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我出世在一个美丽的国家,经历了动荡的时代和历史的变迁,终于回到了祖国。当岁月积淀女人的智慧与理性,我终于剥下华丽与虚荣,学会积累生活和人生的体悟,我在这里与大家分享生活的心灵感悟,感悟人生的真谛。I was born in a beautiful country, Vietnam, and lived through the turbulent era and the history of changes, then finally returned to the Mother China. With years of accumulated wisdom and feminine rationality,I finally peeled off the gorgeous and vanity. I am here to share with you inspiration, love, hope and thankfulness and their role in understanding the depth and true meaning of life.
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Appreciate Others Is to Solemn Yourself 欣赏他人即庄严自己    

By Xin73
3698 Views | 5 Comments | 8/27/2012 1:09:38 PM

Learn to appreciate others is a supreme state of life, Appreciate and to be appreciated is also happy, successful. Appreciation,let you grow as benevolent in life; Appreciate, allowing you to grow up in work for the wise; Appreciate, allows you emotion to grow as for love one . To the wise and benevolent the feelings, to appreciate the work feeling in every day life, there will be more found, gain more happy.

Praise others, can make our mind in the appreciation and praise purify. Praise others, can make our heart full of love, so as to establish the healthy and harmonious interpersonal relationship. In this no time to communicate the living environment, Learn to praise others, Between people will be a little more understanding, a little less alert; more points warm, a bit less indifferent; more harmonious,less points estrangement. Learn to appreciate everyone will let you benefit a lot.

Can not see others advantages, you can use the "Cannot see the wood for the trees" to describe. "Cannot see the wood for the trees" tells a this story:

There was once a very poor nerds, all day wondering "pie in the sky dream.
One day he saw a book on which was written: " If get mantis capture cicada used when covering the patch of leaves, can put his body concealment, who also can not see. " nerd very happy, in his heart thought: If I can get the leaf, I can go to steal some gold and silver jewelry back, so that our family would not poor. "

Then, bookworm every day in the woods looking for that one can stealth leaves, finally one day, he saw a mantis hiding under a leaf catch cicadas, He excitedly took off the patch of leaves, a sudden gust of wind blowing, the leaf fell on the ground, and the other leaves mixed together, the distinguish not to come out. No way, nerds can only put the ground leaves all pick it up and back to home.

After coming home, in order to find that stealth leaves, nerd each pick up a leaf in front of his wife asked: "Can you see me?" His wife do not understand his meaning, then the honest answer: " can see." he asked much more, his wife is a little impatient, heart to think: "You tease me play? Then I also teasing you." Therefore, when bookworm picked up a leaf, the wife say: "where are you? Why can't see?"

Bookworm was delighted and started run to the gate outside, his mouth shout: "I finally found!"

He came down the street to the shop, bookworm with leaves covering yourself, he in the presence of the shopkeeper , conveniently took a few things then leave, he let the shopkeeper caught up. Bookworm surprised: "how can you see me?"

Nerd as guilty of the crime of theft, was sent for trial judgment hall, Magistrate feel very strange, incredibly someone dared to steal things in broad daylight. Asked whether he is how to return a responsibility, nerd outspeak things the causes. Judge could not help but laugh, put him back home.

"Cannot see the wood for the trees" story look like a joke. In fact, it is in the to insinuate those self-righteous people, only know how to pay attention to yourself, and don't know how to pay attention to other people. In life, many people often will not consciously and the "Cannot see the wood for the trees " person same, be present a thin leaves hoodwinked his eyes, so that they can not see the other things, and this leaf name, is called self.

Life is long road, we can not predict the life of every node; from morning to night work, we cannot avoid the work of each mistake; colorful world, we find it difficult to steer clear of emotion in each field billows、、、、、、Learn to appreciate, will not to gauge the heart of a gentleman with one's own mean measure; Understand and appreciate, would not be use own words of blocking the mouth of another person; Know appreciate, would not require "the rose sends out and violet aromas like."

A person want to obtain the approval of others, First of all to beautify yourself heart, improve their own style, improve their ability, make oneself have a appreciated capital. feel for others,since that you hope to get other people's attention and appreciate; Similarly,others also hope to get your concern and appreciation. Therefore, in appreciation of their own at the same time, don't forget to appreciate others.

I hope this article to give you a happy mood and comprehend.

欣赏他人即庄严自己

学会欣赏他人是做人的一种至高境界,欣赏与被欣赏同样是快乐的,成功的。欣赏,让您在生活中成长为仁者;欣赏,让您在工作中成长为智者;欣赏,让您在情感中成长为爱者。以仁者智者的情怀,去欣赏生活工作情感中的每一天,就会有更多的发现,收获更多的快乐。

赞美别人,可以使我们的心灵在欣赏与赞美中得到净化。赞美别人,可以使我们的内心满溢着爱,从而建立健康和谐的人际关系。在这个无暇沟通的生活环境中,学会赞美别人,人与人之间便会多一分理解,少一点戒备;多一分温暖,少一点冷漠;多一分融洽,少一分隔阂。学会欣赏每个人会让你受益无穷。

看不到别人优点的人,可以用“一叶障目”来形容。“一叶障目”是讲述的是这样一个故事:
从前有个很穷的书呆子,成天琢磨着“天上掉馅饼”的好事。

有一天他看到一本书上写着:“如果得到螳螂捕捉蝉时用来遮身的那片叶子,就可以把自己的身体隐蔽起来,谁也看不见。”这可把书呆子给乐坏了,他在心里想:如果我能得到那片叶子,我就可以去偷点金银珠宝回来,这样我们家就不会穷了。”

于是,书呆子每天都在树林里寻找那片可以隐身的叶子,终于有一天,他看见一只螳螂隐身在一片树叶下捕捉蝉,于是他兴奋地摘下那片叶子,可一阵风吹来,那片叶子掉在了地上,和地上的其他叶子混在了一起,分辨不出来了。没办法,书呆子只好把地上的落叶都装了起来,带回了家。

回家以后,为了找出那片隐形叶,书呆子每拿起一片叶子挡住自己,就问妻子:“你能看见我吗?”妻子不明白他的用义,于是便老实地回答:“看得见。”他问得多了,妻子就有点不耐烦了,心想:“你逗我玩呢?那我也逗你玩。”因此,当书呆子再拿起一片叶子时,妻子说:“你在哪儿呢?怎么不见了呢?”

书呆子乐坏了,拔腿就往门外跑,嘴里喊着:“我终于找到了!”

他到了街上的店铺里,书呆子用树叶挡住自己,当着店主的面,随手拿了几件东西就走,被店主抓了起来。书呆子大吃一惊:“你怎么能看见我呢?”

书呆子因为犯了偷窃罪,被送到了衙门里受审,判官觉得很奇怪,居然有人敢在光天化日之下偷东西,便问他究竟是怎么回事,书呆子说出了事情的原委,判官不由得哈哈大笑,把他放回了家。

“一叶障目”的故事看似是一个笑话,其实它就是在隐射那些自以为是的人们,只懂得关注自己,而不懂得去关注别人。生活中,很多人常常会不自觉地和那个“一叶障目”的人一样,被眼前的一片薄薄的叶子蒙蔽了自己的眼睛,使得他们无法看到其他东西,而这片叶子的名字,就叫做自我。

漫漫人生,我们无法预测生活中的每一个节点;朝夕劳作,我们不能避免工作中的每一处失误;多彩世界,我们难以绕开情感中的每一场波澜、、、、、、学会欣赏,就不会以小人之心度君子之腹;理解欣赏,就不会以己之言堵他人之口;懂得欣赏,就不会要求“玫瑰花散发出和紫罗兰一样的芳香。”

一个人要获得别人的肯定,先得美化自己的心灵,改善自己的风度,提高自己的能力,使自己有被欣赏的资本。将心比心,既然你希望得到别人的关注和欣赏,那么同样,别人也希望得到你的关注和欣赏,因此,在欣赏自己的同时,别忘了欣赏他人。

我希望这篇文章能够给你一个愉快的心情和理解。

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#2012-08-27 13:38:07 by anonymous4171 @anonymous4171

Nerds are the alpha males of the present age.

#2012-08-27 22:25:02 by destiny1 @destiny1

这个小时候学习的成语故事今天重温一下感觉还不错,哈。

#2012-08-30 07:49:30 by kellyDA117 @kellyDA117

我喜欢看别人的文章,是很好的精神食粮,我也想发表一些,可是不太会用博客,如果发,请给我一点指导。

#2012-08-30 17:16:00 by xin73 @xin73

Hi kellyDA117
感谢你的阅读!

你在CLM首页最底处,找到“联系我们”,你直接写信联系把你想要做的事情说出,到时网站负责人会联系你。

#2012-09-02 20:53:30 by Johnny @Johnny

记了良好的工作亲爱的!

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