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China Love Match Messages Missing: Check Your Spam Box

207 Views | 3 Comments | 0 Articles | 5/11/2017 10:51:00 AM

As most of you already know, on China Love Match we pride ourselves on providing good service. However, recently we've had a few issues with members not receiving our emails even though they have verified their addresses with us, which means their own email providers should be accepting our messages into their Inboxes. But it seems that a number of email providers have now started taking it upon themselves to block messages even though the recipient has clearly indicated they wish to receive them. Read more…

Valentine’s Day: Impress Your New Asian or Chinese Love

1343 Views | 16 Comments | 0 Articles | 2/11/2017 12:46:48 PM

On our members are at many different stages of relationship with their Chinese or Western partners. Maybe you met your new Chinese woman or Western man a few days ago here on the ALM or CLM dating site, and you’re just starting to get into a serious romance. It is equally possible you met your true love months or even years ago on one of our sites, and you’ve already started living together; perhaps you’re already married. Or you could be anywhere in between those two extremes. Read more…

My Take on New to Chinese Dating - Need Help Forum Thread

2049 Views | 37 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/16/2016 3:46:35 AM

Recently a new member posted a thread on the Forum in which he expressed concerns on a number of items, but specifically was concerned that he had messaged one member twice and so far not received a reply. He originally sent it as a letter to CLM, but we suggested he post a thread in order to get a broader range of responses. This blog is my in response to that thread, which you can find here: Read more…

If One Member is Cheating on a Spouse Via CLM or ALM, What Should We Do?

623 Views | 7 Comments | 0 Articles | 12/6/2016 1:10:10 PM

Not too long ago we received a letter from a “member” of CLM complaining about behavior of his Chinese “wife”, also a member, while they were in the process of obtaining a visa for her to move to the USA to live with him. I admit that I might have had some sympathy for this person had his approach been different, but the approach basically set me off. I am interested in readers’ thoughts on how you might have handled the situation differently. Thanks for any comments. Read more…

Let’s Chat About ChinaLoveMatch Video Chat

541 Views | 1 Comments | 0 Articles | 11/26/2016 2:13:08 PM

When you are dating Chinese women or Western men online, being able to video chat with them becomes essential at some point, both to assure yourself that she or he is the person they sya they are in their profile photos, and so you can spend time seriously getting to know each other. Read more…

Meet OrgasmDonor, an Ex ChinaLoveMatch Member

1517 Views | 10 Comments | 0 Articles | 9/9/2016 12:25:16 AM

We recently received two messages from a new member with the username of ORGASMDONOR. Yes, he wrote that name in CAPS and he got away with that username because the Chinese employee who approved it didn't get what it meant. You be the judge as to whether our reaction was appropriate coming from a Chinese dating site intended for Chinese women and Western men seeking life partners and/or marriage. Read more…

Chinese Dating Sites - What About the Women?

1634 Views | 15 Comments | 0 Articles | 9/1/2016 10:28:57 PM
We recently received a message from a member of CLM asking about the number of Chinese women on CLM, why he is not getting much interest and why there don't seem to be many young Chinese women here. I have posted it below along with my response. I thought the discussion might be of interest to the men as a whole, and I am also interested in receiving member's thoughts on the subject too. Read more…

Black Bra - Size 38C

1306 Views | 11 Comments | 0 Articles | 7/26/2016 1:26:47 PM

I was already thinking of throwing a "doing business in China" oriented blog in here, and then a friend sent me this and I decided that this was more to the point than what I had planned on writing. You need to pay very careful attention to this because there is an important point here that everyone planning to start doing business in China or with Chinese businessmen must understand. It is also relevant often enough in negotiating your future with the Chinese woman you are dating and considering as your life partner. Read more…

About Online Asian and Chinese Dating Scammers

1388 Views | 3 Comments | 0 Articles | 6/20/2016 9:21:17 AM

Asian and Chinese internet dating is, like all online dating, rife with people trying to disengage you from your cash through various forms of internet scams. We try to protect you from these people and one of our best lines of defence is member reporting which we highly encourage. Unlike most dating sites who simply pretend sammers don't exist, we investigate every report and it is one of the best tools we have for getting rid of these people who are at best a waste of your time and at worst extremely vile criminals.  Read more…

Here Comes 2016: What Are Your Priorities?

859 Views | 3 Comments | 0 Articles | 1/1/2016 12:44:32 AM

We had a fuzzy end to the year as a few of the bloggers (myself included) went to war. And a few members chipped in. Luckily sanity prevailed and everything settled on a good note. Perhaps it was a blessing in disguise as it maybe reminded us in the end that there are many things more important for us to spend our time and efforts on than whether or not a blogger’s choice of topics or writing style suits us. All the people who contributed to those few days of folly are good people with good intentions, so it shows how easily we can lose our common sense and do silly things or fail to do the right thing as a result. Read more…

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