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Born and raised in a small and remote village of China with two siblings, Zoe had a childhood with wild freedom in nature. After finishing her education at Dalian Foreign Languages University, she has been living and working in Dalian. A woman of strong feelings and a passion for life, Zoe's first series of vibrant articles will tell you about the rollercoaster ride that was her first serious relationship with a Western man. There is much you can learn from her telling story. After that we'll see where else she can take us and what other wonderful experiences she might share.
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The End Of Our Relationship Part 16 - Facing the Gatekeepers    

By Zoe
8275 Views | 25 Comments | 6/8/2013 3:08:19 PM
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#2013-06-10 00:03:29 by Icekuma23 @Icekuma23

I have to agree with John.
This man didn't even bother to show up at the airport to pick you up?
He didn't offer to help cover part of the cost of the trip????????

I'm utterly shocked but have a feeling this was his way of trying to make you see he is not worth it or does not really wish you there at all.

#2013-06-10 10:09:47 by anonymous6514 @anonymous6514

这年头要想办成点事,除了有胆子还得有票子,有了票子办事才有底气,二者缺一不可光有爱的胆,但 囊中羞色,捉襟见肘,没有钱铺路,也是白搭,,从现在起,姐妹们为了爱,攒钱吧,,,

#2013-06-10 14:07:51 by anonymous6517 @anonymous6517

你们说我这办?
我与在此相识了一年多了。我们一直关系很好。原本今年9月份想见面谈今后结婚之事,可最近他失踪了一个多月后来信说他住医院,查出了帕金森病,所以他直没与我联系。说还是很爱我们,今后结婚怕我有一个疾病的丈夫。不能给我幸福,怕牵连我们生活,让我好好思索,说实我平日与他聊天,很喜欢他对的坦荡性格,有一种如亲人的感受。可面对他这样疾病我这办?是前进?还是后退?

#2013-06-10 14:41:51 by cathyf2012 @cathyf2012

Love should be from both side. One can't force another side. He doesn't want to pick up you. That means you are not important to him. Just like John said "This guy just absolutely doesn't seem to deserve you. "

Even you try really hard to make it work out, still he is not a Chinese man. He won't be “心诚所至金为石开”You can't Chinese culture to think about western man. They just the way they are.

Anyway hope you will be happy.



#2013-06-10 16:37:24 by Apinkapple @Apinkapple

@JohnAbbot

Mr.John, Your words must move all of the Chinese women on the CLM.

You are a kind man, so your wife is lucky enough to marry you.

#2013-06-10 17:47:57 by JohnAbbot @JohnAbbot

@Apinkapple - thanks for your kind words, but I think on the balance I am far luckier than my wife that we are married. She could have done better and I could have done worse :-)

#2013-06-10 19:58:39 by 345 @345

hellen1020 @hellen1020
她说的很有道理,爱是需要勇气,但是爱别人之前,首先要爱护自己,如果连自己都不护的话,你叫别人怎么去爱你,加油,我支持你

#2013-06-11 12:21:58 by 99moonriver @99moonriver

你大费周章,绕半个地球去看他,他却不愿意五个小时的高速公路去机场接你。反差有点大。


爱,是一种勇气,更是一种智慧。选对人,才能让爱值得。

U have taken so much trouble trying to close to him, flying nearly half of the earth to see him, but.......what is his attitude? He even didn't want to drive his car to pick u up from the airport.

I feel a little Sad to see this difference between u two.

Seems he is not that style who thoughtful for his girlfriend. I dont understand what u see good in him? Handsome? sweet mouth? those r not enough for a long relationship.

Love with courage, n........... ur wisdom.




#2013-06-12 16:02:02 by grace2013china @grace2013china

Well, he is not ready for a serious relationship, at least with you. Maybe he needs a woman go to cover him, but not count on him, Being resposible to a woman maybe is too much for him during that time.

我觉得他还没打算要一段严肃的恋爱关系,最起码和你他还没准备好. 可能他需要一个女人去爱护他,而不是去投奔他,开始对一个女人负起一份责任对他来说太沉重了些。

#2013-06-12 16:38:44 by anonymous6543 @anonymous6543

我并不看好这个故事的结局

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