“Naked wedding "("Luohun"),do you accept it ?裸婚，你愿意吗？
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7/4/2012 2:18:54 PM
“Naked wedding "("Luohun")is a new Chinese internet expression ,which means getting married with zero cost : no wedding house ,no marriage ceremony, no wedding dress,no wedding ring , no honey moon .......
To Chinese , marriage is an event in life , an elaborate wedding ceremony epitomizes social position of his family. But in recent years ," naked wedding" is getting popular gradually among the young peoples after 80s . As one internet research,80% man support "naked wedding " because that reduce their pressures that make it possible and easier to get married at marriageable age. 70% women don't support "naked wedding ".The causes are manifold : Woman think "naked wedding " is with bigger risk without any security .No car ,no ring ,no wedding maybe is OK .But no house ,means you don't have home .Moreover, you will have a child after get married . In China ,under household registration system and exist college entrance examination system system (Gaokao) , no house means your child cannot accept normal education .And once the man doesn't love the woman anymore ,zero cost marriage make more easy to get divorce .Obviously,divorced woman is unwelcome on the market in China. On the other hand , as though they decare against "naked wedding ",many girls carry out their "naked marriage " helplessly when they met the beloved man . Perhaps the vast majority of man is not so wealthy .And the woman inborn is emotional who always believe in her man .
As personnel I am not in favor of "naked wedding " .As though ,modem marriage is based on the existence of love in which both sides fall, marriage should be based on a certain degree of stable financial as well . Pro bally,"Naked wedding" is helpless actually the performance that cite. Under the pressure of high housing price and high wedding cost , young people who don't have rich parents ,choose "naked wedding " helplessly.
"Naked wedding" ,do you accept it ?
裸婚”指的是不买房、不买车、不办婚礼、不买婚戒，直接登记结婚的一种节俭的结婚方式。自古以来，婚姻一直都被人们看做是人生的头等大事，而婚礼的隆重与否直接体现了整个家族的地位。然而，近年来“裸婚”风渐渐盛行，成为“80后”最新潮的结婚方式。
一项网上调查显示，80%男性赞成裸婚，因为裸婚减轻了压力并使他们在适婚年龄结婚成为可能。70% 女性认为裸婚不靠谱，原因是多方面的：女人认为裸婚风险太大。没车，没婚礼，婚戒都可以，没房就意味着没有一个家。而且，在现行的户籍制度和高考制度下，没房就没户口，你的孩子也没法接受好的教育。而且，一个零费用婚姻，一旦男人变心，无疑的离婚变得容易。而一个离婚的女人在传统观念里是不受欢迎的。
话说回来，尽管女性声称不接受裸婚，一旦遇上所爱的那个人，很多女孩们都无奈地实行了裸婚。也许，世上太多没钱男人，而且女人天生感性，都愿意相信自己爱的那个人。
我个人不是很赞成裸婚，虽说现代婚姻是建立在爱情的基础上；一定程度的经济基础也是需要的。也许，裸婚是一种无奈之举。低收入又没有有钱的父母的年轻人无力承受高房价，高结婚成本，只好无奈地选择了裸婚。
裸婚，你愿意吗？
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Yes, I know, get my mind out of the gutter...right?..LOL..
Furthermore, women should not value a man based on his material possessions.... and if they do, they have absolutely no right to complain about him being unfaithful. Wealthy men are used to being able to buy the things they want, they won't treasure you.
I had always been told the 'must buy a house issue' was based on money/security, but if home ownership is the only thing that gives a child an identity in China then it is pretty important! Especially now the people are more mobile and moving cities for jobs and opportunities.
the ring for the girl is not just a gift or not just object, it stands for a memory of her love.
However we live in real life .there is only love exsist in marriage that the marriage is not stable enough to stand any severe test.