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By John Abbot
129179 Views | 41 Comments | 4/6/2012 12:46:33 AM
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#2012-08-20 01:00:41 by anonymous4122 @anonymous4122

I would like to tell you about my experiences with

I did not initially realize that it was a scam and I did communicate with several women on the site who were all gorgeous and seductive in one way or another.

I went to China in April, 2012 and met 5 of them. None of them looked like their photos. If you passed them on the street you would never recognize them from their photos. None of them looked gorgeous and that is being very kind.

What I realized is that the women go to a make-over studio where they are beautified and given very colorful and alluring clothes. Then there is a photo shoot. All the photos are photo-shopped to make them look more attractive. All imperfections are removed, they are made to look younger, and finally they are made to look trim and fit.

It was very disappointing to meet someone who in the photos looked young, trim, and fit only to find that in reality that she is 20 years older in appearance and fat.

I must say though that the women are of good quality and otherwise sincere and honest. They did not think that they were trying to deceive. If I had not felt that I had been deceived then I might have had a relationship with at least one of these women.

There is more to the story. All my letters and the women's letters go through a translator who works for an independent company which in turn is contracted with Asianbeauties. The more translations they do, the more money they make. So often I would receive 2 letters from a woman on the same day. I did not realize that one of the letters was fake.

In one instance with regard to a woman I met, I found out that all the initial letters were fabrications of the translator and did not come from the woman. Many of the facts that were given to me were blatantly false such as number of children, parents alive or deceased, type of work, etc.

Once I decided to meet this woman, she was contacted by the translator and told that she could have my letters if she paid a fee equivalent to $4,000 USD. She paid this fee. I did not find out about this until I met the women.

I also found out that after exchanging 5 letters and deciding to meet, that suddenly the woman would be out of town or unable to meet. This led me to the conclusion that these women were fake and equivalent to a scammer on this site.

So beware of Asianbeauties. I wish there was a way to shut them down and save a lot of people, both men and women, from being scammed.

#2012-08-22 19:09:49 by Andypanda @Andypanda

I can add my name to the list of men who fell for more than a few beauties on Asian beauties. I eventually narrowed my search down to one lady. I must say I was suspicious of this site very early on because of the outrageous costs. But love can make you very blind (or gullible). I had joined two other sites at the same time. This one CLM and another site that operates in a similar platform. I have the highest regard for these two sites.

I do have one positive thing to say about this Asian beauties site, well actually it is about the woman I chose not even the site. I was falling hard for her and I was well and truly hooked by her. So I put it to her and told her that I was a widow ,my wife had passed away and I begged her to be honest with me. If you are not genuine please tell me because my heart could not take the pain if you are lying. To her credit she stopped messaging me within a day.

Hurtful ,yes, but for the best. I have now found a genuine beauty who I plan to marry next year. I stay on here CLM for the information and blogs. A BIG thank you to CLM and the other good site for being in this game for the right reasons.

Gan bie

#2012-09-03 10:32:21 by LuvIsArose @LuvIsArose

Hi , I am new to this great web site and just about ready to upgrade. But I was using another web site called ; ChnLove Date. I have met some really nice ladies. I also want to China after exchanging letters and after using the International or English version of QQ with a woman I was with for 8 months. It works very well, after you have a good feeling for each other. But recently I met another man who told me that he talked with a woman he met and then had a QQ conversation with her. She basically said a lot of it was fake. Here is a copy of that chat from QQ. My friend from Canada, sent it to me. I wanted to see if anyone has a similar experience with that dating web site. Thanks James
26 Chong 7:27;55
If you truly exist why do you not see me on Web-cam
are you willing to see me on Web-cam?
26 Chong 7:28:03 AM
yes, i am not true. i just worked for Chnlove
George 7:28:14 AM
you are not really who you say you are
26 Chong 7:28:32 AM
I quit-ed the job already so just be careful for others
George 7:28:41 AM
the pictures are not really you. Is that correct?
26 Chong 7:28:55 AM
i am not sure they are real or not
George 7:28:50 AM
other photographs of you?
26 Chong 7:29:09 AM

#2012-12-15 02:03:48 by TJH @TJH

First and foremost xie xie ni

This site CLM is a true God send. It is affordable and real. A real site with real people and intentions. I am the dumb guy that spent thousands on the asianbeauties (AB) site and have even been to china before. Of course when it comes time to actually meet the lady that you have been chatting with for so long it is heart breaking to have here 'just disappear ' which was my case. I discovered this site and said it could not be any worse than the AB so I gave it a try and hit a home run my first at bat. To any one that has been to the AB site there is a sure fire way to get the truth.
Send them a photo of you that is not posted and tell the lady to print it and take a photo of them self holding the photo. You will get so many excuses it will amaze you. The best are I do not have a camera, ha so they have no call phone. It just took me to long to figure it out. I was able to get the lady my QQ number by sending :) faces and having her count the number on each line.
I would get more excuses as to why it was not working or even better that they did not know what QQ was. For those in the US QQ is Chinese Facebook on steroids and every one over there know about it.
Bottom line, stay away from AB it is poison and a Russian scam.

I leave for China on the 16dec to meet my wife. She saw my profile and she sent me a message, we have been chatting and video chatting on. Skype for many weeks now. Today she said that fishes fell in love at first sight with me I am thankfully for CLM and the good work that you people do here.


#2013-01-22 11:00:48 by anonymous5304 @anonymous5304

Hi... I joined your site to have a look at what you were all saying about these girls being genuine... one of the first girls I found on your site was wearing a "Wedding Ring" - Go Figure!!!! A site who has to run down another site to promote their own site is not worth being a member of... so I cancelled my membership and will find a BETTER site to join

#2013-01-29 20:55:51 by FreeWillyBN @FreeWillyBN

Something more about AsianBeauties,
the ladies there can write chat invitations to all online men at the same time and can even use a placeholder for the name so that it seems that they write special to you. The Agency of this girls write mostly Introducing letters in name of the girls to encourage men to write back, even the girl don't know about. On this site it's only about money and there's nothing serious and it's sad for the girls who really searching for a foreign partner.
One thing is also curious, the knowledge of the English level in the profiles are statements of the women themselves, without any proof. I made the experience, that even Intermediate level of English means, they can say Hello and GoodBye :)))

This site is similiar with and, it's on all sites the same and men as honest woman will be ripped off. So take your hands off from this sites and use some like ALM :))

Sincerely, Wil

#2013-03-06 00:23:52 by zhendajiba @zhendajiba

Oh - what shame !!!
Asian -low life scum !!!!!!!!!! And that is their GOOD points !

I got hooked - stupid me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

What a JOKE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

STAY AWAY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Dont ask why - just do your research here (10m secs) and I will beround to cooka

#2013-04-09 16:16:50 by anonymous5944 @anonymous5944

Yes I agree with all the above comments, I wish I had found CLM before now, AsianBeauties is a rip off. I stayed the course, not knowing any better. I found one girl, we chatted and emailed, on the site itself.

I tried to keep it to a minimum but I was so taken by the girl. We arranged to meet without using the website, flight details etc. She would collect me by car at the airport, whch she did. The problem was she didn't speak a word of english, had an interpreter with her from you guest it, Asian Beauties which I kept for the first day, cost me a fortune.

Met the girl the next day, we struggled but managed....she was always busy, turning up late, it got really frustrating that this person I had travelled so far to see wasn't with me hardly at all. I gave up in the end and spent most of my two weeks alone......

And there's no point in complaining to Asian Beauties because they always had an excuse.........wouldn't touch them with a barge pole!

#2013-04-23 23:08:33 by Peteg @Peteg

Listen up, I'm not banging on about Asian damn beauties you have heard it all before! But, and it has cost me a lot of money to arrive at this, and this is my way of hitting someone! I have recently discovered that if you click on Google and open 'images' then you can cut a picture of your prospective 'hooker' who is declaring undying love after 3 letters (using windows 8 snipping tool or an editing package) drag it, and drop it into the window that opens in Google, and by magic an amazing amount of information is offered to you. This is brilliant! It will compare the picture and search the internet for any site in any language that has referenced that picture before, scam sites, model directories scam site listed all the letters from one lovely (who contacted me), to her recent prey. It was precisely the same picture she sent to me. My Chinese lovely was a Vietnamese hooker! I was mortified.
I found I have recently corresponded to a Chinese model and ex athlete and a second fashion model. Maybe its me (Nasty Brit) but I get satisfaction from sending them their pics back and letting them know they are blown. Wasting 'their time' is also good! If there is no information about the pic its better but not necessarily good.

Also; analyse the email header (Outlook-options-lower right arrow-copy and paste) that is sent to you not via CLM

Then look at the 'date sent'. On the RHS is a number which represents the time difference between say China and the UK it will say -7 (7 hours) when this remarkably drops to -1 its not because of some violent intercontinental seismic event, its because it came from somewhere nearer like Ghana (scumbag heaven) and the GUY who wrote it was probably eating a roast rat at the time. He also won't have a web cam and Oh yes he lost his phone.

If this interests anyone I will feel so much better! My money will be well spent. No luck yet, its only been a month but still trying on CLM! Just had a reply from a stunner. Attractive aren't they?


#2013-05-02 05:27:19 by Fuyao2531 @Fuyao2531


Your post had cleared my confusion on the site. because I did find many gorgerous ladies on there, I am chinese myself, but I hadn't never seen this much beautiful ladies when I was in China. Most of the ladies that I knew are okay or meh looking.

at first when I see the pictures, I was delighted to learn that I could know these much beautiful ladiesm, I spent many hours browsing the site. When I googled for asian beauties, I found this blog post saying they are scams, but I still don't know where are those picture coming from. They certainly are not models or their picture would be all over the internet, until I read your post.

So is a site that scams both the ladies and the guys that is looking for love. They scam the ladies by acting as an agency talking the girl into joining the site, ask them to pay a fee to join, if they don't act like this, the ladies probably would not join. Of course, for us guys, we pay tons of money to talk to the ladies. That is how asianbeauties earn the money, I guess.

The pictures on it are real and taken by asianbeauties(most of the ladies are wearing the same set of clothes), but the site is not. One more thing that I found strange. One I wrote two letter to two of the ladies, and later the site notified me the letters had been read, the time stamp of the two letters being read are 4 seconds apart!! How is that even possible? Probably by the same person.

I hope I meet those ladies on CLM

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