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Barry from Australia is a questioning soul who looks at social issues from an alternative point of view and instead of asking, “Why?”, he asks “Why not?” He’s convinced that many of his previous incarnations were spent in China. He feels drawn to the people there; attracted by their rich culture and way of life. If given one wish from God, he’d reply, “I want everyone on Earth to be the same colour, speak the same language, and treat each other as they themselves would like to be treated.”
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My China Trip - Day 21, Part 1 我的中国之行 -- 第21天第一部分    

By Barry Pittman
12562 Views | 56 Comments | 8/31/2014 1:24:30 PM

No, that is not Barry and Tina, it just looks like them!

The following article contains material of a sexual nature.  If you’re easily offended by such things, then please stop reading now.  I need to reiterate that this is a factual report of my trip to China, where two people who’d been chatting on the internet for many months finally met each other face to face, person to person.  Through a series of travels and adventures, this is a tale of two people  - Tina and I  -  who morph seamlessly together into what can only be described as an exultant and unashamed love story.

接下来的文章会含量有性本质的内容。如果你很容易被这样的内容所冒犯,那么请你现在就停止阅读。我得要再重申一次,这系列文章是对我的中国之行的真实的记录报告。在那里,两个在网络上已经沟通了解了几个月的人终于在现实生活中面对面的真正的相见了。经过一系列的旅行的冒险活动,这成为了两个人的精彩故事—TINA和我 – 两个人一起演变出了一个亲密无间的只能被形容为让人欢欣的一点也不会觉得难为难情的爱情故事。

Sex is an important part of the love process.  I can therefore see no good or substantial reason why such prurient details should be omitted, providing they’re given in good faith, without overly gratuitous or unnecessarily salacious embellishment.

性爱是爱情进程中的一个重要的部分。因此,只要是在正确的信念下,只要不是毫无来由的过多描写或是作没有必要的猥亵润色描写,我看不到有什么好的理由或是有很多的理由应当省略这样的情色细节。

This was day twenty one of our liaison.  Tina and I were inexorably drawing closer and closer together in so many ways.  Physically, mentally, spiritually. It seemed like after so many months of search  -  years, in fact  - I had finally met someone who cared deeply about me just as much as I cared deeply for her.  A huge heap of thanks must go to chinalovematch.net, a great Chinese dating site, for enabling this to occur.

今天是我们见面以来的第二十一天,TINA和我无论是在身体,思想,灵魂各个方面都被一股不可阻档的力量拉得越来越接近。就象是经过这么多个月以来的寻找 – 事实上应该是这么多年以来的寻找 – 我终于遇上了一个就如同我深深的关心爱护着她一样的关心爱护着我的人。无尽的感谢chinalovematch.net这个网站,感谢它使这一切能够发生。

One of the reasons for the writing of this series is to hopefully encourage others to follow my footsteps in this quest for romance and happiness, particularly those who’ve been hurt or badly burnt in past relationships just as I had been.  To not give up when the path ahead seems to be full of dessicated tumbleweeds, rather than the beckoning red roses of love.  Oftentimes it really is the darkest and most bleak, just before the dawn of a new and marvellous beginning.  Keep striving forward, searching for that elusive partner, that karmic soul mate that you’ve dreamt of for so long.  I know this advice by now is somewhat of a cliché, being freely given by many people to anyone who’ll listen, yet its essential truth cannot be diminished nor denied.  Truth is truth, whether cliché or not.

另一个写作这一系列文章的原因是,希望能够鼓励到其他如同我一样寻找浪漫爱情和幸福的人们,犹其是那些跟我一样在过去的关系中曾经受过伤害或是搞得焦头烂额的人们。鼓励他们不要放弃,即使当前路看起来似乎全部都是干枯的风滚草,而不是令人心动的红色的爱情玫瑰。生活经常如此,在一个崭新的绝妙的不可思议的新生活到来前的黎明之际,总是最黑暗最荒凉的。坚持继续向前努力抗争,寻找那位难得的伴侣,那位你长久以来梦寐以求的心灵伴侣。我知道现在这样的建议听起来有点象陈词滥调。很多人都可以尽情地给任何一位听者以这样的建议。然而,它的本质事实是不能因此而被减少或是否定的。事实总是事实,无论它是否是陈词滥调。

The physical love making between Tina and I in particular was becoming more passionate as time evolved.  Last night for example, had been wonderful.  As just about every night of late in fact had been.  We were two lovers enthusiastically engaged in pure and beautiful sexual intercourse, an act that had been performed by mankind since time immemorial.  We didn’t regard it as something unclean or obscene, but a process that was entirely natural and normal between two people who loved each other.

随着时间的推移,TINA和我越来越有激情,尤其是在我们的身体情爱之间。比如昨晚,是那么的美妙精彩。事实上,就如曾经的每个深夜一样。我们就是两个爱人,充满热情的投入于这项纯静的美丽的情爱运动中。一个人类自远古以来就已经热衷于从事的运动。我们一点也不觉得这是件不纯洁或是淫秽的事,相反,我们觉得这是两个相爱的人之间一个完全自然的正常的进程。

Yes, here again was that “L” word.  Love.   Tina and I had finally and freely now started to profess and affirm love to each other and if the truth be known, we’d felt this way quietly for a long while now.  It had been an unspoken feeling that mysteriously and tacitly in many and varied subtle ways, had continuously been exchanged between us. A long series of many tender moments silently shared between us.  But wanting to be sure  -  not wishing to act too impulsively or prematurely  -  we’d each kept our underlying sentiments to ourselves.  But once we finally expressed them openly, it was akin to a dam of emotions, thoughts and feelings at last finally and fulsomely breaking.

是的,这里再说一次,这是个“L”的单词。这就是“爱情”。TINA和我最后终于开始自在地互相表白爱意。而且事实是,我们相互暗暗的感受爱意已经很长一段时间了。它是一种没有道出的感觉,在很多方面,如此细微的不可觉察,却又是如此神秘的如此的心照不宣的在我俩之间相互传达。我们之间相互分享了很多沉默的温柔的时刻。但是却想要确定 – 而不想冲动行事或是表现得不成熟 – 我们将各自的情感深藏于各自的心底。只是,一旦我们最后将这种情感公开表达时,就象是决提的大坝,我们的情感思想感情最后终于爆发了,如此的热情澎湃。

After our love making on this night, Tina kissed me tenderly, looked me in the eyes under the warm glow of the soft bed lamp that lay inconspicuously nearby and said, “Barry, if I was a little younger, I’d love to have a baby with you.”

这天夜里,我们做完爱之后,TINA温柔地亲吻着我,在不易觉察的晕黄的船头灯的照耀之下,看着我的眼睛,对我说“BARRY,如果我再年轻一点,我真想和你再生一个小孩。”

This was the sweetest thing she had ever said to me, made even more poignant by the fact that I could see she was serious, she wasn’t simply mouthing a few glib words to me.  At that moment, I felt it was maybe the sweetest thing anyone had ever said to me.  My eyes filled with tears as she said this, I found it hard to retain a manly composure.  Never before had such feelings of adoration and passion assaulted my senses in this way. 

这是她对我说过的最甜蜜的话语。我可以感觉到她是如此的认真,而不是仅仅是油嘴滑舌的跟我说一些甜言蜜语而已。这个事实使我更觉得甜蜜的忧伤。这个时刻,我觉得这仿佛是我这辈子以来听到的别人对我说过的最甜蜜的事情。她说着这些的时候,我的眼中不禁溢满了泪水,此时我觉得保持男人的镇静是如此的困难。我从来没有过象现在这样的感觉,激情和爱慕之情排山倒海般地淹没了我。

These words, these feelings, comprehensively confirmed to me that Tina and I were indeed truly and honestly in love.

这些话语,这些感觉,让我彻底的坚信,TINA和我是真正的诚实的相互爱着对方,我们淋浴在爱河之中。

To be continued in Day 21, Part 2

待续  



 


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#2014-10-09 03:37:58 by JohnAbbot @JohnAbbot

First, let me apologize for the long delay in posting this article. It was not Barry's fault and was submitted to us long ago. However, somehow my email to Marrisa for the translation did not get through to her and by the time I followed up on it over a week later to see what was happening she was just starting her vacation which included a lot of travel. So we then had to wait for her to return home to her computer. Being the great sport she is, Marrisa did the translation within hours of returning home, which is much appreciated. The fault for the delay is entirely mine. I apologize to all, especially Barry and @Nekko :)

Second, Barry please excuse me for doubting you, but I am very suspicious that these photos are not pictures of you and Tina (think) There is just something not quite right about them. Be straight with us - are these glamour shots that you had professionally done by great Chinese photographer? :o

I sure hope not, because you are bound to have @paulfox1 on your case in a big way for that! (wasntme)

Those concerns aside, we are very happy for you that you and Tina have formed a relationship filled with love, friendship and passion. What a great cornerstone for a lifelong love.

#2014-10-09 06:08:40 by Barry1 @Barry1

@JohnAbbot

"let me apologize for the long delay in posting this article"

Thanks for this, John, but no apology is needed. Au contraire, I must thank both you and Marissa for the wonderful work you each do in your own respective areas of activity. Marissa in particular, who I'm sure had no idea that this China journey would develop into such a long and convoluted series of written articles.

I should mention that my original manuscript of this particular piece contained a few more details about the interactions between Tina and I, but John wisely judged that these were a little too graphic for publication on what is after all, an international dating website. I enjoyed writing them however, even if they'll never see the light of day.

As mentioned in my article, anyone who is offended by words that hint that two people who meet on a dating site may actually end up engaging in physical sex should realise that this is a vital and important part of the whole process, at least up until old age occurs.

My feeling thus is it shouldn't be ignored, but should be able to be mentioned in a hopefully engaging yet tasteful way.

Our Chinese lady friends should realise also that I'm from a Western society, where sexual matters are more openly discussed. So no, I'm not some sort of predatory deviant, just a hopefully normal, healthy man who fell in love with a normal, healthy and lovely lady. (inlove)

#2014-10-09 08:25:52 by sunlady2011 @sunlady2011

祝贺Barry和 Tina终于可以让人看到了幸福的希望,记得当初Barry说,来中国以后,可能会见不止一个LADY,如果真是这样的话,你们今天或许也没有这样能相爱的走在一起,所以,爱情是专一的.Barry应该感谢哪些没有见你的女士,再次祝贺你们!

#2014-10-09 09:28:03 by chengcheng72 @chengcheng72

校长太逗了,他说这些照片不是BARRY 和TINA 的,笑死我了。

#2014-10-09 11:43:50 by Barry1 @Barry1

@sunlady2011

"remember when Barry said after coming to China, may meet more than a LADY"

Thanks for your kind thoughts, Sunlady2011.

Yes, when I first came to this site, I had every intention of visiting China and then meeting several ladies on the one trip.

But then as the time came closer, I changed my mind. I didn't want to treat the ladies like pieces of fruit in a supermarket, where I flitted from one to one, inspecting each one individually. This idea no doubt would sit comfortably with many people, but when push came to shove, it was not for me.

I had too much respect for the ladies to do that. It just didn't seem the right - the chivalrous - thing to do. Yet I'm cognisant that in many ways it makes good economic sense. So good luck to those who pursue this path.

And very best wishes to you, Sunlady2011. :)

#2014-10-09 11:47:07 by Barry1 @Barry1

@chengcheng72

"he said these pictures are not TINA and BARRY"

Yes, John perceptively realised that it wasn't Tina and I in these photos, Chengcheng72. Even though I'm sure Tina would've looked good in them, I'm much too ugly for shirtless close-ups like these, so I had to show other people in them! (giggle)

#2014-10-09 13:02:48 by lydiawen @lydiawen

Barry:)What a wonderful sharing for your romantic story(y)what a perfect spouse God done! (f)(h)(y) I can't wait to see your wedding pics, when are you going to marry Tina?(beer)(^)(d)(party)(f)(poolparty)
You said"I can therefore see no good or substantial reason why such prurient details should be omitted, providing they’re given in good faith, without overly gratuitous or unnecessarily salacious embellishment".(inlove)Yes, same here,sex is great blessing to a healthy sexual relationship,to physical, psychological, spiritual.
(h) “Barry, if I was a little younger, I’d love to have a baby with you.” I am sure that Tina love you so much, this is true love! she is the best for you,she is perfect for you,you and Tina are blessed by God, many blessing to you(f)(f)(f)

#2014-10-09 14:27:57 by Belle77 @Belle77

Hi Barry, are you in honeymoon now? I think you must be crazily in love with Tina now
I am so happy for you and Tina.
Cheers!

#2014-10-09 16:55:51 by Barry1 @Barry1

@lydiawen

"you and Tina are blessed by God, many blessings to you"

Thank you so much for your kind words of support and encouragement, Lydiawen.

I've long held the view that nice people write nice comments and most certainly, you are one of these caring people.

It's wonderful also to see that you believe as I do, that sex is a great and important glue that helps hold two people together, on many different levels.

I sincerely wish you well and trust and hope that you also can soon (if you haven't already done so) find the love of your life. :)

#2014-10-09 16:59:11 by Barry1 @Barry1

@Belle77

"are you in honeymoon now?"

Thanks for your comments, Belle77.

The answer to your question is - sorry, I can't answer it.

You see, this story is part of a continuing series, so anything still could - and most probably will - happen.

So you'll have to keep reading this long and somewhat convoluted series to find out what happens in the end, sorry about that, Belle77. (giggle)

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