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My Take on New to Chinese Dating - Need Help Forum Thread    

By John Abbot
5049 Views | 37 Comments | 12/16/2016 3:46:35 AM
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#2017-01-22 12:34:27 by JohnAbbot @JohnAbbot

@SCBeets2200 - I have read your response, and generally I think you made some good points. I also think you missed a couple of my points and those of other commenters, but you didn't miss them unreasonably. I think you understood us to mean something other than we did mean, but we are into vague territory here where things said have more than one potential meaning, and it is easy the writer to think it is clear but the reader to find it unclear.



I will be a day or two getting back to you in more detail on what I just wrote and with further responses to many of your points.



Your responses were further evidence of very good writing ability, and if you chose to, for example, you could easily write how to articles that taught other people how to fix their computers, or how to create electronic devices, based on your experiences of having fixed or built things yourself. 



But more on all of this later...


#2017-01-29 14:07:17 by roughdiamond @roughdiamond


@SCBeets2200

For the love of Jehova

are you for real !!!!!!!!

" but just keep in mind that I may or may not decide to reply depending on what is being said. Like I said before, my will to "persevere" is wearing thin. Having other users preach at me about "loving myself" is not helpful and could drive me away completely if not checked. I don't want to hear about anything that is impossible or illogical to do. I only want answers and help actually doing something about my conditions in ways that will inflict the least possible amount of stress and turmoil on me and my family"

FOR REAL .........

Oh and FYI don't bother responding to my comment, for with luck its driven you to cancel your membership. ( forfill your threat ) SEE YA.

@JohnAbbot

come on John, you can tell us now. SCBeets2200 is an elaborate April Fools plant.... Yes.??

 

#2017-01-30 21:06:39 by SCBeets2200 @SCBeets2200

@roughdiamond - Dude, you have NO IDEA what I'm even talking about!! And, you don't even know me!!! YES, I AM ABSOLUTELY FOR REAL!!!! NO, I AM NOT SOME "ELABORATE APRIL FOOLS' PLANT"!!!!!

 

I AM APPALLED THAT SOMEONE SHOULD BE SO INCLINED TO MAKE THAT KIND OF COMMENT!! AND AS FOR MY LEAVING...NICE TRY BUD!!! I'M NOT LEAVING FOR YOUR BENEFIT!!! GO FLY A KITE AND LEAVE ME ALONE! OR MAYBE I'LL REPORT YOU FOR TROLLING INSTEAD!!!

#2017-01-31 21:22:56 by roughdiamond @roughdiamond


@SCBeets2200

love the yelling . has it made you feel better?

also didnt realize you have long distance mind reading powers, and are fully able to enter my mind and evaluate my comprehintion levels of the crap you've been sproutin, how was it for you? did you find much in there? anything i should know about? opps getting off track, and we all know that will upset you, hey?

poor poor you, hey....

i dont know your angle yet but im sure youve got one. you pulled

john into this by suggesting offing yourself,  people extended a loving hand (melcan) and you chew it off, others have given you avenues to make a buck (paul) but you'de have to join the real world and open a bank account..

then theres me.... the troll.

mate looks like the only ligitemate left for you to earn a buck is start a cult only accepting cash donations, who knows you could be the next Jimmy J

anyhow feel free to report me for trolling,

love and kisses roughdiamond

 

#2017-02-03 02:40:59 by SCBeets2200 @SCBeets2200

@roughdiamond - Why? Why have you decided to latch onto this thread? Why are you picking on me? What are you trying to gain by doing that? Melcyan didn't provide me anything that I could deem "useful". Now, maybe I've been a little too hard on him. But I distinctly recall having already stated that I'm not interested in being preached at about "loving myself". I do not believe that it's logical or even possible to give oneself "love". You only give that to someone else. What's so difficult about that? Paulfox1's suggestion, though a good one, would have never really helped me all on account of the need to jump through hoops in a way that would not give positive results at home. I do still live with my parents, and I do kind of have to live by their rules. Which means I cannot easily just "go get a job". And no, I'm not forming any cults! I'm not into that kind of thing! It seems to me that all you want to do is take what I say completely out of context and try to bust my head with it. I'm willing to bet you didn't even read the whole post. All you cared about was the last paragraph at the bottom. So I ask you this: HOW ELSE DID YOU EXPECT ME TO RESPOND?! I hate people who decide to pick on me in any way. You are starting to remind me of another pain in the ass on another dating site who drove me away by picking on me relentlessly. If you don't like this, just don't read it. Go find something else more suited to your emotional sensitivity and stop picking on me. Because I sure as hell don't want to hear or see it! And, no, you don't love me. Don't try to make me believe that you care unless you are actually wanting to help. And please don't comment if all you want to do is pick and pound on me. Thank you. Discussion closed from this point forward.

#2017-02-03 17:31:58 by paulfox1 @paulfox1


@SCBeets2200

Jeez....Andrew, (RoughDiamond), isn't 'picking' on you at all. What he's seeing is a person who asked for help; a person who was offered help; then that same person refusing to help himself. How is anyone supposed to help you if you won't lift a finger to help yourself?

I gave you some sound advice about how to make money from home just by sitting at your computer. That got thrown into the 'too hard basket' because you have got to go and open a bank account....oh, pleeease!

Is it any wonder why Andrew is giving you a hard time if you can't be bothered to do something as simple as open a bank account with a dollar?

 

#2017-02-03 19:37:46 by roughdiamond @roughdiamond


@SCBeets2200

yep your an amazing man.....

a true catch for any woman..

xxx ooo xxx

roughdiamond.

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