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Born and raised in a small and remote village of China with two siblings, Zoe had a childhood with wild freedom in nature. After finishing her education at Dalian Foreign Languages University, she has been living and working in Dalian. A woman of strong feelings and a passion for life, Zoe's first series of vibrant articles will tell you about the rollercoaster ride that was her first serious relationship with a Western man. There is much you can learn from her telling story. After that we'll see where else she can take us and what other wonderful experiences she might share.
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The End Of Our Relationship Part 18 - Long Day Into Cold Night    

By Zoe
6978 Views | 12 Comments | 6/23/2013 1:52:37 PM

Waiting in the cold for the Western man I traveled so far to be with.

If he already arrived, he must have called me, he knew my train arrival time. So I dialed his cell phone, no answer; dialed again, no answer. I called to his office number, no answer either.

I started thinking randomly, he is not in the office, meaning that he is out already to pick me up. It takes two hours to get here, meaning he got to go through highway, is it possible that something bad happened to him?

Then I remembered that in Abu Dhabi airport when I was getting on the elevator, I slipped and tried to hold the handrail, didn’t fall down or got hurt but broke the nail of my ring finger. Was it a signal or what? Otherwise, why the ring finger?

Dragged my suitcase, walked out of the station, nowhere to go, I found a small square and sat there, waiting.

It was getting dark, the temperature dropped off, I was cold. People in hurry steps were coming and going in front of me, some young lovers not far from me snuggling close head by head were whispering.

It seemed a century passed till my phone ringed, saw H’s name twinkling on the screen, my tears dropped down.

Didn’t cry out to H, neither complained in phone, I guessed there must be something that stopped him.

Said to him, H, I am cold.

H said, I will get there soon, there was an accident, it takes a bit while more. You go find and coffee shop to sit for a cup of coffee or tea, I will give you a call when I get there.

When he mentioned ‘accident’, it almost took my breath.

I asked if something happened to him. He said that he was all right, not his car, would tell me later.

Whatever it was, I don’t care, as long as he was all right.

So I stood up, dragged my suitcase, walked into a coffee shop not far ahead. I was almost frozen.

The shop staff told me that it closed the day. What! I was confused, does the shops here also work from 9am to 5pm?

No other choice, I got out, looked around, found nowhere to go nearby, worried if I walked to far, H would not find me when he arrived. So I sat back in the small square, and waiting.

Every time if there was a car stopped near me, I lengthened neck, widened eyes, hoping it was H arrived.

It seemed another century passed, finally I saw H, the man that I was missing day and night, while walking and working, eating and sleeping, the man that I was missing every minute and every second finally appeared to me.

Before I saw him, I was imagining all possible scenes of the moment we see each other, what would be my reaction, what would be his. Imaging that I would throw whatever in my hand and run to him then jump onto him, hold him tightly, just like in the movie lovers do after their parting.

But the real picture was, he got out of the car, bent, carried up my suitcase and put it into the trunk, meanwhile said to me, go into the car, you must be very cold.

Sitting in the car, my heart was pumping in my throat. He got into the car, smiled, looked at me, I looked back at him, smiled, we hugged gently.

如果他早到了,应该给我打电话的,我已经告诉他火车到站的时间。
于是拨他的电话,无应答。再拨,无应答。
打他办公室的电话,仍然无应答。
我开始胡思乱想,他不在办公室,证明已经前来接我了。从他公司出发到这里需要2个小时,难道在高速路上出什么事情了?
想起来我在阿布扎比机场,搭电梯时,脚下一滑,没摔跤但把手指卡了,右手无名指的指甲卡断了,但幸好没流血。
难道这有什么暗示吗?否则,为什么是无名指?
我拉着箱子,走出车站,在旁边的一个小广场上坐下。
天要黑了,温度低了下来,我很冷。人们脚步匆匆,在我面前,来来往往。坐在不远处小情侣们相拥着头挨头喁喁私语。
我仿佛坐了一个世纪,电话响了,看着H的名字在电话屏幕上闪烁,我眼泪嗒嗒往下掉。
接通电话后,我没有对着H哭,也没有抱怨,我想一定是什么事情让他耽搁了。
他说,我马上就到了,在高速路上遇到了肇事,要耽搁一会,你找个咖啡屋坐着喝杯咖啡或喝杯茶,我到了再给你电话。
他说到accident时,我紧张极了,问他是不是出了什么事。他说没事,不是他的车,见面后再详细跟我讲。
无论什么,只要不是他出事,就没事。
我拉着箱子,走进不远处的一个咖啡馆,的确太冷了。
进去后店员说下班了。
这是什么逻辑,才几点,难道咖啡馆也是朝九晚五吗?没办法,只好出来,转了一圈,没有看到附近有什么地方可以去,又担心走远了,一会H找不到我。于是又回到小广场上,坐着等。
每看到身边有车停下,总要伸长脖子,瞪大眼睛看,希望是H到了。
仿佛又等了一个世纪,终于见到了,这个我朝思暮想,走路吃饭,工作睡觉,每时每刻都在想着的人,终于出现在了我面前。
看到他之前,我设想着种种场景,看到他的第一瞬间,他是什么反应,我是什么反应,想着我会甩手把包丢下,跳到他的身上,就像电影里久别的情侣见面时的场景。
但是,当时的画面是,他边低头把我的箱子往后备箱里搬,边跟我说,快进车里,你冻坏了吧。
我坐在车里,心砰砰跳,他进车来,微笑,看着我,我看着他,微笑,我们轻轻相拥。

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#2013-06-23 14:11:47 by prana @prana

恭喜你,人平安、开心就好!

#2013-06-23 15:32:31 by anonymous6650 @anonymous6650

哈哈,Zoe:你可以写侦探悬疑言情小说了。你英文中文都好,干脆辞职在家写小说算了,我每天打开网站,就是想看你的续集。他来接你了就好。看样子对你还可以。

#2013-06-23 15:54:33 by Apinkapple @Apinkapple

It's hard to resist the power of love, but this chapter makes me feel so sad ......

#2013-06-23 21:11:10 by 345 @345

你真幸福和幸运,遇到你白马王子,加油,永远支持你。

#2013-06-24 03:06:27 by anonymous6656 @anonymous6656

As always I like your style and am impressed by your gift of restraint - as a writer and sincere person both! Perfect technique for this forum!

#2013-06-24 20:33:52 by 99moonriver @99moonriver

When a man truly in love with a woman, he will absolutely care so much about her, he will call her many times, talk about the trip, buy her tickets, check the weather, remind her to keep warm, kick up her on time, he will be willing to take a lot of trouble making sure she will be totally safe and happy in the trip to his city.........Yes, a true man will treat his lover as a little girl, just want to take Good care of her.

I guess, there is no difference whatever western men or Chinese men, if he truly in love.

#2013-06-24 22:38:03 by anny999 @anny999

我从前几篇博客评论中发现有的貌似一直寻找却没结果的女人,从她们言语中能看出她们巴不得你和她们一样。。。我现在的男朋友就是典型的德国人。他很严谨。我们在也是从网上认识一直到见面。对对方的感觉都是一如即往,他对我说他对我的感觉还比网上还好。他也是我想要的标准。呵呵呵,,我到希望博主的结果能让这样的女人多出现。多说些刻薄的话。

#2013-06-24 22:54:45 by sharonshi @sharonshi

The final meeting is not romantic as movies but it's okay. Real life. The communication before you meet really hurts.

You love him so much that you have some of your negative emotions depressed. It's okay not complaining, Meanwhile, how about trying to express your needs, say, I am worried about you and wish we could meet asap...... Man can act better once they clearly know what do you want from him. Don't be afraid of speak out your needs or desire. just as you inquired that night: I wish you could stay here tonight. Cool! You pleased you both.

Little quarrel is part of intimate relationship. Apparent harmony is fragile if we do not brave enough to touch the painful nots under-beneath. The earlier we realize the Moment of Truth's approaching, the earlier we progress the relationship. Here is the touchstone——Love more, or let go for both's good.

"I love you and sometimes I hate you so badly that I hate that I loved you." If you both could say words like these, congratulations that you both are lucky birds.



#2013-06-26 13:16:42 by grace2013china @grace2013china

From now on, you'll start to tell us the real sad story, don't you? It's hot summer now, but your story makes me feel freezen.

#2013-06-26 13:18:01 by isabella2010 @isabella2010

i like the happy ending.... to wish everyone live with their lovers..

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