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Born and raised in a small and remote village of China with two siblings, Zoe had a childhood with wild freedom in nature. After finishing her education at Dalian Foreign Languages University, she has been living and working in Dalian. A woman of strong feelings and a passion for life, Zoe's first series of vibrant articles will tell you about the rollercoaster ride that was her first serious relationship with a Western man. There is much you can learn from her telling story. After that we'll see where else she can take us and what other wonderful experiences she might share.
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The End Of Our Relationship Part 10 - The Perfect Man    

By Zoe
4900 Views | 6 Comments | 3/26/2013 3:58:04 PM

Finding perfect Western men is no small task.

The next morning I got up early, cleaned my apartment, watered my plants, went to the market, took a cab to the cinema and bought tickets and booked the seats. I had been longing to sit in the cinema to watch a movie with H, by holding his hand and leaning on his shoulder.

Then I prepared all the material what was needed for cooking lunch.
I stewed a fish, and would make the vegetable dish soon before H arrived.
Then took a shower, put some make-up.

Sitting there with a cup of tea, I was waiting gleefully for the moment of my prince’s appearing.

H phoned me, telling me that he was on the way, but it seemed that the taxi driver did know the way to me. He handed the phone to the driver and asked me to tell how he would get here.

The driver was very mean, talked with impatient and harshly tones. H got the taxi in front of the hotel, the door man told him the approximate price, now the driver seemed regretted and thought the price was too low.

I was very angry too at this side of the phone, money was not a matter at all, but his attitude was really terrible, I was afraid that he would get H off and dropped him on the road somewhere nowhere.

After some setbacks, finally I got H downstairs of my building and only then could I get a breath.

Greeted him back home, I poured a cup of self-made lemon water, which was kept into refrigerator to ice it.

H sat on the couch, looked around, and said that he liked my small apartment, it’s so nice and homey.

My face beamed with joy, I like every word of praise from him.

Handed him the water, I sat beside him, he looked at me gently, eyes full of affectionate, I returned with a sweet and shy smile.

H pulled me into his arms, kissed me.

Eh, God, for what you loved so much, to let me meet such a perfect western man?
Eh, God, if you really loved me, please let me die at this moment.

后来H打来电话,说在路上,但出租车司机好像不知道路,他把电话给司机,让我跟司机讲。 那个司机态度很恶劣,语气很不耐烦,因为在宾馆门口打的车,门童已经把大概的车费说给了H,司机现在有些反悔,觉得自己吃亏了。

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#2013-03-26 19:27:49 by lhui @lhui


#2013-03-27 10:27:39 by zhaohaojuan @zhaohaojuan


#2013-03-27 17:06:53 by yangguizi @yangguizi

Allow me to be the first in line to take you out to dinner. Gentleman the line starts here ... no pushing, no shoving, keep it orderly and remain considerate.


#2013-03-28 07:56:49 by DanielButler @DanielButler


I have read all of the blogs before deciding to write. I all to well understand the feelings you are experiencing. I too not to long ago had the same kind of feelings for a woman. I too feared to express my full feelings to her because I was afraid of scaring her off. Well, by being coy and a bit stupid I chased her off anyway. She decided she didn't want me to talk or message her anymore. I was devastated. For the next year and a half I nursed a broken heart. In that time I realized I should have be more honest with myself as well as with her. I should have been brave enough to love her with all my heart. Open and completely honest. Even if that meant that I would scare her away. At the very least I could say to myself I was honest with my feelings. Every since then I have been totally open hearted to everybody. I don't hind my feelings anymore. I'd rather die knowing I gave my all. Then to die regretting never sharing my true self with the world. I won't make that mistake again. I know I won't ever be able to win that woman's love. But the next woman to win my heart I am going to love with everything I have.

I hope this can help in some way. I wish you the best of luck and more importantly. All the love you deserve.



I also want to mention that. You should have more confidence. It does not matter what your station is in life. We all deserve to love and be loved. What we do to make a living does not matter. If someone loves you it will not matter to him/her.

#2013-03-30 11:05:50 by zhangxiujin @zhangxiujin

I'd like to take it as compliment. Thanks a lot. :-)

Yeah, we should be more honest about our feelings, to love and be loved is what we all persuing, but the ability to love someone whole heartedly is also that we can get happiness from.

#2013-03-31 00:39:01 by Mauraa @Mauraa

亲爱的Zoe, 为什么没有好好的沟通呢,我看了你写的文章后,觉得语言其实并不是沟通的障碍,不论面对中国人还是外国人, 其实真正把自己的想法表达给对方知道才是你最需要的。 加油!祝你好运 :)

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