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Barry from Australia is a questioning soul who looks at social issues from an alternative point of view and instead of asking, “Why?”, he asks “Why not?” He’s convinced that many of his previous incarnations were spent in China. He feels drawn to the people there; attracted by their rich culture and way of life. If given one wish from God, he’d reply, “I want everyone on Earth to be the same colour, speak the same language, and treat each other as they themselves would like to be treated.”
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My China Trip - Day 19 Part 1 我的中国之行---第19天第1部分    

By Barry Pittman
6843 Views | 30 Comments | 7/11/2014 2:43:00 PM
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#2014-08-07 20:37:47 by Nekko @Nekko


To the question: "What was Tina pointing at"

You replied:Tina at this moment was asking me to please come forward and kneel down by the water's edge...............blah blah.

No Barry, this is the training that you go trough now. Tina wants you to kneel and ask her an important question ! Wake up Barry.
Or maybe she just likes to see you kneel. At least then she does not have to look up at you in such a steep angle to see the diner plates eyes.

I noticed on the photos that Tina put on weight since you are together. My estimate is
128 grams. This makes her overweight by her standards of course. LOL.


#2014-08-07 22:22:09 by yiyun2519 @yiyun2519

haha,ok,so Massage ,did you ?then no more than massage ?????(giggle)

#2014-08-08 01:30:49 by anonymous11366 @anonymous11366

Barry, oh no you are in trouble now mate, you are letting her tell you which photos you can keep of her? If that was my camera she could choose which ones she is okay with for the blog but nothing more, at least you still dress the way you like....(giggle)

I have a question that maybe you could shed some light on: As most western men tend to be old time romantics and I am sure you are as well, does Tina have a grasp of the concept of romance? I have found the majority of Chinese women I have met have no clue as to what romance is. I look forward to your reply here. I would ask Imi but he is in la la land....


#2014-08-08 13:30:49 by Barry1 @Barry1


"If that was my camera"

This is the problem, Anon11366 - it's Tina's camera that I'm using! :D

As far as romance go, this is an interesting point. My experience leads me to think that Western women tend to demand romance more than Chinese ladies. I agree with you here.

I'm sure Chinese ladies would appreciate it of course, but I think Western men don't have to be so overtly romantic when courting them. This is another reason why I prefer Chinese ladies - they're not so demanding and arrogant as many Western ladies are.

#2014-08-08 13:34:55 by Barry1 @Barry1


"so Massage ,did you ? then no more than massage ??"

Thanks for your enquiry, Yiyun2519.

Let me say that yes, Tina and I are now making love. I don't like to write this so plainly in my articles, but since you've asked, I must tell you the truth.

So yes, we're now in a physical relationship as well as an emotional one. She is such a sweet lady. I don't know what she sees in me. (f)

#2014-08-08 13:36:59 by Barry1 @Barry1


You have a very keen eye as well as an advanced sense of humour, Nekko. I bet you're a great guy to know in real life. An amusing and interesting guy indeed.

Well done, mate! :D(y)

#2014-08-09 15:42:02 by yiyun2519 @yiyun2519

Unbelieve ,Barry,u answer me so directly and so honest...(giggle)errrrrr,i have to tell you honestly,it's because one of my friends did a bet with me about u and Tina if have sex in china,........and now, seems she win a dinner from me......hehe...
oh,Barry,u really a very brave and honestly man....if our naughty question offend you,we say sorry to you.....
and,wish u and Tina the best ,from our heart.....:):)

#2014-08-10 01:47:53 by anonymous11396 @anonymous11396

hmmmm...what does Tina see in you? Very good question mate!

I think we all know "one" reason why(giggle) I mean she did tell you that western men have bigger ones than Chinese men...:D

Aside from that..... maybe she sees a man of her dreams in you, maybe the fact that you travelled to so far to be with her.....maybe the fact that you and her are both athletic minded..... maybe because you are a good human being and you were both in love with each other from the first meeting here on CLM.

Barry remember one thing.... you are a western man, you are a highly sought after man.... Tina is lucky she found "you". She knew she wanted you and went after you full force.... do not forget that, it is not just you going after her.... you are the "sun", she is the "sunlight"... one does not happen without the other.....

If you do not stay with her and she stay with you either in China or Australia I will come over there, get a ladder climb up it and give you a nose twist and an eyepoke aka Monty Python...

You and Tina are living the dreams of many men and women on this site....

Cheers Mate!

P.S. was there ever another man called "George" or was that a ruse on her part? (rock)

#2014-08-10 11:33:52 by Barry1 @Barry1


"seems she win a dinner from me"

I am very glad your friend is going to get a nice dinner from you, Yiyun2519. (rofl)

Please don't worry about your question though, it wasn't naughty. I would have asked the same thing. So everything is fine. (y)

#2014-08-10 11:42:15 by Barry1 @Barry1


"she did tell you that western men have bigger ones than Chinese men"

You are very smart, Anon11396. I agree with just about everything you said, thank you.

"you are the "sun", she is the "sunlight"... one does not happen without the other..... "

Wow, what wisdom. I hope you don't mind if I quote this sometime in the future? It's a great way of visualising the situation.

"was there ever another man called "George" or was that a ruse on her part?"

George does in fact exist. I spoke to him. He is a very nice man. Several years younger than me as well. I really do wish him all the best. I'm sure he must've felt very sad when he lost Tina to me.

Both Tina and I think about him from time to time and sincerely wish him all the best. He's a client here on CLM, so hopefully he'll find a very good partner here to replace Tina. I've been in his situation before so I feel his pain. :S

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