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Imi was born and raised in Europe, Hungary. After finishing his school years, he moved to Canada to search for a better life. He lived in Toronto for 13 years and currently resides in Vancouver. He is a romantic at heart with a strong desire to always do the right thing. He would like to give hope to the Chinese and Asian ladies with his story and send a message that love eventually finds everybody.
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My Love for Lily 我对百合的爱, Conclusion - Square One 结语 - 心殇    

By Imi
16941 Views | 72 Comments | 9/12/2014 4:47:43 PM
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#2014-09-15 23:59:48 by summer725 @summer725


#2014-09-16 02:54:14 by Imi5922 @Imi5922


Thank you for you kind words! I wish good luck to you as well!


Thanks for your comment! I understand now what you really meant by your previous comment. I wish every Chinese woman would think the same way like you do about getting to know each other first as friends and see if there was more other than friendship.
The reality is that there are very few percentage of Chinese women think this way on dating sites.
Three years ago when I've started my online dating experience I thought the same about how to build a relationship like you do. Being friends first; but most of the time it's not really working with Chinese women, some of them don't even like if the man talks to other women beside her.
I'm a westerner so we usually date first for 1-2 years and then we talk about more serious topics like love and marriage.
In a long term relationship, in my opinion, it's really hard to keep up the interest in each other for 1-2 years without seeing each other in person, especially if the woman has a child.
I understand where you come from though.

Thank you for your comment and good advice!

#2014-09-16 03:08:52 by Imi5922 @Imi5922


Thank you for your kind words an encouragement!
Yes, I believe the best has not come yet.


Lily, you are a very wise woman. I agree with everything you've said in your comment!
It's interesting you mentioned a "little boy".
A couple of days ago I've started writing about a boy who wanted to become a good man; just to do some healing and soul searching.
I still don't where I go with that because its very personal, but I feel that it helps me big time to understand why I am the man that I am today.

Thank you for your comment!

#2014-09-16 03:41:27 by Imi5922 @Imi5922


My English is not good enough to express how I felt when I read your comment.
I am at that place what you described in it but I wasnt brave enogh to admit it. Your comment helped me to take the first step to the right direction and acknowledge the truth.
My failure is my best teacher to be honest with myself and find the right and real me.

Since I've been on CLM I'm coming out from the darkness slowly. One day, I know, I'll be there where I want to be; alone or with someone doesnt really matter. What matters is I'll be reconnected with my own and true self.

Thank you very much for your comment! You helped me a lot with it!

#2014-09-16 03:51:58 by Imi5922 @Imi5922


Thank you for your kind and caring words!

I promise, I'll take your advice in the future!

I wish you good luck and happiness!

#2014-09-16 09:04:16 by haifeng @haifeng


#2014-09-16 09:08:43 by haifeng @haifeng


#2014-09-16 10:05:03 by shirley9183 @shirley9183

@haifeng 海风姐,你好啊!久未谋面啦!


#2014-09-16 10:35:32 by lucyove3 @lucyove3

@shirley, i feel moved by ur comments here after i read them just now. I would have read them before i gave Imi suggestions ... ur advice is more specific and valuable , but Imi may misunderstand it ,because he has been painful up to now...i wish u to be a charming bride soon . i am fond of ur every word and ur big bright smile on ur face. i hope u can constantly give us suggestions and wisdom and warmth......

#2014-09-16 12:50:18 by haifeng @haifeng


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