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My Love for Lily 我对百合的爱, Part 14 - No Paradise with Man! 有男人就不会有天堂    

By Imi
3693 Views | 9 Comments | 6/18/2014 3:32:15 PM

Seeking paradise with a Chinese woman, will it come to be?

After lunch, we started to get ready to go back to Shenzhen to meet with Sally for the weekend. I saw Lily and Mandy talking about something and they told me that, with Jeff helping them in translation, Jeff and Mandy will stay in Yangjiang for another 2-3 days, Lily and I will go to Shenzhen only, to meet with Sally. I was surprised, but it gave me the chance to talk to her about my plan.

We had 4-5 hours of drive ahead of us, 4-5 hours of being with her in a car and talk. Her English improved a lot and we were able to communicate very well. Before my travel to China, she told me all about the Seattle trip and said, she was sorry for not calling me and promised, if next time she came to Seattle she would. She also told me that she loved Seattle and was happy because Mandy's friend had talked to her in English during the entire trip. 

“Why did you let me to come to see you again, when you told me that in May, when we broke up, you never wanted to see me again?” I started out bluntly in the car.

“We are still friends and you wanted to travel to China, I can't tell you not to come.”

“But you know that my feelings for you are not based on friendship. My feelings for you are on a much deeper level.”said to her.

“I told you before you came here, not to talk about this and you promised to do so. Why are we talking about this now?”

“Did you really think that I travelled 10000km, just to be here and I wouldn't talk about this? You were in my head everyday, you meant something to me. At least give me the chance to talk...”

“I don't want to talk. We go to Shenzhen, you can talk to Sally.” She was angry, but so was I.

I was looking out the side window, thinking.“ Why did you come here? She will never let you back into her life. She is afraid of you because you turned into a nobody! You have nothing but love for her. That is not enough, she has a son to think about. You met with her in the wrong time, you are broke. This is not your time!” The negative thoughts were pouring into my head.

I was ready to give up on my plan. After 30-40 minutes without a word between us, I turned to her and said.

“I am sorry Lily, I will not talk to you about this anymore!”

“No. I am sorry because you came here for nothing!”she said.

“Let's just enjoy the trip and the rest of my stay!” suggested to her.

She put some music on. After awhile, I began to feel better. The music brought back the memories from my first visit. I could stop myself not talking to her about us, but I couldn't stop my feelings to come back to me. I was happy sitting next to her in the car and listening Chinese songs. A song came on, that I knew from my previous trip.

“I like this song!”said to her.

“Me too, but this is my favourite.” She said after the song stopped and put another song on.

It was a Chinese love song, I remembered this one too. The singer was male and the song was very heartfelt. She started to sing along with the singer. I felt happy and sad at the same time. It reminded me of the lonely nights in my room, thinking about my beautiful Chinese woman in the dark, crying inside.

I was looking at the scenery from the side window and couldn't stop myself being emotional. I was trying to hold my tears back while she was singing. What a sad, but beautiful feeling it was!

“I love music!” she said when the song finally stopped. “ Music is my friend. I listen to music everyday when I go to bed.”

“So, you think, you can't love a man, only music?” I teased her.

“Men are bad, they hurt me.”

“Some of them maybe, but not every man is the same, and also, a man can give you a different kind of happiness.”

“No! Music is the best happiness I can get.”

“Okay, then try to imagine that you are listening to your favourite music in a man's arms!”I said.

“No man, just music.”she said, and we started laughing.

“Lily, a good man can give you happiness and if you used all of your senses at the same time that would be the best happiness you could get.” I said to her.

“I don't understand.”

“For example, if you and I were married. Try to imagine, it's night time, you listen to your favourite music with me, you look at me as I hold you in my arms, I taste your lips with mine, we touch each other, smell each other. You feel that my body became alive and I feel that your body responds to mine. We are both alive and become one. That is perfect happiness. That is Paradise.” I tried to convince her.

“No Paradise with man!” she said with a giggle in her voice.

We burst into laughs.

We reached Shenzhen , and after we had dinner with Sally in a restaurant we headed to Lily's home. Lily went to take a shower, Sally and I went for a walk in Lotus park. Sally was very busy with her work and she had only the weekend off. She said, she made good money that week and she was happy. She was young, only 24 at that time and very smart. She asked me if I wanted her to translate anything for Lily.

“Yes, I did, but not anymore.”

“Why not?” She asked.

“Lily doesn't want me to talk about us with her anymore.”

“Okay, tell me what you wanted to say to her.”

I told her about my plan.

“I want to work for 2 years very hard until I saved up the money that I lost. After 2 years, I want to get married with her. After that we need to do the immigration papers. That means, they can't come right away to live with me after we got married. I want to support them financially from Canada until they can. I really want Jeff to start his college years in Canada. I would like it if Lily could give me these 2 years and wait for me. Basically, that's it. I want them in my life and to have a good marriage and live a happy family life.”

“Okay, I will tell this to her. Don't worry, I know her, she will listen to me.” she said.





































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#2014-06-18 15:46:36 by JohnAbbot @JohnAbbot

Imi, to be honest, I think for a couple of posts you kind of strayed from the love story somehow, but to me this post brings it right back into play. I for one am back wondering does Lily or doesn't she become Imi's lifemate?

But of course that may or may not be much of a cliffhanger depending on whether or not the rumors of you having found someone of interest on CLM are true. But now we just have two open questions and both are hanging from the same cliff. (clap)

Ladies, I highly recommend that you search the meaning of "cliffhanger" if you don't understand it. This is a pretty cool word to know, and if you can use it in the right time and place, Western guys heads are going to turn. If my memory serves me, it originates from the early days of movies in America. But maybe that's just where it became popularized. (Look up popularized too (rofl).

A very good read Imi.

#2014-06-20 11:34:03 by aussieghump @aussieghump

Prefer the chest!

#2014-06-20 20:59:15 by prana @prana


#2014-06-20 21:09:47 by HZDX6167 @HZDX6167


#2014-06-20 23:16:09 by anonymous10592 @anonymous10592

haha ,me too, more hairy chest photos? (giggle)

#2014-06-21 19:40:09 by prana @prana

Your stories,let me suddenly remembered a song:

Men Kuba is not a crime of

In the time I was a boy
The people around that can not shed tears
After I matured
On the mirror that I can not regret it
Hovering in a range of non-stop
Heart is in the continuous cycle of lifeline
Who insisted on day and night sleep mask
I am physically and mentally exhausted
Obviously in tears when the
They forget how to weep the eyes
Obviously regret the time
Hearts how to forget regret
I am tired of invisible pressure presses
Began to feel a little breathing can not do anything
Slowly remove the defense
Slowly slowly tears regret
Men Kuba Kuba Kuba is not a crime of
Another strong people have the right to fatigue
Behind the smile, if only heartbreak
Why should a man startled so embarrassed
Men Kuba Kuba Kuba is not a crime of
To taste the taste of tears after an absence of long -
Even if the rain is also a kind of beauty
Better to take advantage of this opportunity
Cried back
Is not a crime
慢慢后悔 慢慢流泪
男人哭吧哭吧哭吧 不是罪
男人哭吧哭吧哭吧 不是罪
慢慢后悔 慢慢流泪
男人哭吧哭吧哭吧 不是罪
男人哭吧哭吧哭吧 不是罪
男人哭吧哭吧哭吧 不是罪
男人哭吧哭吧哭吧 不是罪

#2014-06-22 12:07:11 by weiming @weiming

If you really need 2 years of time, you should talk about to get married again after 2 years but not now, you describe to her how wonderful the future, but unreachable, only make her sad. Why don't you determine the heart, to face the problems and the future together?

#2014-06-23 20:36:21 by paulfox1 @paulfox1

This has to be the most BORING post yet !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

We all look forward to your episodes my friend, but this one had me sticking pins in my eyes

If all this happened 2 years ago, how can you remember the conversations so vividly?

I cant remember what I ate for dinner 2 nights ago!

#2014-11-24 13:12:42 by cffy6985 @cffy6985


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