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Imi was born and raised in Europe, Hungary. After finishing his school years, he moved to Canada to search for a better life. He lived in Toronto for 13 years and currently resides in Vancouver. He is a romantic at heart with a strong desire to always do the right thing. He would like to give hope to the Chinese and Asian ladies with his story and send a message that love eventually finds everybody.
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My Love for Lily 我对百合的爱, Conclusion - Square One 结语 - 心殇    

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16941 Views | 72 Comments | 9/12/2014 4:47:43 PM
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#2014-09-15 23:59:48 by summer725 @summer725

@JulyChen
有什么想法,都可以在这里说出来,不要担心有人会拍你的砖,看Imi博客,给他祝福的女人,不一定都是在崇拜他或者爱上他,他也不会是大众情人。看他的博客,让我想起我的一个朋友,他是一个美国的英语老师,他爱上一个中国女人,说真的,在世俗的眼里,很多人会很纳闷,他怎么会爱上一个一无是处的女人。他告诉我关于他的所有感觉,真的,他们不是真正的合适,他爱上了他对她的感觉,但是,他是那样单纯、执着。他为爱纠结,我帮助他理清他混乱的情感,他也认识到自己的问题,他也知道他应该要什么,但是,最后,他告诉我,他曾经对她有过承诺,他必须做到最好,给她时间,如果不行,才可以分开。面对这样的男人,我只能祝福。这是一种类型的男人,不要用其他男人的样子去揣测他们

#2014-09-16 02:54:14 by Imi5922 @Imi5922

@tiankong0207

Thank you for you kind words! I wish good luck to you as well!

@shirley9183

Thanks for your comment! I understand now what you really meant by your previous comment. I wish every Chinese woman would think the same way like you do about getting to know each other first as friends and see if there was more other than friendship.
The reality is that there are very few percentage of Chinese women think this way on dating sites.
Three years ago when I've started my online dating experience I thought the same about how to build a relationship like you do. Being friends first; but most of the time it's not really working with Chinese women, some of them don't even like if the man talks to other women beside her.
I'm a westerner so we usually date first for 1-2 years and then we talk about more serious topics like love and marriage.
In a long term relationship, in my opinion, it's really hard to keep up the interest in each other for 1-2 years without seeing each other in person, especially if the woman has a child.
I understand where you come from though.

Thank you for your comment and good advice!

#2014-09-16 03:08:52 by Imi5922 @Imi5922

@seekdream

Thank you for your kind words an encouragement!
Yes, I believe the best has not come yet.

@zqy2014

Lily, you are a very wise woman. I agree with everything you've said in your comment!
It's interesting you mentioned a "little boy".
A couple of days ago I've started writing about a boy who wanted to become a good man; just to do some healing and soul searching.
I still don't where I go with that because its very personal, but I feel that it helps me big time to understand why I am the man that I am today.

Thank you for your comment!

#2014-09-16 03:41:27 by Imi5922 @Imi5922

@melcyan

My English is not good enough to express how I felt when I read your comment.
I am at that place what you described in it but I wasnt brave enogh to admit it. Your comment helped me to take the first step to the right direction and acknowledge the truth.
My failure is my best teacher to be honest with myself and find the right and real me.

Since I've been on CLM I'm coming out from the darkness slowly. One day, I know, I'll be there where I want to be; alone or with someone doesnt really matter. What matters is I'll be reconnected with my own and true self.

Thank you very much for your comment! You helped me a lot with it!

#2014-09-16 03:51:58 by Imi5922 @Imi5922

@lucyove3

Thank you for your kind and caring words!

I promise, I'll take your advice in the future!

I wish you good luck and happiness!

#2014-09-16 09:04:16 by haifeng @haifeng

Imi,机会就像日出,每天都有新的太阳升起,只要坚持就会发现生命中最美丽的阳光!

#2014-09-16 09:08:43 by haifeng @haifeng

@shirley9183
嗨,你好shirley!你现在怎么样,一切都好吗?

#2014-09-16 10:05:03 by shirley9183 @shirley9183

@haifeng 海风姐,你好啊!久未谋面啦!

我很好,国庆节去探望我的德国蜗牛,我们彼此写了三年的信,我觉得是时候去看看他啦。你与你的男友怎么样啊?好象原来我在哥斯达黎加的时候就听说他要来中国看你,但是后来你很不来这个网站啦,也就不知道你的近况啦,一切都还好吧?希望听到你的好消息!

#2014-09-16 10:35:32 by lucyove3 @lucyove3

@shirley, i feel moved by ur comments here after i read them just now. I would have read them before i gave Imi suggestions ... ur advice is more specific and valuable , but Imi may misunderstand it ,because he has been painful up to now...i wish u to be a charming bride soon . i am fond of ur every word and ur big bright smile on ur face. i hope u can constantly give us suggestions and wisdom and warmth......

#2014-09-16 12:50:18 by haifeng @haifeng

@shirley9183
你好,shirley,我一切都很好,无论是爱情或者是事业都是喜忧参半的,男朋友非常优秀,是我的理想标准,但是影响我们之间情感的除了时间,距离,情亲之外,还有一个有恩与我的前夫,特别是我男朋友的到来,他竟然给我们做了一顿能把老鼠咸死的午饭,让我很是尴尬,苦笑不得。
至于婚姻,我想等明年我儿子高考以后再考虑,我不想因为我的事情影响孩子的情绪,如果他能考入大连理工或者天津南开,我也就放心了。
现在我只想好好享受当下的时光,把一切的结果教给老天呀处理。
现在你怎么样?还在哥斯达黎加吗?

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