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Barry from Australia is a questioning soul who looks at social issues from an alternative point of view and instead of asking, “Why?”, he asks “Why not?” He’s convinced that many of his previous incarnations were spent in China. He feels drawn to the people there; attracted by their rich culture and way of life. If given one wish from God, he’d reply, “I want everyone on Earth to be the same colour, speak the same language, and treat each other as they themselves would like to be treated.”
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We're born alone. We die alone.    

By Barry Pittman
28686 Views | 254 Comments | 5/19/2016 4:02:07 PM
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#2016-05-21 15:13:25 by Barry1 @Barry1

@anonymous14945

I agree with John! I am a Chinese woman, but I am not sure if I can treat my boyfriend like Tina did, all she did for you Barry, because she loves you deeply!

I'M A LITTLE CONFUSED HERE.

YOU SAID YOU COULD NOT TREAT YOUR BOYFRIEND AS TINA DID.

BUT THEN YOU SAID THAT YOU BELIEVE TINA LOVES ME DEEPLY?

If you love her, why can you wait for her retired?

THIS IS ANOTHER 3 YEARS, A LONG TIME MAYBE

You want to leave her teach in other city because that a little more money?

I WAS HOPING TO GET A LOT MORE MONEY, NOT JUST A LITTLE MORE

Accordint to your blog, Tina has a good life, she wants a partner near her, not that a little money. After all the things she did for you, you wanted to leave her because you want to make more money!

YOU MENTIONED ALL THE THINGS THAT TINA DID FOR ME.

BUT WHAT ABOUT ALL THE THINGS I DID FOR HER?

I LEFT MY NICE NEW HOME IN AUSTRALIA, TO COME AND LIVE IN A SMALL APARTMENT IN CHINA. THEN TO WORK IN A STRANGE JOB I HAD NEVER DONE BEFORE.

I HAVE NO REGRETS AT DOING THIS AND WOULD DO IT AGAIN..

I JUST WANT TO MAKE THE POINT THOUGH THAT I SACRIFICED A LOT, TO BE WITH DEAR TINA

Have you realized why Tina is so heartbroken to leave you?!

TINA IS HEARTBROKEN?

THEN WHY DID SHE DO THIS TO ME?

You use a lot words to say how you want a partner but you chose a peanut over a diamond!

I SAID I WORK FOR PEANUTS.

THE UNIVERSITY JOB HERE PAYS PEANUTS, WHICH MEANS VERY LITTLE MONEY

I WAS HOPING TO EARN MORE MONEY SOMEWHERE ELSE, SO I COULD THEN GIVE BOTH TINA AND I A BETTER, RICHER WAY OF LIFE.

MANY THANKS FOR YOUR COMMENTS, MY SISTER, THAT I DO APPRECIATE AND VALUE. (clap)(clap)

#2016-05-21 22:17:14 by anonymous14952 @anonymous14952

Barry no sad please
I don't know, do you want to attract more people to see your blog, or another attempt??
Tina did not separate with you, she was very sad.
She told you to fall in love for many years, you can not give her to get married, you do not give her a better result. Are you a man?
You wrote, you can see, Tina angry, she did not know how many years to separate with you.
I hope you can think of better results for you and Tina.
blessing

#2016-05-21 23:43:34 by anonymous14953 @anonymous14953

Barry, Tina more than likely reads these blogs, she is on this site again she will read..don't you think?

I just want to say with Tina you have a love, romance, adventure and amazing woman in your life, most of us never get to experience these feelings in our whole lives, especially the feeling of being totally in love with, being totally loved by a woman. I would "kill" to have this in my life just once.

You just bought a nice house with some land, let Tina know that once she retires you and her have a lovely home to retire to in Australia or you can spend divided times in each place, she needn't worry about shelter, everyday needs etc.

Do you want this wonderful woman in your life forever or do you want this woman gone from your life forever? Only you can truly answer this....

"if you want her then do whatever it takes"

Cheers...

#2016-05-22 14:12:35 by Barry1 @Barry1

@anonymous14952

Barry no sad please

THANK YOU, @ANONYMOUS14952

I don't know, do you want to attract more people to see your blog, or another attempt??

I WOULD PREFER ANOTHER ATTEMPT WITH TINA, IF THIS WAS POSSIBLE

Tina did not separate with you, she was very sad.

TINA ASKED ME TO LEAVE. SHE WAS QUITE CLEAR IN HER WORDS

She told you to fall in love for many years, you can not give her to get married, you do not give her a better result.

THIS WAS COMING. WE NEEDED MORE TIME.

Are you a man?

YES, I AM THE MAN WHO LEFT MY NICE NEW HOUSE IN CLEAN AIR AUSTRALIA TO LIVE IN A TINY APARTMENT IN A POLLUTED CITY IN CHINA TO BE WITH TINA

You wrote, you can see, Tina angry, she did not know how many years to separate with you.

I AGREE THAT MORE COMMUNICATION BETWEEN TINA AND I WAS NECESSARY. BUT IT IS TOO LATE NOW UNFORTUNATELY.

I hope you can think of better results for you and Tina.

YES, I HOPE THAT ALL IS NOT TOTALLY LOST BETWEEN TINA AND I

blessing

MANY BLESSING TO YOU ALSO, YOUNG SISTER MEI MEI (f)(sun)(f)

#2016-05-22 14:47:14 by Barry1 @Barry1

@anonymous14953

Barry, Tina more than likely reads these blogs, she is on this site again she will read..don't you think?

YES, I THINK YOU'RE CORRECT.

I just want to say with Tina you have a love, romance, adventure and amazing woman in your life, most of us never get to experience these feelings in our whole lives, especially the feeling of being totally in love with, being totally loved by a woman. I would "kill" to have this in my life just once.

AT ONE STAGE TINA AND I LOVED EACH OTHER DEEPLY. BUT SADLY IT SEEMS THAT A DIVIDE CREPT IN BETWEEN US. A SEPARATION. LOOKING BACK, I RECOGNISE THAT MUCH OF THIS WAS MY FAULT. I SHOULD HAVE SHOWN MORE LOVE AND ATTENTION, NOT BECOME SO BLASE AND INATTENTIVE.

You just bought a nice house with some land, let Tina know that once she retires you and her have a lovely home to retire to in Australia or you can spend divided times in each place, she needn't worry about shelter, everyday needs etc.

THIS IS CORRECT. TINA AND I COULD HAVE HAD A GOOD LIFE WHEN SHE RETIRES. THIS IS ESPECIALLY IMPORTANT GIVEN THAT WENDY HER DAUGHTER WILL SOON BE LIVING IN AUSTRALIA AS AN OVERSEAS STUDENT. SO IT MAKES GOOD SENSE FOR TINA TO HAVE AN AUSTRALIAN PARTNER.

Do you want this wonderful woman in your life forever or do you want this woman gone from your life forever? Only you can truly answer this....

THE BALL IS NOW IN TINA'S COURT. IT IS HER CALL, HER DECISION.

WHATEVER HAPPENS BETWEEN US THOUGH, I WILL ACCEPT AND WILL ALWAYS BE EXTREMELY THANKFUL FOR THE GOOD TIMES THAT WE HAD SHARED TOGETHER. I WILL ALWAYS BLESS TINA AND WISH HER WELL.

"if you want her then do whatever it takes"

I APPRECIATE THE GOOD ADVICE AND THE CARING SENTIMENT YOU'VE SHOWN TO ME. MAYBE WITH A LITTLE TIME, THINGS WILL CHANGE; WOUNDS WILL HEAL. TIME CAN CAUSE FLOWERS TO GROW WHERE ONCE THERE WAS ONLY ARID DIRT.

IN ANY CASE, MUCH GOOD FORTUNE TO YOU ALSO, MY FRIEND. (y)(y)

#2016-05-22 22:18:02 by Anniehow @Anniehow

Barry, I am sorry it ended this way. Every relationship with this duration deserves a proper closure so that both parties can decide whether to move on or invest in more efforts.

On a side note, intuition is oddly accurate oftentimes. It is better to let things and people go if it is not meant to be.

#2016-05-23 15:07:25 by Barry1 @Barry1

@Anniehow

"intuition is oddly accurate oftentimes. It is better to let things and people go if it is not meant to be"

Nihao Annie.

As one of the very smartest people on this website, I both respect and appreciate your words.

It will take several months to fully digest everything that's happened.

My profile is reactivated but I have no particular intention to jump into a new relationship quickly.

One lady wrote to me just a day or two ago asking if given everything that has occurred, if I could love someone again. This was part of my reply to her. The words accurately describe my current thoughts.

My very best wishes to you, Annie, I wish I was twenty years younger. :)



"I don't believe I will love another person for a long time. But maybe I can be best friends with someone?

At my age, maybe I don't even believe in love anyway? Maybe love is for young people, full of passion, high hopes and surging hormones?

So now I now am looking for a best friend. I am not searching hard nor expecting to find love.

I think if I can live with someone who treats me with kindness and respect, then I would do the same to them. I think this is reasonable.

If someone is waiting for unfettered love, then maybe they will need to wait a very long time. The problem is also, love can fade. But friendship often goes on and on......"


#2016-05-23 23:01:23 by anonymous14967 @anonymous14967

Barry, just a thought but do you or have you thought that maybe she actually read your blogs before she made her decision to end the relationship with you? You always said she never reads them and did not care what you posted or wrote about, maybe she actually did care? Thoughts...?

I feel as though Tina may have some difficulty in garnering interest in her profile as most men her know she was your woman for over 2 years and they respect that. Possibly you might run into the same situation from the women here on this site as they know you as Tina's man for the last 2 years...

Chinese women want a commitment from their men plain and simple, they will not wait around while we "think" about it, they will cut us loose quicker than you can flip a pancake if they feel we are not going to fully commit. Since they have (like most women) the ability to be cold as ice even though they may be dying inside, men for the most part do not know how to handle this and we wear our hearts on our sleeves.

My Dad once gave me advice about women.."if you love them with all your heart then fight for them, earn their trust, love them like no other..."

Cheers mate...(beer)

#2016-05-25 12:11:26 by Barry1 @Barry1

@anonymous14967

Barry, just a thought but do you or have you thought that maybe she actually read your blogs before she made her decision to end the relationship with you? You always said she never reads them and did not care what you posted or wrote about, maybe she actually did care? Thoughts...?

I THINK TINA IS READING THEM NOW BECAUSE I'VE RECEIVED SOME FLAK FROM HER UNFORTUNATELY OVER WRITING THIS ONE.

BUT I DON'T THINK SHE READ THEM PREVIOUSLY, ALTHOUGH FROM TIME TO TIME SHE DID GLANCE OVER THE PICTURES.


I feel as though Tina may have some difficulty in garnering interest in her profile as most men her know she was your woman for over 2 years and they respect that. Possibly you might run into the same situation from the women here on this site as they know you as Tina's man for the last 2 years...

MY BELIEF IS ONLY ABOUT FIVE PER CENT OF PEOPLE HERE WOULD BOTHER TO SPEND MORE THAN A MINUTE OR TWO, OCCASIONALLY FLICKING SUPERFICIALLY OVER THE BLOG PAGES OF THIS WEBSITE.

THUS I THINK NEITHER TINA NOR I WILL SUFFER ANY SERIOUS OR SUBSTANTIAL EFFECTS FROM MY BLOG SERIES.

IF JOHN ABBOTT, THE EDITOR OF THESE BLOGS, HAS TIME TO COMMENT ON THIS POINT, I'M SURE BOTH TINA AND I WOULD BE INTERESTED.

Chinese women want a commitment from their men plain and simple, they will not wait around while we "think" about it, they will cut us loose quicker than you can flip a pancake if they feel we are not going to fully commit. Since they have (like most women) the ability to be cold as ice even though they may be dying inside, men for the most part do not know how to handle this and we wear our hearts on our sleeves.

I CAN CONFIRM WHAT YOU'VE WRITTEN ABOVE IS PRECISELY CORRECT. YOU'RE A WISE AND SMART MAN, MY FRIEND.

My Dad once gave me advice about women.."if you love them with all your heart then fight for them, earn their trust, love them like no other..."

YES, THIS SOUNDS GOOD ON PAPER, YET REALITY IS REALITY UNFORTUNATELY. THINGS HAPPEN. PEOPLE CAN SLOWLY DRIFT APART, THROUGH NO FAULT OF THEIR OWN.

IS IT REALLY POSSIBLE FOR EXAMPLE, TO LOVE SOMEONE WITH ALL YOUR HEART, FOR FIVE, TEN OR TWENTY YEARS? I SAY NO, THIS ISN'T HUMANLY POSSIBLE. I THINK AFTER THE INITIAL EXCITEMENT FADES AFTER SAY, ONE, TWO OR THREE YEARS, THE INTENSE PASSION CHANGES TO SOMETHING LESS EXCITING BUT ARGUABLY MORE ENDURING, SUCH AS PROFOUND FRIENDSHIP, TOLERANCE AND RESPECT. BUT THIS ISN'T THE SAME AS INTENSE LOVE WITH ALL YOUR HEART OR LOVING THEM LIKE NO OTHER, WHICH I ASSUME MEANS THE SAME THING.

SO WITH THE GREATEST OF RESPECT TO YOU DAD, I DON'T THINK WHAT HE SAID WAS DOABLE OVER THE LONG TERM. :^)

Cheers mate...

CHEERS TO YOU ALSO. (beer)(beer)(beer)

#2016-05-26 15:50:22 by JohnAbbot @JohnAbbot

@Barry1 - about 10% of members are very regular readers of the blogs & forum. About another 15% come and go. I think only the 10% who are regulars will develop any feelings one way or another towards wishing to date either you or Tina (or not) based on your blogs. In Tina's case I would venture to guess almost all of that 10% will lean towards wanting to date her because of the manner in which you described her so attractively through out your posts.

In your case though I think about 8% likely won't be able to get past that horrible picture you painted in their minds about shit being everywhere. I am just saying...

Sorry Barry, I couldn't resist that one last chance at a little poke at your "shitty story".

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