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Imi was born and raised in Europe, Hungary. After finishing his school years, he moved to Canada to search for a better life. He lived in Toronto for 13 years and currently resides in Vancouver. He is a romantic at heart with a strong desire to always do the right thing. He would like to give hope to the Chinese and Asian ladies with his story and send a message that love eventually finds everybody.
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My Love for Lily 我对百合的爱, Part 6 - Falling in Love 坠入爱河    

By Imi
18011 Views | 93 Comments | 3/13/2014 5:30:18 PM

The last three days were flying way too fast because we were busy shopping. I wanted to buy something for my home, something Chinese.  So, I bought two wooden calligraphies, a small one and a big one. The big one was very expensive, but Lily bargained almost half of the price off. She was good at bargaining.



I remember, when we went to the market, just a few days after my arrival, to buy chicken, fresh eggs and vegetables, she had her own vendors where she bought the nice things from. She told me which of the them were cheap or expensive. It reminded me when I was a child and went with my mother to the market, she did the same. She knew exactly which vendor to go to, to get the nicest, but cheapest things.



When I was at the market with Lily, walking in the mud, stepping on rotten vegetables, jumping over smelly fish heads, I felt homesick a little bit. I missed Hungary, my mother and my childhood. I think that was the moment when I fell in love with China, right there, standing next to her, as the fish head was eyeballing me from the slippery mud, while she was talking to her vendor.



The whole picture reminded me again of my childhood. I began to look at Lily, not just like a Chinese city girl, but a very adroit Chinese woman. She even had her own hand scale in her bag and when she suspected something was not right, she took the scale out and re-measured the weight of the product and showed to the vendor the correct measurement. One day, another buyer saw what she was doing and asked her if she could borrow her scale because she thought she was being cheated by the vendor too.



I was smiling and was proud of her “No one can mess with my woman!”



The last night we ate dinner together. Everybody was there, Mandy who prepared the dinner for us, Sally, Jeff, Lily and me. They all wanted to say good bye to me before my return to Canada. After dinner we talked a little bit and I started to hug, say good bye to everyone and thank them for their hospitality. I shook hands with Jeff and hugged him before I told him to take care of his mother.



They wished me a nice trip and Lily was ready to take me to my hotel.



As we were going down with the elevator to the garage, I saw her being emotional.



“What's wrong Lily?”



“Nothing, just Jeff... I know my son... you hug him and... he cry... almost.”



“That's why you are upset?”



“Yes”



I had gotten close to Jeff; I liked him. He was just a normal kid, if you can say that about a boy who had no father figure in his life. Mandy was his friend, Sally was his teacher and his mother was the person who tried to raise him with her own idea how to raise a boy. A mother can't represent a father figure. That was missing from Jeff's life, a role model, a strong character who would be able to show him how to be a man.



We got to the hotel and Lily came up with me to my room and helped me to pack my bags. When we finished she folded her arms around my neck, I grabbed her tiny waist and lifted her in the air. She wanted to fold her legs around my waist, just like children do with their parents, but half of the way in the movement she stopped. Realizing what she was doing, she stepped back down to the floor.



Our bodies wanted more than just hugging and kissing and holding hands. I didn't really know about her feelings, but my body was yearning for her touch and my hands were burning from desire to touch hers.



We just looked at each other... saying nothing. I was playing with the thought in my head to push her onto my bed, but I was afraid of her getting mad at me. If she was a western woman I would have tried, but I didn't want to lose her because of a wrong move from my part. Instead, we kissed as usual, and she left. I was sad sitting in my room alone. Since Sally told me about Chinese customs and Lily's beliefs, I had been confused about how to behave myself. It would have been better if she didn't say anything. Only tomorrow morning left to try to steal at least one real kiss from her.



We were sitting at her dining table the next morning after breakfast trying to say some last words to each other on her laptop. She picked me up at 6am that morning from my hotel because I had to be at the airport by 8. My plane was leaving at 10.



“Thank you for your hospitality!” I typed.



“Thank you for coming to see me!” she said



“I will miss you!”



“I will miss you too!”



“Take care of yourself and Jeff!”



“I will, you too, take care of yourself and have a safe trip!”



We both felt sad a little. She lowered her head onto the table, she was tired, she said she didn't sleep well last night. I touched her silky hair and stroke her head to make her feel relaxed. Her hair moved as I was playing with it and revealed her neck. I couldn't resist and tasted her skin with a kiss. She stood up, sat on my lap and said “Please, don't!” while looking into my eyes.



We put our heads together and just sat there like this, for a moment. We didn't say anything, but we felt a lot.



Actually, I felt myself like a hungry bear in the cage, someone teasing him with a big jar of honey. Of course, the poor bear was drooling all over the cage. In my case, instead of drooling, I kept feeling butterflies in my stomach whenever she was beside me or, when she put a nice dress on and we went out to eat.



“Poor Imi bear, still has to drool for another 2 hours before a big plane takes his big, hairy bear butt all the way back to Canada”... I was losing my mind. How couldn't I? When she smelled so good sitting on my lap and I wanted to do nothing more, but taste her from the top of her head all the way down to her toes.



Unfortunately, I was stopped by her beliefs and couldn't open the “jar” to satisfy my hunger.



On the way to the airport, both of us were lost in our thoughts. I was trying to concentrate on my trip and she also was getting busy in a few days as well. Jeff, Mandy, her and her ex-husband were travelling to Australia and New Zealand for two weeks during Chinese New Year.



Last October, when they were about to book the tickets, she asked me if she could go with her ex- husband and Jeff to Australia for two weeks. We barely knew each other at that time, but she asked my permission to travel with her ex. She said, she knew that it might hurt me. That's why if I said no, she wouldn't go. I told her, she didn't need to ask my permission, I trusted her and I knew, this was the only time when Jeff's father spent a longer period of time with his son. Last year, they had travelled to Japan during New Year's.



We reached the airport, parked the car and went inside. After checking my bags in, only few minutes left to say good bye.



“Lily, thank you for showing me your life and being with me for my entire trip!”



“Thank you...coming see me!” she said.



“I really enjoyed being with all of you! I will call you when I got home!”



“Take care of yourself...have nice...trip!”



“I will, you too and say good bye to Jeff for me!”



I kissed her on the lips and hugged her tight.



“I like you a lot and I will miss you!” I whispered into her ear.



“Me too”



“Good bye! When you got home, you need to sleep.” I said to her.



“Okay, good bye!”



I went to the line and waited, after a while I looked back and she was still standing there, watching me. I waved at her, she waved me back with a smile.



They checked my passport, got my stamp in it. I went to the place where they had to search me. They asked me to turn, I did so, and saw her still standing there in the lobby looking at me, with her 163cm and 49kg frame she looked to be a tiny Chinese woman, but in my eyes she was bigger than the whole airport.



They finished searching me, I collected my stuff and turned back one more time to look at her. We waved to each other one last time and she disappeared as I started walking towards my boarding gate.



I sat down at the gate, already sending her a message and thanked her for everything again. Suddenly, I lowered my head because I didn't want anybody to see my eyes in full of tears.



I was in love!



坠入爱河



最后的三天是在匆忙购物中度过的,我想给我家买些有中国特色的纪念品装饰。我买了两幅中国书法字画,一大一小,大的要价很高,Lily把价格几乎杀到了一半。她的确是个杀价高手,我记得刚到深圳时,跟她一起到菜市场买菜,鸡鱼肉蛋菜,无论买什么,她都有自己固定的摊位,以最便宜的价格买到最新鲜的蔬菜。我想起小时候跟母亲一起到菜场,每个摊位的好坏贵贱,她都熟记于心。跟Lily一起穿梭在市场里,到处是烂菜烂叶的腐臭,死鱼头的腥臭,地上污秽泥泞,这一片哄乱却勾起了我的思乡之情,我开始怀念母亲和儿时的时光。我想就在这一刻,在一片污泥烂沼中,在那些鱼头用溜圆的眼睛盯着我时,当我就站在Lily身边,看着她跟一个个摊主讨价还价时,我爱上了中国。看着眼前的Lily,她不再是那个娇贵的城市女孩,而是个充满生活味道的成熟女人。她甚至在包里随身带着个小计量称,如果怀疑被缺斤少两了,就把小称掏出来称给卖家看。有一天,另一个也在买菜的女人感觉买的东西分量不足,还借了Lily的小称用。



我骄傲地捂嘴笑,“没人能骗的了我的女人!”



最后一个晚上,大家都过来跟我道别,我们一起吃晚饭,Mandy, Sally, Jeff, Lily和我,Mandy下厨。饭后,我们聊了一会,我一一拥抱每个人,感谢她们对我的热情相待。轮到Jeff时,我跟他握手并拥抱,告诉他要照顾好妈妈。



他们每个人都祝我一路顺风,Lily起身送我回宾馆。



乘电梯下楼时,Lily情绪很不好。



“你怎么了,Lily?”



“没什么,只是Jeff… 我了解我的儿子… 你拥抱他… 他哭了… 几乎。”



“因为这个,所以你伤心吗?”



“是的。”



这些天Jeff逐渐跟我亲近了起来,如果想想在他的成长中,父亲这个角色几乎是缺失的,那么说来他还是个很正常的孩子。Mandy是他的朋友,Sally是他的家庭老师,Lily以自己的方式把他抚养长大。但是妈妈并不能取代父亲的角色,他需要一个男人为他树立一个男人的坚强形象。



到宾馆后,Lily跟我一起上楼去了房间,帮我打完包后,她用双臂环着我的脖子,我紧紧地搂住她细细的腰并把她抱了起来,她吊在我的脖子上,双腿像小孩子一样想从我身后环上来,但到一半时,她突然停了下来,好像意识到不该那样做,于是松开我的脖子,站到地上,又向后退了一步。我们的身体渴望更多,不仅仅是拥抱一下,或者拉拉手。我不知道她当时的真实感受,我只知道我的身体在呼喊她的抚慰,我的双手因为渴望触摸她的肌肤而灼热发烫。



我们静静地看着对方,没开口,可我脑子里的念头是真想一把把她抱到床上。我不敢,我怕她会生气,如果她是个西方女人,我倒知道自己该怎么对待,可是我不能因为自己的轻率冒失而失去她。我们像往常一样轻轻吻了对方,然后她离开了。我独自坐在房间里,有些伤心。自从Sally告诉我关于Lily的信仰和中国的传统,我对自己在Lily面前的举手抬足都不知所措,如果她不告诉我这些该多好啊。现在只希望明天早上能从Lily那里再偷一个恋人之间的真正的吻吧。



第二天早上6点Lily就到宾馆来接我了,我10点的飞机,8点就得到机场。



早饭后,我们坐在桌前,用她的电脑打字,利用最后的时间说说话。



“谢谢你对我这么好。”我打字说到。



“谢谢你来看我!”她说。



“我会想念你的!”



“我也会想念你!”



“你多保重,还有Jeff。”



“我会的。你也是,路上注意安全!”



我们都有些难过,她把头伏到桌子上,她累了,说昨晚没有怎么睡觉。我轻抚她的头和如丝长发,她的头发滑到了两边,露出了脖颈,我忍不住低头亲吻她丝滑的肌肤。她站起来,坐到我的腿上,说,



“请别!”她看着我的眼睛。



我们头挨头坐着,静静的,好一会。其实我感觉自己像个困在笼子里的熊,饥饿难耐,却有人在笼子外面用一香甜的蜜罐在引诱他,可怜的大熊无计可施却只能在笼子里看着蜜罐流口水,而我本人只能任凭胸中那只小兔子扑扑跳着,无论是当她近在咫尺坐在我旁边时,还是当她穿上一件漂亮的裙子跟我一起外出时。



“可怜的Imi 熊,再流两个小时的口水吧,飞机一会儿就会把你那毛茸茸的大屁股送回加拿大了。”… 我有些走神,我怎能保持清醒呢,她就坐在我的腿上,她的体香如此清新怡人,此刻我只愿能吻遍她的身体。可是她的信仰阻止了我,我根本不能把蜜罐打开,满足自己的饥饿。



去机场的路上,我俩都沉默着,我在想着我的回程,她马上也要有事情做。Jeff, Mandy, 她,还有她的前夫,过几天也就是中国的春节时,要一起去澳大利亚和新西兰旅行。 早在10月份他们准备订机票时,Lily问我同不同意她和前夫带着Jeff一起去旅行,要知道那时我们的关系才刚刚开始,她却在征询我的同意,她说她觉得可能会伤我的心,所以如果我不同意,她是不会去的。我告诉她真的不要顾虑我,也不用征得我的允许,我信任她,这是一年中Jeff难得的机会和父亲真正在一起。他们去年春节去了日本旅行。



到达机场,停好车,托运了行李后就只给我们留下几分钟的时间了。



“Lily, 谢谢你,让我了解你的生活,这些日子一直跟我在一起。”



“谢谢…来看我!”



“跟你在一起我真的很快乐!到家后我马上就给你打电话!”



“你多保重,一路顺风!”



我吻了她的唇,并紧紧地把她抱在怀里。



“我真的很喜欢你,我会想你的。”我在她的耳边低语。



“我也是。”



“再见,回家后你要睡一会。”我对她说。



“好的,再见。”



我走到等待安检的队伍后面等着,回头看时,她还在原地站着,看着我。我朝她挥挥手,她微笑着也朝我挥手。



他们检查了我的护照,在上面扣了章,我走上安检台,他们在我身上扫了扫,告诉我转身,Lily仍然站在那里,看着我。她1.63米的身高和49公斤的体重非常娇小,然而此时她高大到在整个机场大厅,我的眼里只能看到她一个。



安检完毕,我收拾起自己的东西,回头再看看她,我们挥手最后告别,她转身离开,我朝登机口走去。



我坐下来,又给她发了一条信息。那一刻,我不得不把头低下,以免别人看到,我已经双眼含泪。



我恋爱了!


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#2014-03-13 17:46:10 by JohnAbbot @JohnAbbot

Imi - if you didn't have all the Chinese women eating out of your hands before this post, you certainly will now. This is amazingly romantic stuff.

My hat is off to you for taking it slow and respectfully with Lily. Lots of men couldn't have been so restrained, but whether or not it worked out for you with Lily, being respectful of a woman's feelings and principles, whether she is Chinese or not, is bound to get a growing relationship off to a better start than pushing her into doing something she is not yet ready to do.

#2014-03-13 19:01:17 by Barry1 @Barry1

@Imi5922

In my humble opinion - from the point of view of a normal Western man - I think it would have been entirely appropriate for you and Lily to have made love on the final night of your stay in China.

The fact that Lily let you return home after traveling so far to see her without the relationship being consummated in this way, is disappointing stuff indeed. Outrageous!

I know many Chinese ladies will think I'm some sort of sex starved typical man (which, by the way, I am) for saying this, but I must call it how I see it. Sorry about this to all the ladies. Actually, cancel that - I'm not sorry at all. The truth must out!

Now Imi - I'm going to give you some sorely needed advice.

It's time to DUMP LILY!

Yes, mate - get rid of her.

I can line you up with plenty of more receptive, red blooded ladies, if you but give me the go ahead. No need to thank me, because as a fellow brother, I'll be glad to do this. I feel it's my duty in fact. You've been let down badly - you now need a brother to help put you back on the right road where you belong.

I'll also be happy to meet you in the pub and we'll have a few drinks together. We'll cheerfully yet somewhat soulfully sing a song at full noise that goes something like this,

"Goodbye Lily, goodbye
Goodbye Lily, goodbye
Once an apple of my eye
But all I can say now is
Goodbye Lily, goodbye!"

After six or ten martinis and perhaps a couple of rums, our singing will become even louder and I have a feeling the entire room by then will have joined in, resplendently and joyfully shouting out with us,

"Goodbye Lily, goodbye
Nice to have known you, but
Goodbye Lily, goodbye!"

#2014-03-13 21:18:36 by heziling7727 @heziling7727

看到你的文字,让我羡慕。我渴望得到像你一样的爱情,你的文字让我又重新点燃了对爱情的渴望。希望尽快听到你们的下一个故事!不要轻易放弃刚刚开始的幸福,无论有多少困难!

#2014-03-13 21:29:54 by hellenwei @hellenwei

nice and romantic story ,(y)

#2014-03-13 22:37:23 by panda2009 @panda2009

发乎于情,止乎于礼。
寸寸柔肠,盈盈粉泪;
柔情似水,佳期如梦;
漫漫长路,款款深情...
Affection and stop at the ceremony.
The soft intestines turn a hundred times, the eyes fill with tears;
Tender and soft as water, lovers' rendezvous as dream;
Long long road, slow slow affectionate...

#2014-03-13 23:45:25 by shirley9183 @shirley9183

I even can guess out who is this Lily on CLM now!

#2014-03-14 00:42:33 by newbeginning @newbeginning

Just read this episode and wanted to comment. Have you seen the movie "A River Runs Through It"? There is a scene in the movie where Brad Pitt's character is fly fishing on the river with brother, the dialog in the movie is his brothers voice narrating the scene. Essentially he describes how Brad Pitt's character places the fly for the fish to bite in the perfect spot, he does so with such fluid, smooth, graceful motions landing the fly just right, the big trout leaps out of the water with the fly in its mouth....he has caught the prize fish in the river, he had used all his skill, knowledge, intuition to catch this fish!!

This was amazing moment in the movie and can apply to real life any situation or life event!

Yes I am a hopeless romantic!

Love the story look forward to the next episode!

#2014-03-14 10:27:55 by kindhonestlady @kindhonestlady

l am waiting to read more bout your article . very interesting of you experience and thank for you share about your story with everyone here. you is good guy l think from your article . wish all best with you .

#2014-03-14 15:40:58 by melcyan @melcyan

Imi, the following words of yours raised questions for me.

“When I was at the market with Lily, walking in the mud, stepping on rotten vegetables, jumping over smelly fish heads, I felt homesick a little bit. I missed Hungary, my mother and my childhood. I think that was the moment when I fell in love with China, right there, standing next to her, as the fish head was eyeballing me from the slippery mud, while she was talking to her vendor."

"his mother was the person who tried to raise him with her own idea how to raise a boy. A mother can't represent a father figure. That was missing from Jeff's life, a role model, a strong character who would be able to show him how to be a man."

I find your story very interesting and very well written. You are a determined, hard working, responsible, sensitive and empathetic man. I suspect your mother was the biggest influence in your life. What was the relationship like between your mother and father? How did this affect you? What was the relationship like between Lilly's parents? How did this affect her? If these questions are too personal then don't answer but I ask them because they are important questions that many people seeking a life partner ignore.

Anyway thank you for writing so well and sharing your personal story.

#2014-03-14 16:31:23 by dancingshoes @dancingshoes

Is Lily a Christian that you were stopped by her beliefs? We definitely should not have sex before marriage, as the Christians? I am always confused that the religious can not make sex before marriage, but why did God put the desires to our nature while He created the humans? How are we going to do that to restrain our desires? I think it is hard to do.

If I have the deep feelings to the guy, I think I could not wait to jump into his bed....instead of pusing him away. I will forget the belief that "no sex before marriage"..Ha-ha. :D

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