for getting rid of these people who are at best a waste of your time and at worst extremely vile criminals.  Read more…

Here Comes 2016: What Are Your Priorities?

1740 Views | 3 Comments | 0 Articles | 1/1/2016 12:44:32 AM

We had a fuzzy end to the year as a few of the bloggers (myself included) went to war. And a few members chipped in. Luckily sanity prevailed and everything settled on a good note. Perhaps it was a blessing in disguise as it maybe reminded us in the end that there are many things more important for us to spend our time and efforts on than whether or not a blogger’s choice of topics or writing style suits us. All the people who contributed to those few days of folly are good people with good intentions, so it shows how easily we can lose our common sense and do silly things or fail to do the right thing as a result. Read more…

Western Men Dating Chinese Women: Yellow Fever My Ass

3508 Views | 10 Comments | 0 Articles | 11/17/2015 6:31:34 AM

Okay, I admit that maybe I was overreacting but enough is enough! Someone brought to my attention a braindead article that got posted not once, but twice, in two major publications. In it The Telegraph UK and ChinaDailyAsia take the basic approach that every western guy who is attracted to Chinese or Asian women is suffering from a sexual perversion. Needless to say, as someone married to a great Chinese woman, and as co-owner of CLM and ALM, I was more than a little pissed at this crap being published as if it was an unquestioned fact, when it is actually a careless and extremely insulting slur with no basis in fact whatsoever. Read more…

Online Chinese Dating? Don’t Judge a Chinese Woman By Her Profile Photo Alone

6553 Views | 21 Comments | 0 Articles | 10/23/2015 2:31:51 PM

Don’t judge a book by its cover.  This is one saying that should be taken to heart by any foreign man seriously looking for a Chinese wife through Chinese online dating.  More specifically, do not believe right away that a woman’s photo is an “accurate” representation of her real looks, especially when she is all made up in it and in all the other photos in her profile.  Read more…

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