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Born and raised in a small and remote village of China with two siblings, Zoe had a childhood with wild freedom in nature. After finishing her education at Dalian Foreign Languages University, she has been living and working in Dalian. A woman of strong feelings and a passion for life, Zoe's first series of vibrant articles will tell you about the rollercoaster ride that was her first serious relationship with a Western man. There is much you can learn from her telling story. After that we'll see where else she can take us and what other wonderful experiences she might share.
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The End Of Our Relationship Part 17 - Wayward Prince    

By Zoe
6428 Views | 16 Comments | 6/16/2013 2:37:37 PM

He may not have been Clive Owen, but he was still my knight.

In Stuttgart, I rushed my steps to get out of the train station, thinking that my dear prince must be waiting for me on his black horse.

Then I saw an Asian woman, dragging a suitcase with one hand, three big paper bags in the other, and a back bag on her back, hardly moving her legs to get down the stairs.

I stopped in front of her and asked in English, Can I help you? Not sure she was Chinese woman or Japanese or Korean.

I took two paper bags from her, she kept thanking me for my help. Then I got to know that she was from Shanghai China, was sent here for training in the headquarter company in Germany. It made me sad again that I didn’t accept the job offer from company G, otherwise I might have also had the chance to be here to stay a while longer with H.

There was a cross, I would go straight while the girl should turn left to catch another train. Seeing so many steep stairs ahead of her, I could not just leave her alone there to fight against her bags and the stairs. So I insisted to send her right to the platform. The girl again thanked me a hundred times.

There were two staff in uniform standing on the hallway and talking. I asked one of them if I could leave my suitcase there and he put one eye on it, and I would be back in 5 minutes. Because I would have to climb up all those steps and it could possibly break my back if I carried it all the way up.

Got the girl to the platform, we hugged for good-bye, it’s really cordial and sweet seeing a face of same skin color on the land of another country.

I was slipping and slithering back and out, thought that H must be worrying. But if I told him that I was trying to help a Chinese girl, I bet he would kiss me for I did the right thing.

The moment when I got out of the station, only found myself crumbled: H was nowhere to be seen.

在斯图加特火车站,我脚步匆匆往外赶,想着,我心爱的王子已经骑着他的大黑马在等我了吧。
下台阶时,看见一个亚洲女孩,拉着一个大拉杆箱,手里还拎着几个手提袋,背上背着个双肩包,正一步一挪往前走。
我停下来,用英语问,Can I help you? 因为不能确定她是中国人还是日本或韩国人。
我帮她拎了两个手提袋,她一连声用英语说谢谢。交谈中知道她来自中国上海,被派到德国总公司培训三个月。我心里又一阵难过,后悔当初没有接受G公司的职位,否则我可能有机会到这里来跟H相聚。
走到一个岔口,我要往前走,这个女孩要左拐,转另一班火车。看着前面还有那么高那么多的台阶,我不忍心丢下她不管,说,我送你到站台吧。女孩又一阵感谢。
通道边上有两个穿制服的车站工作人员在说话,我问其中一位,能否替我照看一会行李,我5分钟就回来。因为回来是上台阶,如果我拉着箱子,回来还得用手搬,以我的小身板,非把腰给折了。
把女孩送到站台后,我们拥抱,说了再见,在异国他乡看见同肤色的面孔,真是亲切。
我一步三跑往回赶,想着,H等急了吧,不过如果我告诉他因为帮助老乡耽搁了,他一定会夸我做的对吧。
走出火车站,我傻眼了,没有H的影子。

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#2013-06-16 16:09:54 by anonymous6566 @anonymous6566

Z:我不知道怎样安慰你。也许他是一个有妇之夫,他从一开始就是骗你的。如果是我我会勇敢地放弃,根本不会去德国。我想我们这上面的姐妹都是不小的年纪了,大多数是三四十岁的人了,在中国,我们被称为剩女,因此,我们急着把自己嫁出去,我们有压力,包括我也有压力,这压力来自家庭的,来自亲戚朋友的,来自社会上的,因此,我们在急着把自己嫁出去。虽说,我们有不开心,但在婚姻方面,还是要谨慎一点,爱与不爱,我们心里其实很容易感觉到,对方是真诚的,还是假心假意的,说白了,还是骗人的,我们的直觉很灵敏,何况这里面的姐妹,大部分都受过很好的教育。如果感觉不对,我们要有勇敢放弃的决心。我们都是过来人,我们或在中国恋爱过,或离过婚,因此我们知道,什么是真爱,什么是虚情假意,在这一点上,我们都不笨。我认为,他有很大的可能是个有妇之夫,他是骗你的。我们应该多个心眼。如果是这样的,勇敢地放弃他,忘了他!即使他是一块宝,也要勇敢地丢了他。

#2013-06-16 20:56:20 by anonymous6571 @anonymous6571

Interesting choice of description when you wrote "thinking that my dear prince must be waiting for me on his black horse"...doesn't the hero ride a white horse? Heroes always wear white and the villain wears black? Maybe that was only in my generation's time...and only in the US. Or maybe you were foreshadowing that this guy is indeed a villain...

#2013-06-17 03:10:39 by anonymous6576 @anonymous6576

so much talent in your telling your story. Engages the reader from the tenderness and truth of the genuine heart you surely have. There is an angel among us, and now I know of at least two ;)

#2013-06-17 05:50:20 by DanielButler @DanielButler

I just want to punch this guy.

#2013-06-17 20:45:20 by Apinkapple @Apinkapple

@anonymous6571

LOL, A hero in China rides on a black horse.(a joke )

#2013-06-18 01:06:10 by Elaine789 @Elaine789

至少自己的爱努力过,哪怕失败也不后悔!支持你!他值不值得拥有,那是他的事。

#2013-06-18 06:38:21 by yangguizi @yangguizi

We call this a "cliff-hanger". I hope he is in the bathroom, looking for you diligently, or waiting outside? He better have a great excuse or at least be having a drink in the airport restaurant waiting for your phone call.

I think it is too soon for others to pass judgement on him.

Him allowing you to pay your own flight is something I also struggled with and really felt badly about but in my case it is still my ex-girlfriend and it is away to preserve our relationship allowing me to keep travel money for China.

I am almost inspired enough by your blog to write my own. A major difference (or maybe similarity?) is that I am not yet sure how mine will end yet. My ex-girlfriend will land in Canada in two weeks at the end of this month. In my heart, I am already waiting for her at the airport.

#2013-06-18 08:56:06 by 345 @345

亲爱的,你就别闷了吧,经一时长一智。,就当做出个钱出旅游或者习个教训吧了。

#2013-06-18 08:59:44 by 345 @345

我觉得有探险的心总比在家等着白马王子出来得要好,你毕竟努力过寻找,这种勇气总让人很佩服,不要灰心,你的白马子终有一天会出来的,加油,我永远支持你。

#2013-06-18 16:32:56 by Fredo66 @Fredo66

Really intresting story Zoe. If only you would write more. Yes you always leave us all in suspense. Yes just like in the old Dr Who serials. Hehe. Now we all have to wait till next wk. Yes will the man on the black horse devour little Zoe. All will anonymous's 6571 man on a white horse arrive to save Little Zoe from such a beastly devil. Yes we shall all stay tuned.

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