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"I don't feel alone as few Chinese ladies commented in English"
Let me say Anniehow, that whenever I see a comment in English from a Chinese lady, I immediately think "What a smart person she is!".
So au contraire, rather than feeling alone, you should feel both proud and pleased in your commendable multilingual knowledge, as you deserve this. Particularly yourself, as your ability here is of the highest order. Congratulations and well done, I say! (y)
lmi, I am happy for you to have a new start since after Lily. I sincerely hope and wish you and the angel's girl could have a good and happy beginning and ending.
Sometime the hardships and difficulties is intending to make us to be some unique one in the world. Happiness is born from pains and success is born from failures.Everyone of us have lessons to learn in the life. Before we pass it, it never get through from us and always show in front of us.
I recently read the book of " God's Answers to Life's Difficult Questions" by Rick Warren. The author tell three points that we can't do when we are in crisis or difficulties or loneliness. They are 1) Don't get away from your path(leading to your final goal); 2) Don't lose or give up anything that you think it is important for you like your dignity or some of important principles or bottom lines; 3) Don't lose or give up your hope. Hope is important for us to live along. Without hope, we even can't feel we are truely living and alive. I really hope you could meet someone who is truely right for you and suitable for each other and enjoy the life together. She is not someone who can only spend the lonely time with you. I give you my best wish to you.
Thanks Barry for your encouragement. I just noticed another Chinese lady commented in English. bravo!
Zqy, good points on 1 and 3. I often say, "Hope is a precious, precious little thing which keeps us going."
Btw, I had thought Imi was writing about his first years when he arrived in Canada instead of now. Correct me if I am wrong, folks.:)