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Conspiracy Corner – What’s That About?

744 Views | 32 Comments | 2 Articles | 9/26/2018 4:59:31 AM

I am writing this through the eyes of a newcomer to ChinaLoveMatch and AsiaLoveMatch because I am trying to imagine how they must feel when they first encounter Conspiracy Corner. This is how I am guessing they might feel, but it is also meant as a primer on how to participate in Conspiracy Corner if you wish to, and how to ignore it if you don’t. Some people love it, others think it is a colossal waste of time. I’d love to hear in the comments below how you felt about it when you found Conspiracy Corner on a Chinese or an Asian Dating Site. Here goes – Conspiracy Corner as I imagine you might see it as a newcomer to CLM and ALM: Read more…

Online Dating Security Photos: What Value Are They On a Scam Datng Site?

1285 Views | 6 Comments | 0 Articles | 9/26/2017 2:16:12 AM

We recently received a message from a fairly new member thanking us for introducing Security Photos to him. Of course, Security Photos have an important role to play on legitimate dating sites, but they should not be relied on too much. In some situations they provide a great deal of security, but in others they provide none. Read more…

Dating and Romance Scams: The FBI and HuffPost are Getting It Half Right

1068 Views | 4 Comments | 0 Articles | 8/9/2017 1:37:06 PM

When it comes to Romance Scams on Online Dating Sites performed by third party internet scammers, or even organizations of third party internet scammers, the FBI seems to be all over it. As owner/operator of one of the very few dating sites that tries relentlessly to keep online scammers at bay, of course I am happy that the FBI is taking an interest in this at all. Read more…

China Love Match Messages Missing: Check Your Spam Box

918 Views | 3 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/11/2017 10:51:00 AM

As most of you already know, on China Love Match we pride ourselves on providing good service. However, recently we've had a few issues with members not receiving our emails even though they have verified their addresses with us, which means their own email providers should be accepting our messages into their Inboxes. But it seems that a number of email providers have now started taking it upon themselves to block messages even though the recipient has clearly indicated they wish to receive them. Read more…

Valentine’s Day: Impress Your New Asian or Chinese Love

2319 Views | 16 Comments | 0 Articles | 2/11/2017 12:46:48 PM

On our members are at many different stages of relationship with their Chinese or Western partners. Maybe you met your new Chinese woman or Western man a few days ago here on the ALM or CLM dating site, and you’re just starting to get into a serious romance. It is equally possible you met your true love months or even years ago on one of our sites, and you’ve already started living together; perhaps you’re already married. Or you could be anywhere in between those two extremes. Read more…

My Take on New to Chinese Dating - Need Help Forum Thread

3771 Views | 37 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/16/2016 3:46:35 AM

Recently a new member posted a thread on the Forum in which he expressed concerns on a number of items, but specifically was concerned that he had messaged one member twice and so far not received a reply. He originally sent it as a letter to CLM, but we suggested he post a thread in order to get a broader range of responses. This blog is my in response to that thread, which you can find here: Read more…

If One Member is Cheating on a Spouse Via CLM or ALM, What Should We Do?

1232 Views | 7 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/6/2016 1:10:10 PM

Not too long ago we received a letter from a “member” of CLM complaining about behavior of his Chinese “wife”, also a member, while they were in the process of obtaining a visa for her to move to the USA to live with him. I admit that I might have had some sympathy for this person had his approach been different, but the approach basically set me off. I am interested in readers’ thoughts on how you might have handled the situation differently. Thanks for any comments. Read more…

Let’s Chat About ChinaLoveMatch Video Chat

1065 Views | 1 Comments | 0 Articles | 11/26/2016 2:13:08 PM

When you are dating Chinese women or Western men online, being able to video chat with them becomes essential at some point, both to assure yourself that she or he is the person they sya they are in their profile photos, and so you can spend time seriously getting to know each other. Read more…

Meet OrgasmDonor, an Ex ChinaLoveMatch Member

2518 Views | 11 Comments | 0 Articles | 9/9/2016 12:25:16 AM

We recently received two messages from a new member with the username of ORGASMDONOR. Yes, he wrote that name in CAPS and he got away with that username because the Chinese employee who approved it didn't get what it meant. You be the judge as to whether our reaction was appropriate coming from a Chinese dating site intended for Chinese women and Western men seeking life partners and/or marriage. Read more…

Chinese Dating Sites - What About the Women?

2562 Views | 15 Comments | 0 Articles | 9/1/2016 10:28:57 PM
We recently received a message from a member of CLM asking about the number of Chinese women on CLM, why he is not getting much interest and why there don't seem to be many young Chinese women here. I have posted it below along with my response. I thought the discussion might be of interest to the men as a whole, and I am also interested in receiving member's thoughts on the subject too. Read more…
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