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我出世在一个美丽的国家,经历了动荡的时代和历史的变迁,终于回到了祖国。当岁月积淀女人的智慧与理性,我终于剥下华丽与虚荣,学会积累生活和人生的体悟,我在这里与大家分享生活的心灵感悟,感悟人生的真谛。I was born in a beautiful country, Vietnam, and lived through the turbulent era and the history of changes, then finally returned to the Mother China. With years of accumulated wisdom and feminine rationality,I finally peeled off the gorgeous and vanity. I am here to share with you inspiration, love, hope and thankfulness and their role in understanding the depth and true meaning of life.
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Love Has No Life Span, No Limit - 爱情没有寿命,没有极限    

By Xin73
11292 Views | 32 Comments | 9/7/2012 1:26:34 PM

First order - Everyone knows that a worthy of love and is not very easy to find, the world is so big, sometimes people might take years of time, even decades of time to look for this person, this look for of the process is very hard, which can also have trouble, grief, lose, hesitate,once you find don't give up easily. And in this article: wish CLM all members, The lovers finally got married!

The life is alive, love depends on fate, fate come and go, not necessarily need shall be investigated for who is right and who is wrong. Love and do not love and who can say clearly? The true love is a kind of persevering long and stable emotion, and only time is the touchstone of the love, only extraordinary and refined love can withstand the test of time. Therefore, if we met a stand the test of time love, be sure not to miss, that may be your life is difficult to meet a true love. If we love each other, then will learn to love,stick to love, cherish the love, "I grasped your hand " changes to pledge for each other's happiness.

Some fate is doomed to lose, some fate is never have the result, love a person do not necessarily have to have. If you love the people to give up you,please let go of yourself, let own have the opportunity to love others. Some things you again like will not belong to you,Some things you nostalgia also destined to give up. In life there are many kinds of love, but don't let love become a kind of hurt. If you really love a person, but can't guard mutually, You have to remember: love a person is not certain to get. Let go, and watch each other's happiness, is also a kind of true love.

True love should be tolerant and understanding. Love is not a possession, not pay how many can get much equivalent exchange. Sometimes we taste the bitterness of lost love, Need to understand that letting go is also a kind of love. only in this way, you will not for their own persistent confusion, not for their own delusion painful, can really get affordable, to put next. Only in this way, when you meet the birds and fish story, to be able to grateful the love of the beautiful, and not to cannot be together and sad pain.

This is an sentimental story, the bird and fish is the main protagonist.

There is a fish live in the sea, it is every day constantly swim to swim. One day, There was a stray birds fly over the sea above, It is very tired, It is looking for a piece of land in the sea, the fish in the water feel surface light becomes some dim, looked up at the sky, So, fish and bird's eye interweave together. Lonely fish and stray birds each other deeply attract each other.

The bird told the fish about the vast sky, about the vast land, fish tell to birds to describe the deep ocean, They open a door for each other unknown yet colorful window; they also have a lot of common topics: each morning's clouds at dawn. every evening sunset, every night the stars, every minute in the air the taste, the trees, the land, the sea, Spring, Summer, Autumn, Winter...... They deeply love each other. After so long, they think this lifetime so together, the birds can forget flying sky, the fish can forget to swim across the seabed.

Who says the fish and bird can not be together?

One day, the birds see other birds fly, it remember of the sky, it asked whether fish would like to feel the wind with it from the side through freedom, fish look at oneself fin didn't speak. and one day, fish in order to avoid the storm, diving deep into the water, in the sun again, it excitedly asked whether the birds see water coral beauty, birds can only look at sparkled in the water wry smile.

They know the birds and fish is not together, Although love each other, but the fish, after all, is to live in the water, and the birds flying in the sky. birds eventually left the sea, and never came back, it does not know, fish is also no longer return to this piece of the sea, They are carefully avoid that the past, that birds and fish story.

In our life, have predestined relationship cognition and love each other is happiness, but not every love will have a happy ending. Causal metempsychosis, and the earthly restrictions, We always see some of the sad end of love. Cupid's arrow let our love is have gotten , and take root germination. However, only loyal love is not enough. life was be doomed the love tribulation. Just like that birds and fish story, Although they can't mutually guard life, but they once had love each other deeply.

I believe in love, and desire to love, but I can't put the efficacy of love too exaggerated. even the most sincere love to finally be attributable to the dull, passion warm love can't mutually guard a life, or the impossible love of a life-long full passion. I want to learn from the most ordinary life to feel love, to cherish love. and not in vain to pursue never destroy passion. The warm and sweet, eventually arrived but mutually guard life the insipid quiet. Life is too short, load don't move too much demand, only attributable to the plain, can be savored the details of love.

If you can and own lover, in sunset glow under depend on each other and hand in hand to see floating clouds, to see wandering fallen leaves; In the wind and rain to face them together of lofty sentiments . this true not the greatest happiness in the world?

Postscript: I am with the extremely chaotic mood to finish this article, do not know the contents of the article is the explanation for others, or self-comforting? birds and fish can't never together but love each other deeply,as a senior animal human us,in the vast world acquaintance to mutually love, why don't know each other cherish the hard-won fate?

Not everyone has the fate, also not every one can take to find fate. Life is too many unknowns, an idea, a decision, often may have or miss a fate.

When you walked into my blog to see this article, hope you can understand my mood.


爱情没有寿命,没有极限

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每个人都知道,一个值得爱的人并不是很容易找到,大千世界又是那么的大,有时候人们可能要花费几年的时间,甚至是几十年的时间来寻找这个人,这个寻找的过程是很辛苦,这其中也会有烦恼,忧愁,彷徨,失落,一旦找到后千万不要轻易放弃。谨以此文:祝愿CLM所有会员有情人终成眷属!

人生在世,爱情全仗缘分,缘来缘去,不一定需要追究谁对谁错。爱与不爱又有谁可以说得清?所谓真正的爱情是一种持之以恒的长久而稳定的情感,而唯有时间才是爱情的试金石,唯有超凡脱俗的爱才能经得起时间的考验。因此,如果我们遇到了一份经得住时间考验的爱情,一定不要错过,那可能是你一生难遇一次的真爱。如果我们相爱了,那么就要学会爱,坚守爱,珍惜爱,把“与子偕老”的誓言化为相守的幸福。

有些缘分是注定要注定失去的,有些缘分是永远都不会有好结果的,爱一个人不一定要拥有。如果你爱的人放弃了你,请放开自己,好让自己有机会爱别人。有的东西你再喜欢也不会属于你的,有的东西你再留恋也注定要放弃的,人生中有许多种爱,但别让爱成为一种伤害。如果你真的爱一个人,却无法相守,你要记住:爱一个人并不是一定要得到。放开手,守望对方的幸福,也是一种真爱。

真爱应该保持宽容和理解,爱情不是占有,也不是付出多少就能得到多少的等价交换,有的时候我们品尝到失去爱人的苦涩,需要明白放手也是一种爱。只有这样,你才能不为自己的执着所困惑,不为自己的妄念所痛苦,才能真正的拿得起、放得下。只有这样,当你遇到飞鸟与鱼的爱情时。才能感激爱情的美好,而不是为了不能在一起而伤悲痛苦。

这是一个伤情的故事,飞鸟和鱼是主角。

有一条鱼生活在一片海域里,它每天就是不停地游来游去。一天,有一只迷途的飞鸟飞过这片海域的上空,它很疲倦,底下头寻找海中的一片陆地,水里的鱼觉得水面的光线变得有些昏暗,就抬头望向天空,这样,鱼和鸟的视线交织到了一起。孤独的鱼和迷途的飞鸟深深地彼此吸引着对方。

飞鸟给鱼讲辽阔的天空,讲广袤的大地,鱼给飞鸟讲深邃的海洋,它们为彼此打开了一扇未知的却又丰富多彩的窗;他们还有很多共同的话题:每个早晨的朝霞,每个傍晚的落日,每个夜晚的星空,每分钟空气里的味道,树木的,土地的,海水的,春天的,夏天的,秋天的,冬天的。。。。。。它们彼此深深地爱者对方,就这样过了多久,它们以为此生就这样厮守,飞鸟可以忘却飞翔的天空,鱼可以忘却深潜过的海底。

谁说飞鸟和鱼就不能在一起?

一天,飞鸟看见别的鸟飞过,它想起了天空,它问鱼是否愿意和它一起感受风从身边掠过的自由,鱼看看自己的鳍没有说话;又有一天,鱼为了躲避暴风雨,深深潜入水中,在太阳重现的时候,它兴奋地问飞鸟是否看到水中珊瑚的美丽,飞鸟只能看着波光粼粼的水面苦笑。

它们知道了飞鸟与鱼是不可以在一起的,虽然彼此相爱,但是鱼终归是要生活在水里,而飞鸟是要飞翔在天空。飞鸟最终离开了那片海域,再也没有回来,它并不知道,鱼亦再没有游回这片海域,它们都在小心翼翼地躲避那段往事,那段飞鸟与鱼的故事。

在我们的生活中,有缘相识彼此相爱是幸福的,但并不是每段恋曲都会有一个美好结局。因果轮回,俗世限制,我们总会看到一些悲伤结束的爱情。丘比特之箭让我们的爱情有所着落,并且生根发芽。然而,单有钟情是不足够的,因为生活注定了爱情的磨难。就象那段飞鸟与鱼的故事,虽然它们不能相守一生,但它们曾经彼此深爱过。

我相信爱情,也渴望爱情,但我不能将爱情的功效过分夸大。即使是最真诚的爱情到了最后都会归于平淡,激情热烈的爱不能相守一生,或者说不可能一生都是激情洋溢的爱。我要学会从最平常的生活中去感受爱,去珍惜爱;而不是去徒劳地追求永远不灭的激情。热烈和甜蜜,终抵不过平淡相守一生的静谧。人生苦短,载不动太多的需求,只有归于平淡,才能细细品味爱情中的细节。

如果能和自己心爱的人,在余晖下相依携手看天边的浮云,看飘零的落叶;在风雨中一起面对的豪情,这何尝不是人世间最大的幸福呢?

后记:
我怀着无比混乱的心情写完这篇文章,不知道文章中的内容是为别人解说,还是自我安慰?飞鸟和鱼永远不可能在一起但彼此深爱过。而作为高级动物人类的我们,能在茫茫人世相知相恋,为何彼此不懂珍惜这份来之不易的缘分呢?当你走进我的博客看到这篇文章,希望你能明白我的心情。









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#2012-09-07 15:51:02 by shlshl @shlshl

无论是为他人解说还是自我表达都很精彩、!!!

#2012-09-07 16:17:32 by sisi0923 @sisi0923

写的真好,我被感动着,,,

#2012-09-07 20:30:50 by aussieghump @aussieghump

I wonder, is it enough for the bird and the fish to meet each other daily, to bask in each other's stories of wonder in their own world, but never really be able to enter each other's world?
Is it enough for the fish to dive deeper, and the bird to fly further to impress each other with tales of what the have seen?
Is it enough to just 'be' what we are but share a deep common bond?

Should a bird be forced to become a fish, or a fish a bird?

Are we really that different anyway?

#2012-09-08 03:46:08 by Tyler72 @Tyler72

Ok, at the risk of sounding... "unromantic" or turning some girls off to my line of thinking... ( if you are writing me right now and strongly disagree with what I say, just assume Im playing devils advocate and dont really belie e any of it, lol and keep writing me.. I dont want to put my digital foot too far in to my mouth!). But Im going to have to call Gou Pi (dog fart/bullschitte) on all this mushy fate crap. My parents are celebrating their 48th wedding anniversary this year and my grandparents were in love until the day they died.. If you didnt believe it, the heartbreaking look in my grandfathers eyes each time he would ask where my grandmother was and have to be retold that she died and he just didnt remember because of his alzheimers would tell you just how in love he still was with her even though she was gone... You could argue fate put them together.. But i think not.. Playing golf with my uncle is what brought my dad home to meet my mom.. I love my uncle Keith... Hes like another father to me... Lol but hes not the hand of fate.

Both my pRents and my grandparemts at different times told me what brings you together and keeps ypu together and in love and passionate about each other is just plain old hard work. There are lots of times that you just dont want to put up with your significant other's crap. They are grouchy, or pms-ing or being selfish... Or going on and on and on about some mundane issue from their work that you dont want to listen to again for the seventh time but you remind yourself... "i love this person and our relationship is important and even sacred to me and so i wil put up with all of their baggage and I will remember birthdays and anniversaries and do special things for them and take or make time to shut the world out and just be together because you want to conyinuosly feed and reignite each others passion... So many of you act like passion has to be fleeting and just accept it... You work at it.. You can build it, like a fire. You keep feeding it little pieces of kindling till it grows and becomes avraging fire and then you KEEP feeding the fire so that it never goes out. Hard work to keep a fire burning for forty or sixty years? Yeah, im sure it is but Ive seen it done.

And I dont believe you have one true love out there either and fate will bring you together if youre lucky. Bull shit! You gotta find somebody and build that relationship, feed that kindling and blow on it, lol blowing always helps the fire ;o) but the point is its still work.. Its still up to you. I dont care if you think youre traditional and think somebody is supposed to "find" you... Girl friend it doesnt work that way or you wouldnt be here.

We arent fish and birds. We are all people who can swim or fly... Or do whatever else it takes to cross the sea and cultural barriers to be together in the same world. You just have to get up and DO IT.. GAO baby, GAO!!

Not to bag on Confuscious or the tao or wherever all this fatw crap came from but T.E. Lawrence (thats Lawrence of Arabia if you didnt watch the movie)said as a rebuttle to his Muslim brothers in arms constant claims about everything being written or fated one way or another and their resignation to that, "Nothing is written but that which we write for ourselves". In other words, you make your own fate...

#2012-09-08 20:14:57 by TimG @TimG

Tyler, I think you might be missing the point.

There are practicalities in life and those practicalities do influence how love is experienced. However, love also influences practicalities and drastically impacts how life is experienced.

I have been fortunate to have felt deep love - the kind that makes people write poems, draw, and sing. I still cannot put it into words nor do I wish to. If I am fortunate again in life, I will not care whether love arrives through a practicality or through serendipity.

While I agree that there isn't simply 'one' out there, it is rare enough to be very precious indeed. However, I also think that true love's rarity is a function of the type of society the modern world has become. We are no longer masters of true love ... most of us are amateurs at best ... so much so that some no longer believe it exists.

Just my thoughts for whatever they are worth.

#2012-09-08 20:27:54 by anonymous4286 @anonymous4286

Tyler72, check this out...from Terminator 2: "The future's not set. There's no fate but what we make for ourselves." lol

#2012-09-09 03:16:22 by Tyler72 @Tyler72

Well TimG, then I wish you luck and hope the fates have woven another true love into the tapestry of your life... But I for one am going to actively seek out someone I can work hard with to build a love for ourselves an epic love to last through the ages, lol, i dont think I miss the point at all, but as was so wisely restated in T2 (nice quote Anonymous). We make that future.. My point is much of the mushy poetic love prose I see posted here ( albeit more from the ladies) seems to take a very passive role in how this love comes about, a waiting for it to happen to me instead "im going to go out and grab love with both hands and make it happen" tone. Putting yourself out there, herem on the web site is of course the first step, but you have to be proactive and follow up with the rest of the journey, make it happen...

#2012-09-09 10:32:47 by lzp120130 @lzp120130

看完文章,发觉自己热泪盈眶,经历过才能明白鱼和飞鸟的爱情

#2012-09-09 11:58:55 by xin73 @xin73

Hi shlshl & sisi0923

感谢你们的阅读和欣赏!
如果你们也喜欢哲学,应该理解我所写的内容,每一篇文章都是我所经历过某些事情之后,所感悟出的真理。这篇文章是我最近经历一段感情让我无法释怀之下,由感伤化为文字的描述,让我体会到人生获得和丧失,很多都无法有我们自己来左右。有些时候,坚持未必就是好事,或许舍弃才是洒脱,是智者面对生活的明智选择。做一件自己做不到的事情,是对生命的一种浪费,所以有些时候只有学会舍弃,才能卸下人生的种种包袱,轻装上阵,度过人生的低谷。生活薄如蝉翼,存在就该满足。我们应该满足生活的种种给予,抱一颗初心轻松地行走在这个世界上,珍惜一切,善待一切,让生命的每一分钟都拥有诗意的快乐。你们说对吗?

#2012-09-09 13:21:49 by xin73 @xin73

Hi Garreth
First, thank you for reading and commenting.
Birds and fish is a classic sentimental love story.Who said, birds and fish love is desperate, maybe have a happiness, However, all the gorgeous are dull to end, All the romance are sad for a home to return to, I believe, but not forgotten.
After all, they have two completely different circumstances of life, destined not to come together. In our life of love, oneself through just like a bird or a fish experience,Let us have infinite emotion.
People live a lifetime, and others meet, Just single by a kind of predestination, not necessarily have a clear ending,
Because in this world, it will have too many encounters completely different people, From meet to helplessly discrete,seasons are volatile.Like birds and fish, is doomed to regret , therefore does not need too much sadness.

We are in the same world, but in a different window, overlooking the different years of life, feel life of oppression.I hope everyone love don't like birds and fish left behind eternal regret.

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