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Born and raised in a small and remote village of China with two siblings, Zoe had a childhood with wild freedom in nature. After finishing her education at Dalian Foreign Languages University, she has been living and working in Dalian. A woman of strong feelings and a passion for life, Zoe's first series of vibrant articles will tell you about the rollercoaster ride that was her first serious relationship with a Western man. There is much you can learn from her telling story. After that we'll see where else she can take us and what other wonderful experiences she might share.
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The End Of Our Relationship Part 15 - New Concerns    

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8415 Views | 29 Comments | 6/6/2013 4:19:25 AM
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#2013-06-07 00:28:48 by anonymous6455 @anonymous6455

Zoe:既然决定了,勇敢地去吧!无论结局怎样,你都要顽强地回来!从你的博客看,我知道你已经爱得他太深了。从你打开护照地动作可以看出来,你是颤抖着打开的。当有一两处没回答好签证官的问题,你捶胸顿足,并且后悔莫及。从这些可以看出来,你爱得他很深。你去看下吧。无论结局怎样,CLM上的姐妹会关心你,会支持你,不会嘲讽你。我不知道,这个德国人到底是怎么个人,如果他真心爱你,他应该主动邀请你去德国,主动承担一切费用,当然这只是我个人的看法。他应该非常期待你去看他,并且,我们都不小了,如果有爱,他应该要告诉你路上注意安全,他应该很高兴地期待你去看他,而不是态度很淡漠,并且要商量结婚的事,而不是就这样走了。然后让你花一大笔钱去看他,你去下德国,如果有结果,那就更好。如果没有结果,你就当成去德国旅游,如果没有结果,一定要强忍住泪水,高高兴兴地回到单位上班,如果你觉得受了打击,难以释怀,睡不着觉的话,千万要记得求助心理医生,千万不要绝望。爱你的一个姐姐。

#2013-06-07 10:38:19 by snowkittie @snowkittie

you are a brave girl, if you want to do, just do it, but be sure you are strong enough to bear the possible fail. If not, don't move.
May you get your love.
May I know how to create a blog here?

#2013-06-07 10:53:21 by anonymous6459 @anonymous6459

其实他的一句“it should be all your decision" 已经告诉你结局,何必要飞娥扑火呢?你爱上了和他在一起的片段场景,爱上了“爱情”-你的想象。权当作人生的历练吧。

#2013-06-07 12:57:27 by anonymous6460 @anonymous6460

去吧,能收获你朝思暮想的婚姻更好,如不能,收获一份情爱也不错,如二者都没有,你还领略了当地的异国风光和美景,不管咋说,也是算是开了一回 洋浑,见了回 大世面,那不就是收获么!钱花了还可以在挣,心里的夙愿没实现,你会后悔一辈子,在爱情和钱的天平上,孰轻孰重,相信自己是有自己的判断能力的,不被别人所左右,我很欣赏你的个性,你也为我们也竖立了一个敢爱,敢为的好典范,榜样的力量是无穷的,说不定在你之后,还会陆续出现类似你这样执着并大胆的去勇于追求爱的人,好,祝你此行 收获多多,硕果累累。

#2013-06-07 13:26:02 by anonymous6461 @anonymous6461

我一直关注你的博客,也想说两句,爱情和幸福的婚姻不是靠一味付出得到的,如果对方没有真爱你的心,你付出的再多,也很难感动他,我也在网上谈过无数的“老外”对这一点深有体会。关键要选对了人。对你有好感和爱你,给你婚姻是两回事。虽然爱过就无悔,可我们浪费的青春时光呢谁来弥补?

#2013-06-07 18:53:25 by anonymous6464 @anonymous6464

H 爱不爱 Z,这个谁心里都明白,但事到如今,Z 的签证和机票都搞定了,拜托你们就不要再说些令Z泄气的话了,谁说女人不能主动迫切的去追求男人?至于高费用‘有句名言说,‘生命诚可贵,爱情价更高’,被对方拒绝了又怎样?毕竟那也是爱过的呀,心里没有遗憾比啥都强,再说了,不试一下,怎么知道对方是否真爱她,Z 此行赴德,我认为非常有必要!一定要去!支持 Z!!。

#2013-06-07 21:40:06 by anonymous6465 @anonymous6465

@anonymous6452
1,3万元 就能得到一个德国丈夫,无论怎么讲还是很划算的事
有点自尊、自重好不好

#2013-06-07 23:00:22 by mary0624 @mary0624

很喜欢你的博客,文字非常优美, 你可以写爱情小说了.:)
但是我有种感觉, 你也许爱的是你想象中的一个人, 而不是真正的那个他.那个想象中的人戴着眩目的光环, 这光环夺走你所有的目光,使你不能认真冷静地了解真正的那个他. 纯情的女人想来都有过这种经历,当经过一段时间,我们冷静下来后发现, 光环散去, 那个真正的他并不象之前想象中那样光彩夺目.
斯嘉丽以为自已爱艾希礼, 她的爱情是那样纯情, 就象楼主对H的爱一样. 直到媚兰死的时候,她才发觉她对阿希礼的爱情只是雾里看花水中望月. 他爱的阿希礼并不真正存在, 只是存在于想象中, 是斯嘉丽自已虚构的.
关于您花了一年的储蓄去德国看H的行为, 从申请签证到买机票, 我没有看H有任何帮助你的行为. 这在我看来一点儿也不浪漫, 而是有点悲伤. 他回你的信息是什么意思呢, 感觉很冷漠啊. 但你真的是个勇敢的好姑娘, 真心祝你幸福!:)

You made a very nice blog, very nice writing, you can write romance novels.:)
but regarding your story, I just feel that you fell in love with a person in your imagination, not in real. The one in imagination wearing the dazzling aura which has taken all your attention away so that you cannot have distraction to know him in real. I guess most of us have had this pure feeling experience. But after some times, we can find that the person whom we loved is not as sparkling as previously we thought
About your big decision that you spending all a year’s saving to see H in Germany, I did not see any help from H during all the process from applying for a visa to buy tickets. That was not really romantic at all in my eyes, but sad. What does that mean: "it should be all the your decision? “ I do not think it is a nice message to you, nor friendly, nor love in it. . But you are a really nice and brave girl. Wish you good luck.:)

#2013-06-07 23:48:42 by anny999 @anny999

付出也得看对什么样的人,也得搞明白这个人到底值不值你付出。我在这里时间不算太长,遇到过一个开始还聊的好好的后来给我说了些无理的话我就没兴趣了。也很少在这里,那老鬼聊了一周还想让我到他那里去看他,和你的情况差不多也不过是个只想得到不想付出的主。只能让他做梦去吧!

#2013-06-08 10:13:45 by anonymous6473 @anonymous6473

@anonymous6465

well done !

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