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Appreciate Others Is to Solemn Yourself 欣赏他人即庄严自己    

By Xin73
3698 Views | 5 Comments | 8/27/2012 1:09:38 PM

Learn to appreciate others is a supreme state of life, Appreciate and to be appreciated is also happy, successful. Appreciation,let you grow as benevolent in life; Appreciate, allowing you to grow up in work for the wise; Appreciate, allows you emotion to grow as for love one . To the wise and benevolent the feelings, to appreciate the work feeling in every day life, there will be more found, gain more happy.

Praise others, can make our mind in the appreciation and praise purify. Praise others, can make our heart full of love, so as to establish the healthy and harmonious interpersonal relationship. In this no time to communicate the living environment, Learn to praise others, Between people will be a little more understanding, a little less alert; more points warm, a bit less indifferent; more harmonious,less points estrangement. Learn to appreciate everyone will let you benefit a lot.

Can not see others advantages, you can use the "Cannot see the wood for the trees" to describe. "Cannot see the wood for the trees" tells a this story:

There was once a very poor nerds, all day wondering "pie in the sky dream.
One day he saw a book on which was written: " If get mantis capture cicada used when covering the patch of leaves, can put his body concealment, who also can not see. " nerd very happy, in his heart thought: If I can get the leaf, I can go to steal some gold and silver jewelry back, so that our family would not poor. "

Then, bookworm every day in the woods looking for that one can stealth leaves, finally one day, he saw a mantis hiding under a leaf catch cicadas, He excitedly took off the patch of leaves, a sudden gust of wind blowing, the leaf fell on the ground, and the other leaves mixed together, the distinguish not to come out. No way, nerds can only put the ground leaves all pick it up and back to home.

After coming home, in order to find that stealth leaves, nerd each pick up a leaf in front of his wife asked: "Can you see me?" His wife do not understand his meaning, then the honest answer: " can see." he asked much more, his wife is a little impatient, heart to think: "You tease me play? Then I also teasing you." Therefore, when bookworm picked up a leaf, the wife say: "where are you? Why can't see?"

Bookworm was delighted and started run to the gate outside, his mouth shout: "I finally found!"

He came down the street to the shop, bookworm with leaves covering yourself, he in the presence of the shopkeeper , conveniently took a few things then leave, he let the shopkeeper caught up. Bookworm surprised: "how can you see me?"

Nerd as guilty of the crime of theft, was sent for trial judgment hall, Magistrate feel very strange, incredibly someone dared to steal things in broad daylight. Asked whether he is how to return a responsibility, nerd outspeak things the causes. Judge could not help but laugh, put him back home.

"Cannot see the wood for the trees" story look like a joke. In fact, it is in the to insinuate those self-righteous people, only know how to pay attention to yourself, and don't know how to pay attention to other people. In life, many people often will not consciously and the "Cannot see the wood for the trees " person same, be present a thin leaves hoodwinked his eyes, so that they can not see the other things, and this leaf name, is called self.

Life is long road, we can not predict the life of every node; from morning to night work, we cannot avoid the work of each mistake; colorful world, we find it difficult to steer clear of emotion in each field billows、、、、、、Learn to appreciate, will not to gauge the heart of a gentleman with one's own mean measure; Understand and appreciate, would not be use own words of blocking the mouth of another person; Know appreciate, would not require "the rose sends out and violet aromas like."

A person want to obtain the approval of others, First of all to beautify yourself heart, improve their own style, improve their ability, make oneself have a appreciated capital. feel for others,since that you hope to get other people's attention and appreciate; Similarly,others also hope to get your concern and appreciation. Therefore, in appreciation of their own at the same time, don't forget to appreciate others.

I hope this article to give you a happy mood and comprehend.















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#2012-08-27 13:38:07 by anonymous4171 @anonymous4171

Nerds are the alpha males of the present age.

#2012-08-27 22:25:02 by destiny1 @destiny1


#2012-08-30 07:49:30 by kellyDA117 @kellyDA117


#2012-08-30 17:16:00 by xin73 @xin73

Hi kellyDA117


#2012-09-02 20:53:30 by Johnny @Johnny


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